Iingxoxo "ngokuba"
Intuthuzelo yengqondo yinto yonke. Ngexesha leenyanga zokuphuhliswa kwe-intrauterine, umntwana wasetyenziselwa ukunqonkqoza intliziyo kayise, kwaye, ngokulala nomama osondeleyo, ukufumana isabelo sakhe soqhagamshelwano oluxhamlayo (ukubetha), uzive ekhuselwe. Oku, kudala, kwakha izinga eliphezulu lokuthembela kwihlabathi, elikhusela umntwana ngokuxhomekeka kunye nokwesaba (kuquka ukwesaba kobumnyama). Umama uphinde "kwi-" plus ": i-intuition kunye ne-instinct yomama ikhula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ukuxhalaba kubonakala. Okubaluleke ngokukodwa ukuphupha okuhlangeneyo kwimeko apho umama waqala ukuya emsebenzini (unceda ukujamelana nengqiqo yecala phambi kweemvuthu kunye nokwenza ulwaphulo lomhla wolwazi).
Umgangatho wobuthongo - kunye nosana, nomama. Ngomama "ngaphantsi kwephiko" umntwana ukhawuleza aze aphele ebuthongweni obukhulu. Ukongezelela, ngexesha lexesha lokuthinteka (ukuguquka ukusuka kwelinye iqanaba lokulala komnye), liphindaphindiwe nganye kwiyure okanye ezimbini, umntwana akayi kutyhubela, kuba ubukho bamama bubanika uphawu: "Yonke into ithule, ulala." Umama naye akadingeki ukuba ahlale eqalela-kwaye imfuno yeemvuthu ezisondezayo iyaneliseka ngokukhawuleza, kwaye iphupha aliphuli.
Ukuzinza kobugcisa
Njengoko uyayazi, ubusuku bokutya okudlwengulwayo bubangelwa ukuba kulungiswe ixesha elide lokuncelisa (ngokusebenzisa i-hormone i-oxytocin kunye neprolactin). Ngokulala ngokubambisana, le nkqubo ilula kakhulu, kwaye ama-hormone amaninzi akhululwa - ngoko umama uphendule ngokububula nokukhwaza izicucu ezizithandayo.
Ukufudumala. Kwi-thermoregulation esandul 'ukuzalwa iseka kusekwa, ngoko kunzima kakhulu ukutshintsha kweqondo lokushisa ngexesha lokulala komntwana kunye nonina. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo awuyi kubanda kunye no-mama!
Kuyingozi. Uninzi kunabo bonke, unina ukwesaba ukunqanda umntwana ephupheni, kodwa iingcali zithi le ntswelo ayikho. Okokuqala, umntu unengqiqo engumngcipheko wemimandla (okumenza ahlale ehla ebhedeni - kunye nesimo somzimba sitshintsha kwiphupha ukuya kumaxesha angama-50!). Okwesibini, kukho okubizwa ngokuba ngumama ophezulu (ukugxilwa kwengqondo engqondweni), okwenza ukuba umama alale. Iingcamango zamabali amangalisa malunga nokuhlanjululwa komntwana yifa elibi eliphakathi kweMinyaka Ephakathi, xa, ngenxa yezinga eliphantsi leyeza, ukufa kwabantwana kwanda, kwaye isizathu sibonakala kwiphupha elidibeneyo lomntwana kunye nonina (ngoko kumazwe amaninzi aseYurophu kwii-XVI-XVIII iinkulungwane kwanomthetho owenqabelayo wawususwe).
Akungcolile. Ngaphandle kokuba abazali balala embhedeni zabo kwaye bangaze bahlambe. Ukongezelela, kuhlale kunokwenzeka ukubeka iphepha elihlukileyo kwiimvumba. Nangona iintsana sele zikhuselekile ngokukhuselekileyo kwiinkcibhobho ezivela kwiintsholongwane kunye ne-immunoglobulins ukusuka kubisi lwebele oluvela kumama.
Umntwana akayi kulala ngokuzimeleyo kwaye uya kukhula ngokuxhomekeke ekubuthweni okuhlangeneyo kwonyana kunye nonina. Oku kwenzeka kuphela xa inkqubo ilibazisekile (ngokuphindaphindiweyo evela kumondli womama). Ukuba sibheka ubuthongo obubodwa njengentswelo yintsana ngexesha elithile, kuyacaca ukuba kungekudala okanye kamva kuya kuphuma - kunye nokuncelisa.
Kwaye kuthekani ngesondo? Enyanisweni, ubulili kunye nomntwana kuyahambelana kakhulu - kukho ukhetho. Ungayifaka umntwana ngokuhlwa kusibhedlele sakho, kwaye ebusuku uthabathe kwisicelo sayo sokuqala, unokufumana elinye ixesha okanye indawo yokudlala imidlalo.
Imithetho emine ekhuselekileyo yokulala kunye
1. Umntwana akalala phakathi kwabazali (upapa akanalo obalaseleyo - "umlindi"), kodwa phakathi komama nodonga.
2. Abazali - ngengqondo ecacileyo: utywala kunye nezinye "iindidi" (kubandakanywa nezidalwa) ezingabandakanywa! Yaye ungagqithisi kakhulu - inokukhupha ubuthongo obunzulu.
3. Ubhede bubanzi ukuze wonke umntu akhuphe. Kumgca walo ungafakwa kunye nekholeji yokukhusela.
4. Ngaphandle kokugqithisa! Akukufanelekanga ukumbamba umntwana - umzimba wam umama unikeza ubushushu obushushu.
ILizwi kwizenzululwazi
Kubonakala ukuba ukuvuselela okuqhubekayo, ukukhusela ekubuthongeni ngokubambisana, kuqinisekisa ukusebenza okungaphazamisekiyo kwendawo yokuphefumula, ukunciphisa amathuba okuzalwa kwintsana yokufa yintsana (SIDS). Isifundo sokuqala kwesi sihloko senziwa ngo-1992 ngumbhangqwana waseSerz (usebenzisa umzekelo weentombi zabo): ngexesha lokulala kwisikhumba, izicatshulwa zifunyenwe izifo ezingasebenzi ezingama-53 zokuphefumula kunye nentliziyo yesiqhelo kwiiyure ezingama-6, kwaye xa umntwana elala nonina, kwakungekho! Abanye abaphandi ngokubanzi bacinga ukuba i-SIDS "isifo sempucuko" -yenzeka kuphela kwintlalo ephucukileyo, apho umntwana udlalwa ngokuqhagamshelana ngokupheleleyo nabazali.