Kukho iintlobo ezininzi zamathandana abatshatileyo:
- utshatile ngokwenene;
- mncinane kakhulu;
- omdala;
- uthando
Ukutshata ngokwenene.
Ngomntu onjalo kungcono ukuba ungadlulanga ulwalamano, nje nje nge-adventure encinane. Indoda enjalo ifanelekile kubafazi abathandekayo.
Iinkalo zobudlelwane obunjalo:
- ukuba umfazi akakhululekile, kuya kuba luncedo kubo bobabini ukugcina ezo ntsebenzo ziyimfihlo,
- ukukhangela ulwahlulo phakathi kobabini ubudlelwane kunye nesondo ngesahlulo samadoda, iqinisekisa ukuba kuya kuba nesondo esithakazelisayo. Kuya kuba, njengophahleni lwendlu, nakwi-elevator,
- Lo mntu akadingeki ukuba afundise ngesondo, sele esazi konke kwaye unokukwazi ukuphumla.
Iimigodi zobudlelwano:
- bonke ubudlelwane babo ngokwesondo kunye nomfazi wabo baya kuqhutyelwa kwinkosikazi yabo,
- Lo mthandi uya kumgculela umfazi wakhe, kodwa umxelele ukuba akayi kumshiya.
- umthandi onjalo uya kuba yinkosikazi ukukhangela, into engayi kulala kuyo. Yaye uya kucela kuye inkosikazi yakhe,
- ibhinqa liya kufuneka lilungele kumthandi, kuba unentsapho.
Mncinane kakhulu.
Xa umthandi osemncinci kwaye uneminyaka engama-20-25, usengowokuphakama komsebenzi wesondo. Yaye ukuba ithe ibhinqa lidala kuneminyaka emi-10 ukuya kwimi-10, ke ngoko ngendlela yesondo baya kuvuya. Kwaye apha kwiintsebenziswano phakathi kwamaqabane ahlala emacaleni amacandelo kunye namahle.
Iinkalo zobudlelwano:
- Xa umfana esondele, umfazi uqala ukuzinyamekela. Uqala ukudlala imidlalo kwaye ngenxa yoko uqala ukubheka omncinci,
- Umthandi omncinci ulungiswa ngesondo, umfazi akayi kuvakala kuye ukuba ukhathele, yinto injini engunaphakade.
Iimigodi zobudlelwano:
- xa ibhinqa elisondeleyo kwindoda enqwenelekayo, intsha, ebonakalayo, ivelisa ubunzima obuphantsi kootyhini,
- Amanye amantombazana aqala ukunyanzelisa umfazi kwindoda yonina, uhlale ekhononda, kwaye abanye abafazi baqala ukujamelana neengxaki "zonyana".
A badala.
Xa umthandi omdala okwaneleyo, unalo, unokukhulula nayiphi na ibhinqa.
Iinkalo zobuhlobo.
- unamava amaninzi kwaye uya kuba nako ukufundisa umfazi konke akwaziyo,
- xa indoda inomfazi omncinci, iyancwina, izama kwaye yenza konke ukugcina ibhinqa elisondele kuye. Uyamnika ingqwalasela eyongeziweyo, ubeka izipho.
Iimigodi zobudlelwane.
- ngokwayo, akunakwenzeka ukuyibuyisela,
- Ixesha elide, liqala ukuzibonakalisa. Ewe, uya kuzama ukufikelela kwiindawo eziphakamileyo, kodwa sele esele kude nomzimba omncinci.
ZoLuntu.
Lo mthandwayo uthethwa ngabo bathanda ukuhamba ngothando, imibongo kunye namazwi amahle adluliselwe kuye.
Iinkalo zobuhlobo.
- umntu onjalo uya kukufundisa ukuba ngandlela-thile asiqapheli oku kubomi bethu banamhlanje, jonga imvula yasehlobo, ubuhle bamafu, ukushona kwelanga nokunye,
- Yona inqubo yokubambisana inhle kakhulu, iholele le ntokazi kwiindawo ezifanelekileyo.
Iimigodi zobudlelwane.
- okwangoku, isithandwa sothando lukhulu kakhulu,
- lo mntu usephambi kobudlelwane, kwaye sele esele imvelaphi isondo. Ukuba ibhinqa ivumelana nale nto, uya kuvuya kunye nomthandi wakhe.
Ukwazi ukuba ngumthandi otshatileyo - iimigodi zakhe kunye ne-pluses, umntu unokukwazi ukuba ungalindela ntoni kumthandi ozayo, kwaye ngoko umfazi unokukhetha ikamva lakhe ngokuphepha.