Ukuba awuyi kwenza imizamo yokwenza ubulili obungenakulibaleka kwaye obukhanyayo, ngoko uya kuhlala utyhafile ngumntu onjalo. Kakade, kufuneka uguqule into ethile. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka nje uzibuke kwisibuko kwaye uthethe ngokucacileyo: ukhangeleka njani xa udibana nomyeni wakho emsebenzini? Kwisitifiketi semidlalo endala, kwisigqoko sokugqoka, apho uziva ungenanto? Kule fom, awuyi kubukeka ulinga. Kufuneka uhlale unqwenela kwaye umhle kumthandwa wakho. Kuphela kufuneka uzithande kwaye uzive njengendlovukazi. Zithenge iigrawu zokugqoka i-silk, ziya kuhamba ngeefom zakho. Makube mfutshane ukuze imilenze ibonakale.
Ekhaya kwibini yebhantshi kufuneka usebenze kwiimpahla ezintle kwaye zihle. Lahla iikhati zezemidlalo ezindala kunye ne-t-shirts. Udinga ibhulukhwe yezemidlalo, iifutshane, izikhwepha, ii-T-shirts eziza kubakhokelela kwisibalo sakho, into oyifunayo kumfazi onothando onjengawe.
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Unxibelelana njani naye ngokuhlwa? Ngaba ufunda iphephancwadi okanye uxoxe kunye neentombi zakho kwifowuni iiyure kwaye ubukela iTV okanye uhleli emaphephandabeni kwinqanaba elincinane legumbi? Kodwa, ngoko loo nto ayiyi kuhamba. Ngakuphi ixesha lokugcina wena kunye nomthandayo wakho wayela ibhotile yewayini okanye ubukele i-movie? Xa, ekungene ekuhlambeleni, wahlutha i-backboard omnye komnye? Nangona kunjalo akukho namnye owenqabe umnikelo ovela kumfazi okhangelekayo, kuba ukuhlwa okunjalo kuya kupheliswa ngokulala ngesondo.
Uziphatha njani ebhedini? Mhlawumbi, ulindele iqela elivela kwicala lomyeni kwaye ungabonakali? Ngako-ke akumangalisi ukuba umyeni wakho ukhule ebandayo. Naliphi na umntu omele azive eyamkelekile. Yaye ukuba uziva ngathi idonsa ekulindeleke, akayi kuqonda ukuba ufuna okanye cha. Ngenxa yoko, unquma ukuba awufuni.
Ngoku ukuba uqala ukumanga nokumkhathaza, ngoko akayi kukwazi ukumelana nayo. Nangona wayesekunqwenela ubusuku obuhle kwaye waguquka. Uya kumangaliswa, kwaye uya kuthatha umdlalo ozithandayo. Yaye xa uthe wamnikela ukuba azame into entsha ngesondo, uya kuqala ukukuthanda kwakhona, uya kuba ngumfazi oyifunayo. Unganqikazi ukuthetha naye ngesondo. Emva kwakho konke, ukwazi iimfuno zomntu wakho omthandayo kwaye ujonge kuyo, kufuneka uxoxe naye.
Ungakulibali ukuvuma uthando lwakho, uthi ukuncoma kuye, ukumanga kumhlangano, unomdla kwiingxaki zakhe kunye nemicimbi, rhoqo ukuthetha. Ngoku siyazi indlela onokuba ngumfazi onqwenelayo, onqwenelayo. Ukulandela la macebiso amancinci, unokukhohlisa kwaye uyathandeka, kwaye loo ntokazi ayinakukwazi kwaye iyabuhlungu emva kweminyaka emininzi yobomi bomtshato.