Ukuthembela phakathi kwabazali nomntwana yinto ephosakeleyo kakhulu: kulula ukuphula, kwaye kuya kuthatha iminyaka ukubuyisela. Ukuqwalasela imigaqo ephambili ye "impendulo" kunye nosana, unokudala inyaniso ekhuselekile, eyiluncedo xa kunenkxalabo enxulumene neminyaka. Okokuqala kuzo zonke izinto - ukuzithoba. Umntwana nje ufuna ukuva "mbulela", "nceda" kwaye "uxolo", kunye nomdala. Ukubonga, isicelo esifanelekileyo kunye nokuqatshelwa kokufaneleka kubaluleke kakhulu kumntu omncinci - la magama abonisa ukubaluleka kwembono yakhe.
Ukunyaniseka ngowona wesibini siseko. Musa ukuxoka kwintsana, kwanazo zinto ezibonakala zingabalulekanga - zithatha iincwadana eziza kubakho ukuqonda kwakhe.
Imisebenzi ehlangeneyo ayibalulekanga kangako kumbandela wokwakha ithemba. Iminqweno eqhelekileyo, iinjongo kunye nezicwangciso zidibanisa kunye nokudibanisa intsapho ngendlela engokwemvelo. Ngomgaqo wesithathu unxibelelwano olungathandabuzekiyo wesine - ukudala izithethe zentsapho. Iholide ezihle, ukuhamba okuthakazelisayo kunye nokuzilibazisa okusebenzayo kuya kunceda ukuqokelela abazali kunye nabantwana iminyaka emininzi.
Kwaye, kunjalo-ukwamukelwa. Umgaqo wokugqibela kunye nobunzima kakhulu uquka ukuqonda ubuntu obuhlukile bomntwana wakho kunye nesivumelwano esipheleleyo kunye nazo zonke iimpawu zayo.