Ziziphi izinto ezikhohlakeleyo ezithethayo? Ngokomzekelo, umntu unokuthetha into yokuba, njengomthetho, amadoda aneenwele ezimhlophe zibonwa njengento esengozini, inomusa, inothando kunye nobubele, engenako ukubangela intlungu yintombi okanye nantoni na embi.
Kwaye akunjalo. Ama-Blondes anomntu onzima kakhulu, azivala kakhulu kumadoda anombala weenwele ezahlukeneyo, mhlawumbi, ngokubhekiselele kwintlungu yomzimba. Kuzo zonke ezinye iziganeko i-blondes ibonakala ngokunyaniseka, ukunyamezela nokuzimisela. Amadoda ase-Blonde aphumelela ukuphumelela ebomini, kuba asetyenziswe ukufezekisa injongo ekujoliswe kuyo. Ukongezelela, phakathi kwama-blondes unokuhlangabezana nabantu abaninzi abanenkohlakalo kunye nabangqineli, kule nto ayilona ngaphantsi kwama-brunettes kunye ne-shatens, kodwa nabo banokwenza izinto ezintle, abanomdla kubantu abangenalo uhambo oluhle kunye ne-flight flight of fantasy, phakathi kwama-blonde ngaphezu kwamadoda kunye nabanye umbala weenwele.
Amadoda aneenwele ezimhlophe, njengomthetho, sibona njengabaxhamli be-interlocutors abahle kakhulu, abahlobo kunye namaqabane. Bonakala kubulula ukuqonda, abafazi bakholelwa ukuba amadoda anjalo ahlala enxulumene, abanobubele, abanobubele kwaye kulula kakhulu ukunyuka.
Lo mzekeliso usondele ngakumbi kunabanye. Enyanisweni, amadoda anemfesane ahluke ngobubele novelwano, abonakaliswa ngokunyaniseka nokuxhomekeka ngamandla kwimbono yoluntu nabanye abantu. Ukungalungi kweebhondi ezimdaka kungabizwa ubuvila obukhulu. Kwaye abo bantu abanezinwele ezikhanyayo abanalo naziphi iitalente ezizodwa abaziyi kwenza umzamo ngaphandle kokuba bangacingi.
Ukuba sicinga umbala weenwele kunye nomlingiswa womntu, indoda enhle, i-brunette, ingaba ngumzekelo ogqityiweyo wezinto ezihambelanayo kunye neengqinamba ezithandekayo. Amadoda anomvumba omnyama abonwa njengomeleleyo, ethembele kwizakhono zabo, imvelo. Abasetyhini, ininzi, bacinga ukuba i-brunettes yindoda enamandla kakhulu, eqinile, ethembekileyo, ethembekileyo neyomeleleyo, kwaye isakhono kakhulu ebhedini.
Enyanisweni, i-brunettes, ngokuyisiseko, ihambelana ngokupheleleyo nale mpawu. Zihlala zikhokeli, ziqinisekisa kwaye zikhaliphe. Kodwa nanko abantu abangenangqiqo-abomnyama banobuqhetseba obuninzi kwaye babonakalisa ukwedlula i-blondes, i-shatens kunye ne-redheads. UBrnet kakhulu ukukhathazeka malunga nokugxeka kuye, ngoko uzama yonke ixesha ukubonisa into ethile kuye.
Omnye umzekelo, indlela umbala weenwele kunye nomlingiswa womntu ongenakho ukuhambelana nokuqikelelwa kwamkelekileyo. Ngaphandle kwamadoda abomvu abomvu, udumo lwaba-pranksters abangenakukhweliswa kunye nabasunguli baqulunqwe ngokuqinileyo, abasetyhini bakholelwa ukuba amadoda abomvu abomvu anamaqabunga, angathembekiyo kwaye angabonakaliyo, kunye nabasetyhini abafazi. Sekude kubekholelwa ukuba abantu abanjalo baqhenqa kwaye banengqondo.
Enyanisweni, amadoda abomvu abomvu anamava amaninzi, iimvakalelo kunye nemvelaphi kunabameli abamnyama nabangenabulungisa besini esomeleleyo. Iingcambu zikwahlula ngobuchule obuhle bokuhleleka, ubugcisa, izakhono zokunxibelelana kunye nezakhono zonxibelelwano. Ziye zibonakaliswe ngumona onamandla, ukunyaniseka nokugwenxa.
Unokugqiba-ukuba uthe wagqiba ukudibanisa i-destiny yakho nomnye umntu, ungazami ukubopha umbala weenwele kunye nomlingiswa womntu, kwaye ekugqibeleni, kule mimandla ukhethe okhethiweyo. Kungcono uzame ukufunda kakuhle - olu khetho luya kuphepha kwixesha elizayo iingxaki ezahlukeneyo.