Iindlela ezili-10 zokuphula ubuhlobo

Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuphula ubuhlobo, kodwa kuphela ezinye zazo ezichanekileyo. Khumbula ukuba kufuneka ubonise inhlonipho ngomntu ohlala naye de kube ngumzuzwana othile, mhlawumbi uya kumenza intlungu kunye nentukuthelo. Nazi iindlela ezimbalwa ezilula kunye nezithandwayo, ngenxa yokuba unokuphulaphula ubudlelwane kunye nomlingane ubunzima kuye.

1. Odiniz iindlela ezithandwayo kakhulu - ezinomsindo. Zininzi iindlela ongayenza ngayo, umzekelo, ukulibala ukuthatha isitifiketi esithandayo kwiindawo zokucoca ezinomileyo okanye ukondla intliziyo ethandekayo ye-hamster. Ukongezelela, ungasebenzisa ezinye iincwadana eziza kunciphisa intetho yabathembekile bakho, kodwa kuba kufuneka baqhube emlonyeni wakho rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka. Ekugqibeleni, iqabane lakho aliyi kusinda libalekele kuqala, kuba akayi kukwazi ukukuthwala.
2. Thetha kuye kwaye uchaze ukuba kutheni ufuna ukusabalalisa. Mhlawumbi le ngenye yezona ndlela eziphambili zokuphula, kuba uya kunyaniseka kwaye akayi kubhenela ekuncedeni kwezobuchwepheshe bwanamhlanje, njengefowuni okanye i-intanethi. Khumbula, ukuba usebenzisa i-SMS emfutshane okanye i-imeyile, uza kujonga njengekrele.
3. Enye indlela ukuhamba. Ukhululekile ukupakisha zonke izinto uze ubeke umnyango emva kwakho ngonaphakade. Nangona kunjalo, gcinani khumbula ukuba le ndlela ayikho phakathi kokunyanisekileyo okanye inyanisekileyo, kodwa kuya kuba nefuthe.
4. Kwiintanethi ezininzi zentlalo, ukuba ubhalisiwe bobabini, kunokwenzeka ukuba utshintshe imeko yobudlelwane kwaye uphonsa umntu kum uluhlu lwabahlobo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, lo ngumlingani wakho akayi kuphinda ahlaziye kwaye uyayiqonda intsingiselo yeenjongo zakho. Nangona kunjalo, khumbula ukuba ngokwenza ngale ndlela, awukwazi nje ukubangela ubuhlungu kumntu owayengumthandi wangaphambili, kodwa nakwezinga elithile ukuba angayifaki ekukhanyeni okuhle phambi kwabahlobo bakhe, njengoko akanakuvuyela ukuphendula imibuzo engenzi lutho malunga nokuba kwenzeke ntoni.
5. Sebenzisa enye yezona binzana eziqhelekileyo zekhefu, okuthi "Ndiyakuthanda, kodwa nje njengomhlobo." Ukuba uthetha njalo, iqabane lakho liya kukwazi oko ufuna ukumxelela. Kwaye nangona ungeke ube ngumhlobo kunye nomntu owayengumthandi wakho ngaphambili, kodwa le binzana yenye yezona zinto ziqhelekileyo ekuphumeni, ngakumbi ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuhlala ulwalamano oluhle.
6. Rekhoda idiski kumthandi wakho wangaphambili. Kuyinto enothando, ngoko unokuba nethemba lokushiya uphawu olufudumele emphefumlweni womntu owayekade naye. Kukho iingoma ezininzi oza kuxelwa kuzo endaweni yonke into ongathanda ukuyidlulisela kuyo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho inokwenzeka ukuba iqabane lakho liza kuthatha njengento enhle, nokuba ingoma edabukisayo.
7. Yethule kwelinye okanye uqale uqhelane nolwazi olutsha. Le ndlela mhlawumbi iyona ndlela iphumelelayo yokuphula, kuba kukho nawuphi na umcimbi akudingeki ucinge ngesizathu sokuhlukana.
8. Ndibize uze undixelele oko uvakalelwa. Oku kuyindlela enhle kulabo abangenalo isibindi sokuchaza yonke into ebusweni. Kodwa khumbula ukuba kuya kufuneka ufike ubuncinane omnye, kodwa isizathu esihle kakhulu sokuba ufuna ukwahlula, ngaphandle koko awuyi kuzibeka ekukhanyeni okulungileyo.
9. Tshela abahlobo bakho abaqhelekileyo ukuba ufuna ukwahlukana neqabane lakho. Nangona kunjalo, kwimbono yam, le ndlela yindlela ephantsi kakhulu yokuphula, kwaye ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuyisebenzisa xa zonke ezinye iindlela ezingenayo i-result.
10. Dweba iqabane apho uyingxenye nayo. Kwaye nangona ekuqalekeni oku kubonakala ngathi bububele, kodwa kungenye yezona ndlela eziphambili zokuphula, kuba unethuba lokuchazela yonke into ngendlela eqhelekileyo kunye nehleko, kwaye ngoko yenze ukuba umthandi wangaphambili abe ubuncinane.