Ngaba kufanelekile ukuxhalaba xa unina wayefike ephupheni

Intsingiselo yephupha apho umama oshonile
Kwiincwadi ezininzi zokuphupha kunye neenkolelo, ugogo uyisimboli sobulumko, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo uhlalisa ukunyuka kobunzima, ukuphazamiseka kwempilo. Kodwa ungayichaza njani amaphupha apho umntu ongumntu ongumntu oshonile evele evele? Ziziphi iinguqu zokulindela ebomini, ukuba ugogo wayephupha? Izimpendulo ezichanekileyo zalo mbuzo zifumaneka kweli nqaku.

Ziziphi iinguqu ezenziwa ngu-sonny, ukuba iphupha lokufa likagogo?

Umfanekiso wegogo osemva ephupheni udlalwa njenge-premontion of events ezibalulekileyo ebomini bakho bokwenene. Eli phupha lithetha ukuba ngokukhawuleza uza kufuneka ubhekane neengxaki kunye nobunzima, okungeke kube lula ukunqoba. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, ukuba isihlobo esisilumko okanye ukuqhelana naso sisondele kuwe, imeko iya kugqitywa ekukhanyeni okukufanayo.

Kwezinye iincwadi zephupha, umntu unokufumana ukutolika ngokubhekiselele kuyo iphupha ngombala oshonile kubonisa ukuba ufuna inkxaso. Kwamahlombe akho, ubunzima obuninzi kunye neengxaki zemihla ngemihla ziye zagqitywa, nto yodwa enzima ukujamelana nayo yodwa.

Ubaluleke ngokukhethekileyo ukuchazwa okuchanileyo yintliziyo yowesifazane nentetho yakhe, ekubhekiswe kuyo. Ukuba ugogo ephupheni ukwabelana ngeememori, into ephilileyo ixelela, kuyimpawu yeendaba ezimnandi kunye neentloni. I-Nravonucheniya kunye nokunganeliseki kunokuthetha ukuba uziphatha ngendlela engafanelekanga, ungumntu ongendawo kunye onenkohliso. Ukuva iingcebiso ezivela kuye ephupheni, ngoko zonke iindlela zisebenzise ngokwenene. Ukungayithobeli oku kungonakalisa kakhulu ishishini lakho kunye nolwalamano kwiintsapho.

Ukubona ugogo ovuyokileyo ephupheni, ukumomotheka kwakhe kukubonakalisa ukuba utshintsho oluthile luya kwenzeka kungekudala kwintsapho yakho (ngakumbi iintsapho zentsapho yakhe). Ukubona ugogo onomsindo, okhukisayo kwiphupha kuthetha ukuvela kweemeko ezinzima kunye nokuxabana kwintsapho. Kwakunokwenzeka ukukhala ephupha likagogo ofile - balinde ububi, mhlawumbi ukulahleka. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu baphendukela kubaguquli beliphupha kuba babona abahlaziyi bomfi. Ngaloo ndlela, akukho ukutolika malunga nobomi bomphuphi, kodwa oku kuwuphawu olucacileyo lokuba umntu ofileyo akafumani indawo kwezinye ihlabathi.

Ezinye iinguqulelo zamaphupha apho ugogo olahlekileyo ephupha

Ukuba ephupheni unina kamva unikela ngemali, ngoko ikhuthaza inzuzo ekhawulezayo, ukwanda kwimivuzo, ukwanda kwenzuzo. Ukunika imali ephuphayo kwizandla zomntu ofileyo uthi ukuthengwa okukhulu (umzekelo, imoto okanye i-real estate) iphela ngekona. Ezi nguqulelo ezifanayo zingasetyenziswa kwakhona kwimeko apho wamkela okanye wanikeza isipho.

Ukuzibamba okanye ukumbamba umfazi wakho-intlungu, iintlungu. Njengoko kuboniswe kwabanye abavakalisi, iinyembezi nezimo ezimbi ziya kubangelwa zizizathu ezingabalulekanga, umzekelo, iinkumbulo.

Ukufunga ngegogo okanye ukutshixa kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kugula kakhulu. Esi sifo siya kuqhubeka ngendlela elula, kodwa, ngenhlanhla, akukho ziphumo ziya kulandelwa.

Njengoko uyakubona, ukuba ugogo ugqotha, ngoko, njengommiselo, kwixesha elizayo elizayo unokulindela into efanelekileyo. Ngento edibeneyo, kwiincwadi zephupha ayibhaliweyo kwaye nayiphi na inzululwazi ayibonakalwanga. Ngaba umntu ongowokuzalwa, nangona umntu oshonile, uzama ukusinceda ngale ndlela? Akukho mntu uyazi ...