1. I-alfabhethi yentsapho iqala ngesivakalisi "thina".
Umntu ngamnye umfazi kufuneka afake "I" wabo kunye nabo bonke ukuba baqonde, benze nokwakha ubomi babo kwi-"WE". Ukuqwalasela lo mgaqo kuya kuncedisa ngokubanzi ubomi bentsapho ngonwabe, ukuqonda ngokufanayo, uvuyo.
2. Khawuleza ukuphinda uhlaziye.
Emva kokwenza umsebenzi omhle, khawuleza ukanti wenze okulungileyo kumlingane, kwintsapho. Kuza kuzaliswa ngonwabo kungekuphela kwabo abo kukho okulungileyo, kodwa naye owenza okulungileyo.
3. Yeka ngomsindo.
Umgaqo osisilumko-musa ukukhawuleza ukuthulula umsindo, ukucinga, ukuqonda imeko, ukuqonda nokuxolela umlingane.
4. Kwimeko nayiphi na imbambano, ungamangaleli umlingane (y), kodwa khangela isizathu sakho.
Ulawulo lweengqondo oluqinileyo nolunzulu. Ngengqiqo yokwenene, kokubili ubudlelwane bobudlelwane bomtshato kunye neemeko eziphathekayo, bobabini bahlala becala ukuba batyala, kwaye ukuba kukho ukungahambisani nendawo apho omnye wabafazi abatshatyalaliswa khona, ke umhlaba wokuba ungaphathanga ngokubambisana nawo omnye umlingane.
5. Inyathelo ngalinye elilinganayo lilingana neentsuku ezininzi zovuyo, inyathelo ngalinye kude nentsapho, kumlingane - ukuya kwiintsuku ezininzi ezibuhlungu.
Kwiintsapho ezincinci, ngokuqhelekileyo zenzeke ngokuchasene - le mbambano ixabana, kwaye akukho namnye kubo ofuna ukuthatha inyathelo phambili, elinde omnye ukuba akwenze. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kunzima nakakhulu: esebenza ngomgaqo othi "undenzele into embi, kodwa ndiya kukubandezela," njengoko bathi "izinyo ngezinyo." Konke oku kukhokelela ekungaboni ngaso lentsapho kwintsapho.
6. Ilizwi elihle lilungile, kodwa into elungileyo yinto engcono.
Kakade, yonke indawo into enhle ilungile kunokuba lihle. Kodwa kulwalamano lwentsapho, ngamanye amaxesha igama elilungileyo lithetha akukho ngaphantsi kwesenzo esihle. Ngendlela, kungekuphela nje umfazi "othanda indlebe," indoda ifuna ukuvavanywa kumfazi, indumiso kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, kukuba nguye uninzi kakhulu.
7. Ukukwazi ukuthabatha indawo yomnye, kodwa kufanelekile ukuma yedwa kule meko.
Uxanduva lwezenzo zakhe, ukwamkelwa kokutshatyalaliswa komntu, ukungalunganga komntu kuyisakhono esingazimele ngokwaso, kufuneka sibe nesineke kwaye siqhubeke sikhuliswe ebuntwaneni.
8. Lowo ongakholelwayo akakholelwa.
Ulwalamano lwentsapho lwakhiwe ngokuthembana. Kubalulekile ukuhlakulela umnqweno wokugcina le ntembelo, ukulilungisa.
9. Yiba ngumhlobo wabahlobo bakhe (abahlobo) bakhe, ngoko abahlobo bakho baya kuba ngabahlobo bakhe.
10. Akukho mntu ufuna ukuthanda umamazala noninazala, kodwa balungele ukuthanda oomama ababini.