Yintoni edibeneyo kwintsana?

Kwaye iimboni zasendulo ziye zafunda ukuxela kwangaphambili abantu ngeendlela zabo ezibonakalayo zokubonakala. Isakhiwo sempumlo, ukusikwa kwamehlo, i-moles kunye nayiphi na inkcazelo yembonakalo iyakwazi, ngoluvo lwabo, ukuthatha ininzi kwaye ibe nefuthe elibalulekileyo ebomini bomntu.

Abantu abanemibala eminceni yabo bahlonishwa "njengabatshizwa oothixo" kwaye uluntu ngamaxesha onke lubaphatha ngokukodwa. Isinki esinomlinganiselo ogqithiseleyo ngokwenene kubonakala kwindoda okanye kumfazi. Kwaye nasiphi na isazi senzululwazi owaziyo ukucacisa iimfihlakalo zomntu uya kuthi bonke abanini beempawu ezinjalo banomsindo onzima.

Yintoni inqabileyo kwi-intshi ibhekisela kubasetyhini?

Uhlobo lunikezelwa ngumnini we-dimple kwisigxina esinamandla nesingathandekiyo, esichaza ngokucacileyo phakathi kwabanye abameli besini esibuthakathaka. Loo mfazi unenkani, engesabi ukuthwala uxanduva lwezenzo kwaye ufanelekile kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu. Siyabulela kule miba, nokuba intombazana engenazi nto ilula ngokunyuka kwinqanaba lomsebenzi kwaye ihlala iphumelele kakhulu.

Ubomi bobucala, i-fovea kwi-chin mayingachaza imfihlelo kunye nenkohliso. Ngokudibanisa namandla amakhulu angaphakathi, oku kwenza umninimzi omncinci anqwenele kakhulu emehlweni abantu abathandwa ngolo hlobo ngumfazi nge-magnet. Intombazana enxulumene nolwalamano iya kuhlala iyimimandla, ingenangqiqo kunye nokucinga kwayo. Yaye akubona bonke abakulungele ukubekezelela ezi mpawu zomlingisi. Nangona kunjalo, indoda enokukwazi "ukuyithintela" loo ntokazi, iya kufumana ibuyiselo elithandekayo, elinobuchule nelomeleleyo, elingazange lithande ukuhamba ubomi.

Yintoni inqaku lendoda elithethayo?

Indoda yomntu inokwazi ukuxelela ezininzi ngomnini wayo. Ingasetyenziselwa ukugweba indlela indoda ixhaswa ngayo, nokuba uyazi indlela yokuqhubeka nokugcina iimbetho zexesha elizeleyo kwaye ugxininise ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Isilwanyana esinamandla nesigxininisa sisicatshulwa njengobonakaliso bendalo, kwaye ikhupha ngamandla, kodwa i-slanting, inika isilathisi esithambileyo, esingenakunyakazeka kumntu. Abanikazi bayagqithisa kwiinki banamaqhinga, banenkani nenkani - loo mbono ibanjwe ngabo bonke abathandayo ukuxazulula iimfihlelo zomntu. Ngamanye amaxesha umnikazi wengxowa ubizwa ngokuba yi-egocentrism eyingozi.

I-fovea kwi-chin mayingathanda ukuthandwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo ibhinqa liyabona ngesini. Izibongo zinikezela "u-kazanov" ofihlekileyo-umtsalane omkhulu wobuhle besifazana. Indoda enjalo ihlala isigxina ixesha elide. Kodwa ukuba uthe watshata, kukuphela kothando olukhulu kwaye rhoqo ugcina umfazi wakhe uthembekile.

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Jonga ngokukhawuleza kwaye uya kuqonda: phakathi kwabantu abaneenthekhane, ezinamaqhina abo ahlotshiswe ngamancinci, kukho abantu abaninzi bezoshishino kunye nabaphathi, abanamandla nabangenelulinganisela kubantu.

Iyintoni umgodi kwintsimbi?

Ngokubanzi, nawuphi na umnini womgodi kwisibindi sakhe, nokuba yindoda okanye ibhinqa, unemiba efana nale. Phakathi kwabo, umntu unokugxininisa amandla, ukunyamezela, u-egocentrism kunye nokungakwazi ukulahleka. Ziziphi ezinye iimpawu ezidibanisa abantu abaneempawu kwi-chin?

• Injongo.
• Intando yokuphumelela nayiphi na indleko.
• Ikhono lokwenza izigqibo ezinzima.
• Ukukwazi ukugcina intloko kwimeko enzima kakhulu.
• Ukunyamezela.

Ngezo zonke iimfanelo zabo, abantu abanesifo esinamaqabunga, baninzi banalo isiseko sokuzimela. Lo mbandela wenza ukuba bathathe izigqibo ezingenangqiqo, bezama "ukusika iziphelo", kwaye emva koko kwiintliziyo zabo zizisole.

I-dimple kwi-chin izuze ifa

Kuye kwavela ukuba nayiphi na i-dimple inechazwe ngokucacileyo. Oogqirha bathi isizathu sokwakheka kwezi zibizo ezihle zihlala ekungeneni okwaneleyo kweethambo ezidibanisa ulusu ngamathambo e-chin. Ukongeza ebusweni, kunokubonakala ukuba izicubu zomzimba zidibanisa kwiindawo ezinzulu zesikhumba: izihlathi, izikhwebu kunye nangemva. Kwenzeka ukuba i-dimples ibonakale apho ioli ifake phantsi kwesikhumba, umzekelo, emadolweni. Ezi zinto zinokuthi zizuze ilifa.