Kuthiwa: "Cela, kwaye uya kunikwa." Kwaye kufuneka ndiyenze ntoni xa ndabuza, kodwa engakhange inikezwe, kuba ndifumene ukwenqaba, ngubani oya kukhetha ukusabela kwintlekele?
Zingaphi iziphakamiso eziluncedo ezibhalwe ngokutsha ngesihloko esithi: "Indlela yokufunda ukuthi" hayi "! Enyanisweni, ukuba baninzi, le ngxaki iphuthuma kakhulu: ngubani ofuna ukuba azive engenasifo kunye ne-softened body, evumela bonke ukuba basebenzise ubuthathaka babo? Kodwa kukho enye ingxaki ehambelana nalo gama lomlingo. Akunakunqotshwa , nangona kunjalo, akubalulekanga . Kwaye, ngokwenene, ufunda ukuva "akukho"? Yintoni endiyenzayo xa ndifumana ukungavumi, luphi uhlobo lokusabela kwiinkathazo? Emva koko, akusoloko kwenzeka njengoko sifuna. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuyahlukileyo: wena uyamkela - kwaye utsalwa ukuba "uze ngomso", biza umhlobo ngesicelo sokunceda-kwaye uthi "Ndiyaxolisa, andinako", wenza into engabonakaliyo kumntu omhle-kwaye unikezela "ukuba abe ngumhlobo" ... ukhethe ukuphendula kwintlekele? Emva koko, ukuba yonke irhafu yokwenqaba, ngubani oza kukhetha ukusabela kwinkathazo, indlela yokuqonda njengento eqhelekileyo yokufa, ekujoliswe kukugqiba wena, ungonwabi? Emva koko, i-neurosis enkulu ingakwazi ukufumana ixesha elide.
Leli lizwi elibi ... Okokuqala siya kuqonda: apho, ngokwenene, ziintlungu ezinkulu kunye namava athathwe? Yintoni eye isithintelayo ekuphenduleni ukungalahli, ukulibala kunye nomoya ozolileyo ukujonga ezinye iinketho? Okokuqala, ukufumana ukugatywa kubonwa njengento eqatha ngqo kwindawo enesisa kakhulu - ngokuzithemba. Kwimeko elula kakhulu yobuntwana, xa umama enqaba ukuthenga idodoli yokuthetha, akukhona nje ukungabikho kwamathoyizi angayinakunyulwa (kunye nomdla olinganayo, ungadlala ngokuthula), kodwa loo mama akanakuthandi ngokwaneleyo ukuzalisekisa umnqweno! Imali kuye, ke, iyabiza kwaye ibaluleke ngakumbi? Okwesibini, umphumo owaziwayo wobumnandi besityalo esinqatshelweyo usebenza.
Oko ungakufumani ngokukhawuleza kuya kuba mnandi. Emva koko, loo vhukwana, ebudeni bokugqibela abaphathi babethele omnye umqeshwa, ngokuqinisekileyo kwakukho kwiparadesi! Kwaye insizwa engafuni ukudibana nawe, khumbula kakhulu ngakumbi kunokuba oko kuzalisekisa yonke into yakho. Okwesithathu, siye saqeqeshwa "kukuba" imvume yokuba ubuthathaka, kunye nokugatya yindlela abantu abaphikayo babonakala bephezulu kwaye baphumelela. Yaye thina ngokwethu sinendima yabanxuseli abangenabungozi - ababuthathaka nabangabalulekanga. Awazi na, xa ufumana ukungavumi, luphi uhlobo lokusabela kwiinkathazo? Ndifuna ukuthulula iinyembezi ezibuhlungu zentukuthelo, mhlawumbi ukubuyisela, kwanomntu onqabela umntu ...
Hayi, akukho mvavanyo ! Ngoko ke, kungekhona into enqabekayo yokwenqaba, kodwa kubaluleke kangakanani kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu emehlweni ethu. Ukuqaphela oku, unokwakha ukuphendula okulula okuzikhusela. Kwimeko yokuqala: ukwenzela ukuba ungahlanjululwa yimiba yecala lokwaphulaphulayo kuwe, kunele ukuqonda ukuba isizathu sokwenqaba akusikho konke okubi okanye kungabalulekanga ngokwaneleyo. Lowo ongenzi nto kuwe, waqala, okokuqala, evela kwiminqweno yakho. Njengoko, ngokwenene, kunye nabantu abaninzi. Kwaye kuyinto engokwemvelo. Ngoko kuqhelekile ukuba kwakubaluleke kakhulu kumhlobo ukutyelela i-dochkin matinee kunokukunceda ukhethe i-microwave. Yaye ukuba wayenakho ixesha lokukhulula, uyavuma ukuba uyavuma. Kwimeko yesibini: kwi-intanethi yokufakela "intlanzi enkulu kunazo zonke-leyo eyawa phantsi kwinqanawa" inokupheliswa ngokuxhatshaza le ntlanzi encinci ngamathambo. Oko kukuthi, ukuhlalutya zonke iimpazamo zezinto. Uthando lwenu lokuqala xa luseenkedama ngonaphakade ngenxa yakho ithetha "awunamdla"? Mndwendwe ngoku, iminyaka emininzi kamva. Qinisekisa ukuba sele esele i-bald, umfazi wakhe ubona, kwaye kwi-melancholy badibana neentyatyambo zibuna ezimbizeni. Yaye ungavumeli ukungazaliseki! Kwimeko yesithathu: ungakholelwa umphumo we-optical, okwandisa ukukhishwa kwamehlo akho. Cinga nje: ngubani na othanda ukuphazamisa, ukukhusela kunye nayo yonke into ekhoyo "ukuyeka ukuhamba", njengezinto ezincinci, ezingenakubizwa ngokuba namandla onke kwaye ziphumelele?
Ngokukhawuleza nasominu nabesh ... Uyakhumbula ukufakelwa okuchazwe kwintsimi ebizwa ngokuba yi "Fox and Grape"? Le yenye yeendlela eziqhelekileyo zokukhusela ngokwengqondo. Ilula kwaye ilungile: "Uya kucinga, kwakungathandeki kakhulu! Abafuni - kuba bona ngokwabo bangabantu ababi, ama-radishes, ngelizwi! "Kwaye kufuneka ndithi xa ufumana ukungavumi, kwaye ke, kungekhona kuzo zonke iimeko, kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi le ndlela isebenza ngokwenene. Okokuqala, apho ngokwenene akufanele ukuphazamise amaninzi akho ukusuka ekuqaleni. Awuphendulanga kwisicelo sakho esitolo - zibi kakhulu, uya kuchitha imali kumashishini abo! Awuzange uthathe iprojekthi yakho eneetalente - kwaye ulungile, uthengise komnye umthengi, kwaye ubiza kakhulu. Uthotho luyindlela efanelekileyo yokuphendula ukugatywa. Kodwa musa ukuphula intonga: ukunyamezela okunetyhefu kunokunobunxu lumano.