Sivame ukuqonda ukuba ulwalamano oluncinane lunokuhlala ngonaphakade, kodwa ukuba kukho ukungavumelani, abaninzi abafazi bacinga ngendlela yokusombulula ingxaki ngoncedo lwemikhuba yemilingo. Kodwa ingaba le ndlela izokukunceda ukugcina iimvakalelo, kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, yenza iqabane elonwabileyo, uya kufunda kwinqaku lethu.
Nangona abantu beye bafunda ukulawula ukuphendulwa kweekhamyliya, ii-robots eziye zafikelela kummandla we-Mars ziqalisiwe, i-nanotechnologies zihlakulela yonke indlela, ezinye zikholelwa ukuba ezinye iingxaki zixazululwa ngoncedo lwezifundo ezithile zemilingo. Ngaphezu koko, kwi-intanethi nakwiimaphephandaba, unokufumana ezininzi iintengiso, apho omnye okanye omnye umlumbi uthembisa ukubuyisela uthando ngoncedo lwesondlo sokuthanda, ukwandisa amathuba okubelana ngesondo, ukutsala inhlanhla kunye nenhlalakahle kwimpilo. Yonke into efunekayo kuwe yinto ethile, kaninzi ayincinci, inani lemali kunye nokwenziwa kwesithethe esilula esilungiselelwe umthengi ngamnye.
Kule nqaku, asihlose ukugweba abafazi abafuna uncedo kubagqirha abamnyama nabamhlophe, abagulayo, izifo zengqondo - siya kuzama ukubonisa ukuba ukujongwa okunyamekileyo ngaphakathi kwaye ukuhlalutya imeko kungenza ngcono kunokuba uphenduke kwezinye izinto. Umlumbi we-Psychic, umbize nantoni na oyifunayo, uzame ukubeka ingcamango yakhe kwimeko. Yonke into.
Umntu othanda ngokunyanisekileyo umphefumlo wakhe uqabane ukuba ukugcina ubudlelwane kubalulekile ukuba usebenze kuwo. Kwaye ukuba kukho utshintsho olwenziwe phakathi kwabantu, iimvakalelo ziya kunceda ukuqonda ukuba into ayihambanga kakuhle. Yilo kanye kanye nabalumkani abalungiselela iziganeko zobugqi, iziqhelo zokuqulunqa izenzelwa. Ehlabathini, ngokwenene, kukho abantu abanesipho esithile esingasemhlabeni, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukulungisa ingxaki kwihlabathi jikelele. Khawucinge ukuba umthandi wakho watshelwa ukuba uya kukubona kwintombi edibana nayo. Kwaye kuza kunceda njani ukubuyisela uthando oludala?
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi bwakhiwe ngothintelo lomzwelo, ukusebenzisana phakathi kwamandla abo kubonakala kwinqanaba elincinci, kwaye abo baphendukela ekuncedeni abantu abanegunya eliphezulu banokulungele ukubeka ubudlelwane babo kwisithathu ekuphumeni kwabo bonke abaya kubakho ukuvelisa ukuphathwa kakubi ngento efihlakeleyo.
Uyazi ukuba abantu abanakukwazi ukuthandana okanye ukuwa ngenxa yothando, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bazama kangakanani, abayi kukwazi ukwenza ngokuthanda kwabo - le nxalenye yobomi ayinakukwazi ukulawula. Yingakho nayiphi na impembelelo ekukhohliseni ingabangela ingozi engenakucatshangelwa kwimpilo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha inciphisa ubomi. Cinga ngako kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba uyaqonda ukuba wenza into engafanelekanga. Ukungenelela kwinkqubo yemvelo yezinto, uphulaphula ingqibelelo yehlabathi elikujikelezayo, kwaye ukuqaliswa kweenkqubo ezixhamlekileyo ekuqaphelweni komnye umntu akukwazi ukuphela ngendlela okulindele ngayo.
Akukho mntu oza kuthetha ukuba yonke into kweli hlabathi kufuneka ihlawulwe. Kwaye kwimeko yethu sinengqondo engafanelekanga kwimibuzo yombuzo, kodwa into eninzi, njengoko unako ukufumana ubomi kwizinto ezintle. Nangona ungakholelwa ekukholeni kwehlabathi elithembekileyo, cinga, ngaba ufumene ngokwenene uthando lomntu onobudlova? Ewe, yile nto leyo ukungeniswa kwenkqubo efunwayo kubonakala kwintliziyo yomntu othile. Ubume bunikezele inkululeko yokuzikhethela, kwaye ukunyanzelisa iimvakalelo zethu kukuzithintela ithuba lokuhlalutya imeko kwaye senze izigqibo.
Ukuba uthe waqhekeka nomntu othandekayo kwiqhinga lakhe, ngoko kufuneka umkele ukhetho lwakhe kwaye uziyeke. Ngaphandle koko, umthetho we-boomerang, ngokubhekiselele kuzo zonke izinto ezimbi ezithunyelwe kumntu, ngokukhawuleza uza kubuya ngokuphindaphinda kabini, okanye mhlawumbi okuphindwe kabini, kusebenza. Kwaye ngoku ucinga malunga nokuba unesiqinisekiso sokuthi unobundlobongela kwihlabathi elizifihlakeleyo lomntu, unokuqhubeka uhlala ngokuthula kwaye umphumo wakho awuyi kuba yinto engafanelekanga kwicala lakho?
Iimfundiso ezininzi zefilosofi zigxininisa ukuba kufuneka silwe neengcamango ngaphambi kokuba zifike kwiintloko zethu. Ukuba umnqweno wokulungisa amagosa kuninzi ngaphambili, cinga ukuba ungathanda ukufumana impembelelo enjalo kwaye ulungele ukuphazamisa kwisiphelo esibonelelekayo umntu? Ngokwemvelo, akukho mntu uya kukubamba ngesandla, kodwa kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba kokubili okulungileyo nokubi kuya kubuya.