Abasetyhini banemvelo ekhethekileyo-intuition. Ukuba uyahamba ebusuku kunye nendoda ebusweni obumnyama kwaye icinga ukuba bahlaselwa ngamagqabi, kwaye ngelo xesha bafumana uvakalelo lokwesaba, ukungaqiniseki, emva koko "kungekhona iqhawe." Okumangalisayo kukuba, le ngcaciso ihlala isinceda ukuqonda ukuba umntu unokukukhusela.
Amanye amaxesha ngamanye amaxesha atshintsha amadoda kunye nabafazi kwiindawo. Akumangalisi ukuba umyeni wenza imisebenzi yasekhaya, ulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa, ufundisa abantwana, kwaye umfazi ufumana imali. Akukho mntu uya kumangaliswa ukuba intloko yentsapho ingumfazi wayo kwaye imisele imithetho yakhe kumyeni.Ngoko, masihla phantsi kwezizathu zokuba amantombazana akhetha abantu ababi. Yaye, unokwazi njani ukuhlukanisa "u-hooligan" onjalo "kwindodana kaMama".
Izambatho.
Okumangalisa ngokwaneleyo, kodwa abantu abalungileyo bakhetha izinto ezilungileyo, eziqhenqileyo, eziyingqondi. Okanye, ngokuchasene noko, kufana nezoshishino kunye nokungenanto. Ngokuba konke oku ngaphandle "chic" bafihla ukungakhuselekanga kwabo ngokwabo, kungekhona ithuba lokuthabatha intombazana ngokwabo, kwaye bayicime nje.
Abafana ababi bajonga kakhulu kwimpahla yezemidlalo, ijee ezindala kunye neTekhthi elula. Uvakalelwa amandla abo ngaphakathi, ukukhanga, ukuzithemba. Abayidingi "igobolondo", ngokwabo badibeneyo kunye nabanxibelelwano abanomdla.
Xanduva.
Abantu abalungileyo bazama ukungenzi izigqibo, kungekhona ukuthatha uxanduva. Ekusebenzeni, baninzi abahlali kwindawo ekhokelayo efuna konke oku. Nguwe ukhetha indawo yokutyela, indawo yosuku lwakho kunye nezinto zokuthenga. Bakhathazeka ngokutshintsha abanye uxanduva.
Abantu ababi bahlala becinga isigqibo sokuba kuphi na nini na ukuhlangana nawe, abayiki uxanduva kunye nezigqibo ezinzulu. Nokuba ngaba bangalunganga, bavuma ngesibindi iimpazamo zabo baze bazilungise.
Iintlanganiso kunye nawe.
Abantu abalungileyo baya kuzama ukudibana nawe xa ulungile. Xa ungenayo ingxaki emsebenzini, ekhaya, unemihlali enkulu, ihlala ikhona. Ukuba unengxaki, ngoko, mhlawumbi, awuyi kubona ilanga lakho ixesha elide. Akayi kuphulaphula iingxaki zakho, kungekhona ukuba uncede.
Abantu ababi bahlale bekulungele ukunceda wonke umntu kwaye rhoqo, intombazana ethandekayo. Nangona ingxaki ingasombululwa, umntu obi uya kuzama. Emva koko, uyindoda!
Impembelelo yabazali.
Unina omkhulu, oomama, ootata kunye nootata bathabatha inxaxheba ebomini yomntu omhle. Bakhetha iziko apho angene khona. Nguye owamalungiselela ukuba asebenze. Kwaye baya kunyuka kunye neengcebiso zabo kulwalamano lwakho.
Ukuba awuyithandi nayiphi na izalamane okanye abahlobo bomntu omhle, lungela ukuba uya kukwabelana nawe phantsi kweempembelelo zombono womnye umntu. Umntu othe tye ulungelelanisa ngombono womnye umntu, kuba akanalo. Futhi ukuhlala "intloko yangaphandle" kulula kunakho.
Imeko eyahlukileyo iya kuba nomntu omubi. Ukuba awuyithandi unina okanye ngabahlobo bakhe, uya kuba nethenda kunye nethenda malunga nawe. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo, sele sele ezenzele isigqibo kuye ngokwakhe nangenxa yazo zonke "izifundo" zabazali, uyaphendula ukuba uya kuzijonga. Uyayithanda xa umendo wakhe ubhekene nobunzima obuyidingayo ukunqotshwa.
Amandla okubonisa uluvo lwakho.
Abantu abalungileyo bahlala bevumelana noko bathethayo, kuba abakwazi ukukhusela uluvo lwabo, ukuba, ngokwenene, kukho enye. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba umnxibelelwano uphezulu kwaye ngaphezu kwamaxesha amathathu. Abayi kuvusa omnye umntu ukuba alwe. Yivumelana ngokuzenzekelayo, kwaye utshintshe isihloko kwisincoko.
Ababi bahlala bethetha oko bacinga. Abayiki ukuxabana nokulwa. Abesabi ukukhusela isikhundla sabo.
Isikhundla soBomi.
Abantu abalungileyo abazithathi amanyathelo ukutshintsha okanye ukuphucula ubomi babo. Bahamba ngokuhamba. Kwaye kwiminyaka engama-200 baya kusebenza kwiofisi enye kwiofisi enye. Abantu abafanelekileyo banemifanekiso entloko yabo, abayifunayo.
Ababi bahlala namhlanje, banokutshintsha ubomi babo, bamkele abantu njengabo. Abacaphukisi nayiphi na imimangaliso, kwaye bajonga ngekamva kwixesha elizayo.