Njengoko kwakusasa kusasa emsebenzini, xa yonke imisebenzi isenziwa, saqala ukuxoxa ngamadoda ethu. Ewe, ezininzi izihlandlo ebomini bakhe zihlala ziyimfihlo, kodwa imibuzo ebaluleke kakhulu yaqala ukuxoxwa ngayo. Ngaba umntu ngamnye unokutshintsha umfazi wakhe? Ngaba yonke intokazi ikholelwa indoda yakhe? Ukukhohlakeleka komntu othandekayo, ukungathembani kowesifazane-mhlawumbi akukho nto enye efunekayo ukuze kuchithe ubudlelwane.
Kukho uvakalelo lokuba onke amabhinqa namadoda ayaphila ubomi kunye, kuphela ukuze bahambe bodwa. Wonke umntu ukhetha isibini esivumelana naye kangcono, kwaye wonke umntu uphila ubomi bakhe, amadoda aguquka emva kwabasetyhini, afunge ngomntu abathandayo kwaye akaze athengise, anike izipho ezibizayo, kunye nabasetyhini bathi bayakuthanda, bamomotheka, bawamkele, ubanga, kodwa emphefumlweni abakholelwa.
- Kakade, kukho ukuhlala kunokwenzeka ukuba indoda iya kuhamba ngakwesobunxele, ungabondli isonka kuphela ngokunika isifuba sesine sesine kunye neenyawo ezindlebeni. Wonke umntu unako ukutshintsha, sele sele esezigeni zabo - uthe uGulka. - Kodwa umntu ngamnye uya kuhlala apho efudumele kwaye epholile, apho kukho umfazi wesibetho. Bafana nabanqobileyo, abafazi abaninzi abawunqobileyo, bhetele, bahamba phambili.
"Andiyikholwa ngamadoda," kutsho umlawuli we salon. "Siphila naye iminyaka emininzi, kwaye ndiyayivuma ingcamango yokuba unokutshintshisa okanye utshintshile kakade, kodwa ngandlela-thile ndithatha.
"Ngaba uneminyaka emininzi iminyaka, uyamthanda?"
- Ewe, ewe, ndiyamthanda, ngoko kutheni ukuba ube kunye, ukuba ungayithandi?
- Ukuba uyayithanda, kufuneka ukholelwe indoda yakho. Akunjalo? Uthando lu sekelwe kwithemba.
- Uthando lusekelwe ezintweni ezininzi, kungekhona kuphela ekuthembeleni. Ngezesondo, ngenkxaso, kwiintetho. Njengoko uGulka uthe, bonke abantu bangatshintsha. Ba no kukwazi. Kungenzeka ukuba akusiyo wonke umntu utshintsho, kukho ukungafani, kodwa kukho ezimbalwa. Ngoko ukuba akakho, nokuba yintoni na kwaye uhlala phi kum, ngokuba siye saye iminyaka emininzi, kwaye uyazi ukuba unikwe inkxaso kunye nokufudumala ebudala bakhe, xa efika ekhaya uyazi , ukuba ulindele isidlo esimnandi, ngoko akayi kuhamba naphi na.
"Kodwa ke ndiyakholwa ngothando oluqaqambileyo, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba umfana wam akayi kutshintsha, kuba uyandithanda," ndathetha ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba andizange ndibonwe.
- Owu, lahla umntwana, zonke izixhobo zamadoda. UGulka utshilo ngokufanelekileyo ukuba abondli isonka, anike ubukhulu besine, kwaye usenokukholelwa ukuba awuguquki. Ukuba awuguquki, akuthethi ukuba awuguquki.
- Ewe, unenkohlakalo, uLida - ndicaphukile, kwaye saqhubeka sisebenza. Usuku lwadlula, kwaye ndaqhubeka ndicinga ngamazwi kaLida. Ukhohlakele - yintoni ephosa abantu kule nyathelo? Ingaba nguwo umva womnqobi, ngehashe ngomkhonto, nangemva komfazi, eboshwe ngamaketanga. Kwaye indoda leyo ikhukhumele kwaye iyindoda, kwaye abafazi banomdla obhaliweyo ebusweni bakhe. Le yayingumcamango wam wokungcatsha kwabantu.
