Makhe sijonge kwicala elithethayo loko umama aphuphayo ngalo
- ukulala malunga nomama kuthetha isilumkiso malunga neengozi ezayo. Kuyafaneleka ukuphulaphula ilizwi lakhe, ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngamaphupha, apho athetha khona into, kukho intsingiselo. Ukuba wayethule, ngoko unokulindela ingxaki kuyo nayiphi na indawo yobomi;
- Ukuba ephupheni, unyoko ukhangelekile, uyagula, kwaye uyaxwayiswa malunga neengxaki ezinkulu ezikufutshane. Ngokwenene, oku kuhambelana nobomi bomntu, intsapho, izalamane. Kodwa kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele kunye nasemsebenzini, njengokuba kunokwenzeka ukungaphumeleli kumsebenzi, kuya kubakho ukuguquka ekulahlekelweni kwendawo yokusebenzela;
- amaphupha omama owafa - nangona lo mfanekiso, lo luphawu oluhle. Ulindele iindaba ezivuyayo, ukudibana nabahlobo bamandulo. Ubomi bentsapho, yonke into iya kuba yinto efanelekileyo, ukuba kungekho ziingxaki kwintsapho, ngoko umtshato uya kuqiniswa. Ngamantombazana, oku kuthetha ukuthandana, abaza kuhlangana nabo ngokukhawuleza;
- iphupha ngoomama, apho ehleka khona, athetha ngezinto ezinobubele kwikamva elizayo. Ungalindela ukwanda komsebenzi, umzekelo. Ubomi bodwa, ngamantombazana abangatshatanga, ngokukhawuleza uya kunikwa isandla kunye nentliziyo, fumana uthando lwakho;
- xa ebiza wena-ibonisa ukulahlekelwa yenkxaso evela kubahlobo kunye nabaqhelana nabo;
- Ndaphupha umama ekhala - ixesha elide neengxaki ezincinci kwintsapho kunye nasekhaya ziya kukukhathaza wena nabathandekayo bakho;
- xa uzibona njengomntwana omncinane kunomama wakho - uphawu lokuba awunawo amandla okwaneleyo okujamelana neengxaki ezenzekile;
- Unina womntu osondelene nawe waphupha isilumkiso sokuba omnye wabahlobo bakho uya kuba neengxaki. Uya kucelwa ukuba uncede ekuxazululeni ubunzima obuye bavela. Xa kunqatshelwe ukubonelela ngoncedo, imiphumo emibi ingalindelwa;
- Ukuhamba naye ephupheni - kwixesha elizayo kungekudala iziganeko ezilungileyo. Kukho nantoni na, ukusuka kwinto engalindelekanga kubahlobo okanye kwiintsapho kunye nokwandisa umvuzo emsebenzini;
- Umphupha waphupha umama onxilisayo - akayi kulungela nantoni na, okokuqala okokuba umzali ngokwakhe, ukuba unina uphila. Mhlawumbi ufuna inkxaso, kodwa akafuni ukukukhathaza ngeengxaki zakhe. Ukuba ufile-ke unokulindela ukungavumelani kwintsapho, ukuxabana nomyeni wakhe okanye umfazi.
I-archetype yomama yenye yeyona nkxalabo. Kwiincwadi zephupha unokufumana ezininzi iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeenguqu ezifanayo. Inyaniso kukuba umfanekiso oza kuthiwa ephupheni, ngaphezu kwebala elikhanyayo, unemiba emnyama. Lo mntu uqobo kwaye unokuba ngenxa yobuhlobo obuhle kunye nabazali kwixesha elidlulileyo. Ngokomzekelo, wawuxhatshazwa ngokugqithiseleyo, okanye kukho ubundlobongela nobukrakra kwintsapho. Ukuba kunjalo, ngoko lo mfanekiso kwiimeko ezininzi kufuneka udibaniswe necala elibi, elingahambi kakuhle. Yaye ukuba yonke into iyahlukileyo, kwaye umama uthetha inyaniso yezinto ezintle, ngoko unokuzikhusela ngokufanelekileyo imifanekiso enjalo.