Kutheni igazi liphupha ngokuya esikhathini?

Ngokuqhelekileyo, amaphupha apho igazi likhona kubangelwa yimvakalelo engeyiyo. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ukutolika kuya kuba kubi. Ngokomzekelo, iphupha oye lazibona igazi ukusuka kwimihla linomlinganiselo omkhulu wexabiso kuye kuxhomekeke kwisalathiso nangona isondo somphuphi.

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Ukukhulelwa kwenyanga kukujongwa njani ukuba igazi liphuma kumalimi endoda

Abafazi banokubona loo maphupha, xa beyinyani kwaye kufuneka baqale ukuya esikhathini. Ayikho imbono ethile yembono ayithwali, kodwa ibonisa kuphela ukuba le ntokazi inesifo kwaye ixinzezelekile.

Kwincwadi yephupha yeVanga kuthiwa kwamanye amabhinqa amaphupha anjalo ahlawula izifo zentsholongwane.

Ukuba uphupha inyanga zonke, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo bafika ngokwenene, kwaye unxulumanise ukubaluleka kwiphupha elinjalo akufanele kube njalo. Kodwa kulabo bajonge phambili ekuhambeni kwexesha, lo mbono ovela kwinjongo yengqondo uthetha ukuba intombazana ixhalabele kakhulu ngale nto, yokwesaba ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ijonge phambili kuyo.

Ingaba ibhinqa elikhulelweyo libukeka njani?

Njengoko uyazi, abafazi kwiimeko ezinomdla baxhomekeke kakhulu ekuxinezelekeni kwengqondo kwaye banokukrokra. Ngoko ke, iphupha malunga nokuya esikhathini kunokunyanzela umama ozayo. Siphuthuma ukuqinisekisa ukuba loo mibono ayithwali ibalulekileyo.

• Okhulelwe, obona iphupha leenyanga, unokuhlaziya, kuba lo ngumqondiso obalulekileyo. Intsalela yokukhulelwa iya kuba yinto elula ngokumangalisayo, kwaye ukuzalwa kuza kukhawuleza kwaye kungabi nantlungu.
• Intombazana eye yabona igazi ngethuba elibalulekileyo njengesiganeko kufuneka liyazi ukuba impumelelo "yesiganeko" iya kuxhomekeka ngokupheleleyo ekuphatheni kwakhe nasekuziphatheni kwayo.
• Jonga indlela iinyanga ezibanjwe ngayo ngothushu phakathi kwesihlwele, ithi eqinisweni, ukudideka kwakho kulindeleke. Mhlawumbi, isizathu salo siya kuba yindoda yangempela, eya kwindawo engalindelekanga okanye ezinye iimeko ezihlazo. Kwaye, ukuba uvakalelwa intlungu ephupheni, iziganeko zinyani ngokwenene ziya kuba nzima.
• Xa ubona igazi kwiingubo zentombi yakho okanye isihlobo, kuyafaneleka ukuba ubuze indlela le micimbi yomntu. Mhlawumbi ufuna uncedo lwakho ekuxazululeni iingxaki ezithile.
• Ukuba uphupha kwindlu yakho, uchithe igazi ngenxa yokuya esikhathini, qaphela abaqhelana nabo. Bangakunikela kwaye babangele inkathazo eninzi.

Ukuba igazi liphuma kumaphupha okuya esikhathini

Incwadi yephupha kaMiller, umzekelo, ayilwa namaphupha anjalo kunye namadoda nabasetyhini. Nangona kunjalo, bathetha indlela yesifo.

Indoda ebona igazi kwiingubo okanye kwimbatho kufuneka ihlolisise indlela yakhe yokuziphatha. Abantu abakuzungezile bacinga ukuba kunengqondo kwaye baya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza.

Umntu ophupha intombazana enesisini kufuneka abe noloyiko lokuchitha imali kunye neentlobo zezoqoqosho. Kwaye ukuba le ntokazi ibingumhlobo, iphupha elinjalo liwuphawu lokuba insizwa ayinakuhlonela lo mmeli wesini esingenamandla.

Ngokutsho kwengcaciso yeencwadi zamaphupha, umlingane unokufumana ukujonga okufanayo xa engasenomdla kwikhethiweyo okanye umona wakhe.

Njengoko ubona, ukutolika kwamaphupha anjalo kuyahluka kwaye kuxhomekeka kwizinto ezininzi. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ingqalelo nje isicwangciso sephupha kunye neenkcukacha zayo, kodwa kunye nexesha langaphakathi lomphuphi. Kule meko ungayichaza ngokucacileyo imbono yakho yasebusuku kwaye ufumane isilumkiso esifanelekileyo malunga neziganeko zekamva.