Kwaye ndacinga ukuba intombi yam yayitshintshile, kwaye yabuya yayixosha. Ewe, yiyiphi iphosakelo? Andizange ndibe nombono wokuthi unganditshintsha ngandlela-thile, wandithanda kakhulu, kwaye uyazi ukuba ndimthanda, nangona iimeko zifani, kodwa andinakucinga ukuba unokukwenza oko kum. Nangona kunjalo, emva kwendibano endiyifumanayo, ndandingakhululeki kakuhle. Nangona kunjalo, awaziyo umlingane wam, kunye nolwalamano lwethu, ngoko banokuphosakela, kwaye ngubani owamnika ilungelo lokugweba. Wonke umntu uthanda indlela yakhe, wonke umntu unenyaniso yakhe.
Emva kokudibana emva komsebenzi, ndambamba kakhulu, ndajongwa ngamehlo akhe. Phakathi kwabo ndandibona nje uthando kum, amehlo ezele uthando kum. Emva kweso siganeko, bekuya kuthetha ukuba ndicinga ukuba unokutshintsha. Ndaye ndaqiniseka ngakumbi ukuba akazange acinge ngako. Ewe, eneneni, amadoda akhangele phambili kwibala elide kunye nobuhle, kodwa bayaziqhelanisa nalabo abasondele kuye rhoqo. Kodwa ukubona akuthethi ukutshintsha, ezinjalo ezincinci zivumelekile.
Wandizisa ekhaya, walindela ukuba ndiphume eshahleni, wandidla waza wangifaka kwisibhedlele. Ndimboze ngengubo, wathi "Ndiyakuthanda", waza waya emsebenzini. Kwaye ndavala amehlo kwaye ndalala ngokulala. Emva koko, amazwi kaLida ayalibalekile, zonke izikhalazo zawa, kwaye intliziyo yam yazaliswa uthando kwakhona. Abantu abaninzi banokuthi nje inzondo enkulu kwaye ngenxa yoko bayalimaza iimvakalelo zomntu othandweni, okanye ngenxa yokungaphumeleli kwakhe okungapheliyo. Into ephambili kukukholelwa entliziyweni yakho.
Ingaba akunjalo lo lonwabo, kungekhona lo thando, xa umntu ekumboza ngeengubo kwaye ufuna amaphupha amnandi. Mhlawumbi umntu unokucinga ukuba unokuhlala naye, kodwa usebenza. Kwaye ukuze amanye amantombazana angathethi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubuhlobo buni, ndiya kuhlala ndiyazi ukuba ndinothando lokwenene, kwaye andiyi kutshintshana nayiphi na okanye nabani na.
Ngentsasa ndavuswa ngephunga lekhofi elimnandi. Omnye wayegubha ekhitshini. Umntakwabo wayesemoyeni ekhefu, kwaye ngoko wayenakukwazi, kwaye ngokukodwa ekhitshini kwaye akazange afune ukuchitha ixesha, ngaphandle kokuphelelwa yithemba. Ndandinomhla, kwaye andizange ndikhawuleze.
- Malyyy ... Ndiyazi, awubuthongo - intanda yam yayiyidla e-slippers kwicala lam, kwaye iphunga lekhofi lalifumana ngaphezulu kunye neqhumiso. Ekuphenduleni, ndandibubula nje ngokuba nenomdla wokuba nento anayo kunye nekhofi yasekuseni. Kwaye ngoku wayebona ngekomityi yekhofi kwesinye icala kunye namasangweji ngakwelinye icala. Andizange ndibe ne-tray, kwaye kungenxa yoko ayizange isebenze kuma-movie. Ukundibamba ngobumnene ebunzini kunye nokundibeka indebe yekhofi, wabuyela ekhitshini, kwaye ukusuka kulo ndagqiba ukuba i-tray yayimfuneko.
