Amaphupha ama-Erotic ayenziwe malunga nawo onke amabhinqa namadoda. Kule nto ayikho into emangalisayo, kwaye nangona kunjalo, engavamile. Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba amaphupha okhuphayo aphuphayo abo baneengxaki zesenzo socansi. Isizathu saloo migwebo ngokuyininzi saba ngumdla wabantu kunye neemfundiso zikaFrud, obani bonke babone uhlobo oluthile lwezesondo. Enyanisweni, akufanele uthembele isazi senzululwazi owaziwayo kwaye usebenzise i-psychoanalysis kuyo yonke into elandelayo. Inyaniso kukuba iphupha elidityanisayo kunye nemifanekiso kwiminyaka engamashumi asithoba anesithoba ekhulwini, ithetha nantoni na, kodwa ingekho iingxaki zobomi besondo.
Enyanisweni, iphupha elikhuselayo elinemizekelo libonakaliswa ngongcamango lweengxaki zakho. Njengoko uyazi, ubuchopho bomntu bathanda ukugqoka iingxaki ezahlukeneyo namava kwimifanekiso ethile. Iphupha ngalinye linentsingiselo yalo. Amaphupha aphuphayo ayenjalo. Zichaza iingxaki ezahlukeneyo ebomini babantu. Emva koko, siya kuthetha malunga nendlela yokumisela amaphupha anjalo.
Unicex uthando
Ngokomzekelo, abaninzi baphupha amaphupha abuhlungu malunga nendlela abathanda ngayo ummeli wabo wesini. Ukuba umntu obona iphupha, isiqhelo sesithethe, ngoko imizekeliso yengqondo ibhekisela ekungafihla ubungqingili. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amaphupha anjalo aphupha ngalabo abaneengxaki kunye nomhlobo okanye intombi, oko kukuthi, umntu osondelene naye. Kuyinto engenakwenzeka isisombululo sabo esikhokelela ekubeni umntu uqala ukubona la maphupha.
Umzamo ongaphumeleli
Amaphupha amaninzi aphuphayo, apho azama ukujongana nomlingane kunye nesondo, kodwa oku kuhlale kuthintela into; ngokukhawuleza kukho iindwendwe ezingahambelwanga, ngoko iqabane libhekiselele kwiimeko ezibalulekileyo kwaye linyamalale. Iphupha elinjalo lifanekisela iinzame zokusombulula imeko enzima ebomini, ukwenza into ethile. Ukuba uphupha amaphupha anjalo, ngoko ufuna ukufumana into ethile, kodwa awuyi kuphuma. Xa ingxaki ixazululwe, loo maphupha akayi kukukhathaza kwakhona.
Ubudlova
Ubundlobongela ngamaphupha obuthakathaka bukhona kulabo bantu abahluphekileyo kwabanye. Abahlali bengakhululekile kwaye bengakhululeki kuluntu apho bahlala khona. Unokuxhalabela bobabini osebenza nabo, kunye nezihlobo ezinomsindo ezihlala ziphila kunye neengcebiso kunye nokuziphatha kwazo. Ukubeka nje, xa uphila ngobomi bunobugebengu obudlwenguliweyo, ngamaphupha kuya kuba ngugonyamelo lwezesondo.
Ulahlekile phakathi kwesihlwele
Ukuba uphupha ukuba ubuze kwindawo kawonkewonke, kuthetha ukuba kukho izono kuwe kwaye ukwesaba ukuba umntu uyazi malunga nabo. Xa uhamba uhamba phakathi kwesihlwele ephupheni, unentloni kwaye uzama ukufihla, ngoko ngethuba lobuchopho bakho buba ziimpawu ezinobungqina obunamandla bokubonakaliswa. Ukuze ulahle loo maphupha, kufuneka uvume ukuba wenze okanye ufumane enye indlela yokuzolalisa isazela sakho.
Isondo kunye nabazali
Xa abantu bephupha ngokulala nomnye wabazali babo, bahlala bewahlambalaza baze baqale ukuzicingela. Enyanisweni, akukho nto iyingozi kwaye iphosakeleyo kumaphupha abo, kuba zithetha ukuba umntu ufuna ngokwenene ukwenza ubungane nomntu owaziwayo kunye onamandla. Abazali bathengisa. Yaye xa sifuna ubungani kunye nothando lomntu onokuba ngumnye umphathiswa kuthi, ingqondo engqondweni ingabonakalisa imifanekiso enjalo.
Isini esingavumelekanga
Yaye uhlobo lokugqibela lwamaphupha - amaphupha angavumelekanga kuni iintlobo zesini. Ngomntu ngamnye elo phupha lilodwa. Kumntu umntu uphupha ngesondo kunye nomzalwana, umntu-malunga nesondo nomntu omdala okanye omncinci njalo njalo. La maphupha abonisa ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo ebomini bakho omele ubeke kuyo, kodwa ayimkelekanga ingqondo yakho kunye nesimo. Uvalelwa kukuba awukwazi ukutshintsha nantoni na, kwaye ubuchopho bakho bukunika amaphupha angamangalisiyo ofuna ukucinga ngawo okwenzekayo kwaye uzama ukufumana indlela yokuphuma kwimeko.