Abalandeli abanamandla "inyaniso ebunzini"

Enyanisweni, sinesimo sengqondo esibini. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngokutsho kootatomkhulu bethu, "ihlabathi linamathela", kwaye kwelinye - "awuyi kujonga inyaniso kuwo onke amehlo." Ulwazi olunokwethenjelwa ngawe kunye nehlabathi elikujikelezayo lisoloko lilungele kwaye lihle.

Ukongezelela, ukuba ngaba yinkalo yeenyaniso ezibuhlungu, kunzima kakhulu ukuthatha "ipilisi" enjalo. Ngokukodwa xa sinikelwa abaxhamli abathandekayo 'benyaniso ebunzini.'


Kwabanamathela abathandekayo "inyaniso ebunzini" kukuthi "inyaniso-lyubka." Uyakuthanda kakhulu inyaniso, njengethuba lokwabelana ngalo, "ukuvula amehlo akho" kwabanye abantu malunga nabo bonke abangazibonanga ngokwabo. Ngokukodwa unomdla kumphumo wezokwelapha wokuthatha unyango olumunyu. Emva kokudibana nentombi etaweni yesitrato esandula kuba ngumama, wena, ujikeleza amehlo akho ukuba utyhawule, wuleza wamxelela indlela eyingozi ngayo, ngokungahambi kakuhle, wayenamafutha. Kwaye ngoko nangoko waqala ukucebisa ngokutya ngokumangalisayo kunye nokuzikhethela okukhethekileyo, ukongeza, nangona kunjalo, ukuba baya kufumaneka "kwizinto ezibuthathaka" kuphela xa ekugqiba ukunyusa umntwana ngesifuba.
Yaye xa umyeni womhlobo wakho ebenomtsalane kunye nobudlelwane obufutshane, wuleza wazisa umfazi okhohlisayo, kwaye wazisa bonke abaqhelekileyo malunga naloo ganeko waza wazisa umkhankaso wokusindisa intsapho.

Ibinzana eliqhelekileyo : "Ukunyamezela okwenene kunobungangamsha obuhle!" Enyanisweni ... Hayi, ngamanye amaxesha ayilona nto ingcono. Nangona kunjalo, ixesha elizayo, xa ubona wena, yiya ngaphesheya kwesitalato. Kodwa akakwazi ukumelana neqondo lehashe elifunyenwe "inyaniso ebunzini," umfazi okhohlwayo wathatha umthamo omkhulu weepilisi zokulala, kwaye ngokubonga ngethuba linelungelo le nto ayizange iphelise ngokukrakra ... Abalandeli abanamandla "abathandabuza inyaniso" bathambekele ngokunyanisekileyo ukuphumelela uthando kunye nentlonelo yabanye. Kwaye bathetha inyaniso enenzondelelo evela kwiinjongo ezilungileyo. Kodwa ekunqwenekeni kwabo ukunyaniseka, bahlala bengayithobeli "imibala". Enyanisweni, kutheni kukho amagama akhethekileyo okukhethayo, ixesha elifanelekileyo lokufuna, udibaniselwano lokulungiselela? Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukuthanda ukutyhila inyaniso enenzondelelo kunesizathu esingabonakaliyo. Imithombo yomnqweno wokutshisa emlilweni weemvakalelo ezipholileyo (nangona ukuba "imithi" kuyo - intlungu yomntu) ayiyikhanuko, ukungonwabi kwintliziyo kunye nokuba nemvakalelo emininzi yobomi.


"Pravdo Borka" ibhekisela kubalandeli abanamandla "inyaniso ebunzini." Uloyika nje iqela lakho elinobungane: uhamba kuyo yonke indawo, uqhuba imisebenzi ngexesha, kwaye njalo (!), Ukutshintsha ibhanti ngokungenakuqhathaniswa nabo bonke abangenalo inkululeko entsimini. Umnqweno wakho wenyaniso udlulisela ukubonakala koogxa kunye neengcamango zabo. Ngokomzekelo, kwanabuntwaneni obunzulu kwincwadi ekugcinweni kwendlu, uchithe ukuba "obomvu nokuluhlaza akudibaniswanga" kwaye - ubuncinane bambambe kwiLagerfeld kunye neCarden! Kwaye nabo basebenza nabo bazama ukubonakala kwinto enjalo emehlweni akho. Kwiintlanganiso, awuyi kukwazi ukwazisa wonke umntu malunga nento yonke ocinga ngayo ngokulibaziseka kwexesha elilodwa, malunga neempazamo eziqhelekileyo zenye, malunga ne "okungezona ubuchule" kweyesithathu ... Ibinzana eliqhelekileyo: "Simele silwe nenyaniso!" Enyanisweni ... Njengomthetho, abaxhasi abanobuqili beenyaniso - abantu abaqhelwanga ebomini. Okanye emsebenzini, imisebenzi yabo iyanqatshelwe kuphela imisebenzi yezobugcisa, okanye ekhaya ukuxubusha ngonaphakade umama-mfazi, akukho namakhaya akwamkela. Indlela yodwa yokutsala ingqalelo kukuqala ukulwa "inyaniso ebunzini." Kwaye, njengommiselo, akusikho umphumo omkhulu njengoko inkqubo ibalulekile. Kwiimeko zeklinikhi, kuza kumgaqo wokulamba indlala kunye nokulwa.


"Ukunyaniseka kwenyaniso" - omnye wabalandeli abanamandla "inyaniso ebunzini." Ngokuqhelekileyo usho nto encinci, kodwa uhlala ucinga nje. Xa umninawa wakho omdala enikezela ngesitya esenziwe ngesandla esisikiweyo ngesandla sosuku lokuzalwa kwakhe, wahleka ngqo ebusweni bomfazi omdala: "UThixo, mkhulukazi, ufumene phi le ndawo?" Yaye xa wakho umlingane ecela icebiso kwi-intengiso yakhe, wayeva : "Uyazi, ukudala akuyona indawo enamandla kakhulu. Ndandixakeka ngento elula kwaye ayingayi kuphazamisa kum okanye kubantu. " Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ulungile ngokuqinisekileyo: zombini umzobo ka-anti kunye nomzekelo wokuthengisa womntu osebenza naye wawungeyona nto. Kodwa ... ibinzana elithi: "Yintoni le? Ndathi inyaniso !!! "Enyanisweni ... Ukunyaniseka kunye nobuvila ngokomoya. Ewe, andifuni umntu "akhathazeke" ngendlela amazwi akhe angabonwa ngayo ngabanye! Inzuzo kuphela yale "inyaniso-ngqiqo" inokucingwa ukuba ukugxeka kwidilesi yabo bayathula. Musa nje ukuthatha amanye amagama abantu.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, wonke umntu unelungelo lokufumana ulwazi oluchanekileyo kwaye, ngaphezu kwakho konke, malunga naye. Kodwa awukwazi ukuthetha kuye. Ngako oko, akufuneki ukuba uzibophelele kwi nyaniso - awunawo amandla. Kwaye ke, ikuphi isiqinisekiso sokuthi inyaniso oyaziyo yinyani inyaniso?