"Ndiza kuthenga i-tray," ndamemeza kwindlela.
- Kwaye ndiyakuthanda - akafaki kwisihloko, nangona le ntetho ebudlelwane bethu isoloko isesihloko.
- Ndiyakuthanda, kodwa ndandimemeza.
Kwavela ukuba wabuyela ekhitshini yakhe indebe yekofi, kwaye ndazithembisa ukuba ndiza kuthenga i-tray. Ndiyathemba ukuba akayeki ukuthatha ikhofi kumbhede wam emva kokuthenga. Emva koko wenyuka waya kum phantsi kwengubo, kwaye sahlala, siphuza ikhofi kwaye sabheka i-telly. Ndandinomhla, kwaye ndaceba ukuhlala ekhaya naye. Kwakuhlelwe iholide nomntu othandekayo. Iintsuku ezimbini, ngaphandle kwewindow ikhephu eliqhaqhaqhaqhazelayo, kwaye indlu kwiingalo zomntu othandekayo iyancwina kwaye ifudumele. Kuzo zonke ubutyebi bomhlaba, andizange nditshintshisane nale mibutho.
Emva kokubukela iifilimu ezintathu, ekudleni zonke iisanti, zityhawula yonke imithwalo, ekugqibeleni ukuhlwa kusile. Sisonke siqokelele umthi weKrisimesi size sigqoke. Kwaye, xa sivule iwayini, sahlala phantsi phambi kwefestile kwisihlalo esikhulu seenkuni esasiboshwe ngengubo kwaye saqala ukubukela iifutha ezinkulu zekhephu njengoko zibeka ngokukhawuleza ekuhlakeleni kwebhola. Sixoxe ngekamva, sele sithetha ngokutshata ngomtshato kunye nabantwana.
"Ndiza kutshata nawe emva kweminyaka emithathu, xa ndigqiba iyunivesithi."
- Ewe, utyhila, masibe seminyaka elishumi-into endithanda ngayo yayihleka ngamazwi am. "Ngokukrakra, ngoko-ke waguqa phambi kwam, kwaye ndandithuthuzela-ndifuna ukuba ube ngumfazi wam ngokukhawuleza, qalisa ukuvuka emva kwam. Ndiyakuthanda ... - kwaye wakhupha ibhokisi ukusuka kwindawo ethile, wayivula, kwaye kwakukho ikhondom - kwaye nanko ndandiqhayisa ngomqondo onzima kunayo yonke igama. Kuba oko ndamthanda kakhulu, kungenxa yokuba angayijika nayiphi na imincili yothando, kwaye ndiphosakele kwiimeko zothando ngamathuba angama-volts angama-220. Ndamnxiba waza wamanga, wathi "EYE" endlebeni yam.
Kwaye ke, isiphakamiso senziwe, kwathiwa igama eliphambili, kwaye sahlala siphuza iwayini, kwaye ke senza izicwangciso ngekamva kwaye sajonga ngefasitela. Ikhephu liye layeka ukuhamba, kuphela umoya owabaxosha emoyeni. Amantombazana amaninzi akakholelwa ukuba abafana, abababo, okanye abangaziwayo, andizange ndikholelwe. Kodwa xa ndidibana naye, ndimkholelwa ngokungenakuphikelela kwaye ngokungenakwenzeka. Kwakunenhlanhla-ukuba uhlale ecaleni kwintanda yakho, owathi wenza isilungiselelo, wayilungisa esikhundleni sendandatho yedayimane ngekhondom. Ewe, ndimthanda kwaye ndikulungele ukuhlala naye ubomi bam bonke. Mhlawumbi umntu kunye nomnye utshintshile, kodwa ngokukhetha kwam ndiqiniseke ngekhulu leepesenti, kwaye ndazi ukuba akayi kuninika, phantsi kweyiphi na imeko.