Iintsuku ezandulela nayiphi na iholide ukujika zibe yiintsuku zokulindela nokulindela. Yiyiphi na ixesha eliya kuba? Ngelishwa, akubona bonke abantu abakwazi ukubonelela isipho kumfazi wabo. Amanye amalungu esondo esomeleleyo ngokukholelwa ukuba uthando alufuneki ukuqinisekiswa ngezipho. Ngoko ke kufuneka uyenze ntoni ukuze uthole isipho kuloo suku olungalibalekiyo?
Iingcali zengqondo zithi amadoda angaboni amacebiso amabhinqa ayenzibuwula okanye ayingozi. Inyani kukuba ukuqonda kwesigxina esisinyanisekileyo sabantu asiqondi amagama njengabesifazane. Yaye ukuba isimangaliso kwiholide ayigqugquzeli imvakalelo yakho, umele utshele wakho othandekayo kwangaphambili into ethi "thandeka, ungakhathazeki, akukho mfuneko yenkxalabo". Amaxesha amaninzi amadoda anengqondo ngenxa yentswelo yokwenza ngendlela enhle kwaye engalindelekanga ukubonisa iimvakalelo zabo ngalo mhla. Emva kwamagama anjalo, mhlawumbi, uya kuphumla, aphephe ngokukhululekile aze acinge ngento ekhethekileyo, eqaqambileyo, ekhunjulwayo. Kubalulekile ukuba indoda ingalahlekelwa ngumnqweno wokuhambisa umfazi wayo uvuyo, kwaye le mvakalelo kufuneka isondle rhoqo, kwaye yenze kakuhle, ngokukhawuleza, kwaye impumelelo iqinisekisiwe.
Okokuqala, gcwalisa loo mntu ngeemvakalelo. Iingcali zengqondo zakha inkqubo yonke, uhlobo oluthile lobugcisa. Okokuqala, phakamisa izandla zombini ngaphezu kwentloko yakho, uphumelele emoyeni ngamandla, ngokungathi iimvakalelo ezimbi zikushiya ukuhamba komoya. Emva koko, ngexesha lokuphefumlela, qhagamshela iintendelezo zezandla zakho uze unciphise kwisifuba sakho, ubambe umoya wakho ngexesha elithile. Khawucinge ukuba umzimba wakho ugcwala nje uthando kwaye uzalise intliziyo yakho. Makube ngumlambo we-emerald kwiingcamango zakho. Ngoku khawucinge ukuba intando yakho ihamba phambi kwakho. Phinda kwakhona, yenza umkhuhlane oqinileyo, ngelixa ukhomba iintendelezo ezihambelana nomgangatho. Kulo mzuzwana, ukusuka entliziyweni ukuya ezandleni ze-emerald flow of love iya kuvela, kufuneka uvele ubeke icala kwicala lakho. Kukholelwa ukuba olu hlobo lokucamngca lukhuthaza kakhulu kumntu, uzive ephefumlelweyo.
Okwesibini, ilizwi lakho lithandayo. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba umnqweno kufuneka ube yinyani kumntu wakho kwaye uhambelane nobuchule bakhe, kungabi ngaphezu kwe-30%. Ukuba umntu obathandayo angakwazi ukuthenga isethi seengubo zangaphantsi, musa ukucela idayimane yeenqwelo ezininzi. Ukuba rhoqo ukukhumbuza umntu ukuba akahlangabezananga neemfuno zowesifazane kwaye akanako ukwanelisa izicelo ezifunwayo, umphumo uya kuba ngowomnye: umntu uya kuphuhlisa umgangatho wokungaphantsi. Iqabane elinomdla wecala alinakukuvuyisa.
Iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo zokucela umntu ukuba akunike isipho
Cinga ukuba uphupha ikhekhe. Tshela indoda yakho ngokukhawuleza, ngokuzithoba, ngothando kunye nokumomotheka. "Mzalwana, ndifuna imfesane efana neyayibona kwisitolo. Mhlawumbi uya kuninika yona? "Nangona uyayenqaba, zama ukuhlala ubumnene nohle, kutheni kungabi kubiza. Nangona kunjalo, ngezikhathi ezithile uyaba lusizi, ngokukhawuleza ukububula buhlungu. Kwaye ke, njengokungathi ngengozi, vuma kuye ukuba ingxowa ayiveli ekhanda lakho. Ndikholelwe, kuya kusebenza.
Khumbula njalo ukuba amadoda acinga ngokuthe ngqo, ngoko xelela ngesipho samaphupha akho ngeenkcukacha zonke: phi, yintoni, ubukhulu buni, yintoni umbala. Kuya kuba kuhle ukuba unokubonisa umfanekiso ochanekileyo wesipho sokuphupha.
Musa ukuba yinceku yomnqweno
Khumbula njalo ukuba umntu kufuneka enze isigqibo sakhe, makenze oko. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba ibhinqa lihlale lisesandleni sakhe, ngelixa intanda ethandekileyo isenza isigqibo kwaye ayiziphepheli. Kwaye ngoko ukuba izifiso ezingapheliyo zingenzi ubunzima obukhulu, fundisa ukuba zihambe ngokukhululeka. Ngaphandle koko, ubudlelwane bunokuba luphantsi koxinzelelo, oluya kudala ukulindela okungazalwanga, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo luya kuhlahloka. Nantoni na ebonisa umntu wakho, kubalulekile ukuthatha isipho sakhe ukwenzela ukuba umnqweno wokukholisa umfazi wakhe ngezipho engazange alahleke, kodwa womeleza kwaye wavuyisa. Ukubonisa iimvakalelo ezifudumele kunye nombulelo ngexesha lokufumana isipho yinto enamandla kunomntu, kuba ulindele ukuba ibhinqa liya kuxabisa isipho, ixesha elichithwe, imizamo kwaye, ukuba ivunyiwe, iya kuzama ukuqhubeka.