Kuthekani ukuba umntwana elele ngokulala?
Kusemntwaneni, imikhosi ibaluleke kakhulu - izenzo ezifanayo eziphambi kokulala. Ingaba ngama-2-z okuzilolonga, ukuhlala ixesha eli-20-30 imizuzu: umzekelo, ukuhlamba, ukuhlalisa umzimba, ukondla. Umntwana kufuneka enze i-stereotype, eyenza umcimbi ngamnye olandelayo uqikelele. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana badibanisa imini nobusuku. Kule meko, kufuneka uzame ukuyibuyisela kwimodi evamile:
- Ngaphambi kokulala, i-crumb kufuneka ibe kwindawo yokukhanya ebumnyama okanye edibeneyo;
- Umoya ojikelezileyo kufuneka uxolise: ilizwi likamama lizolile, likhuphe, kwaye ukunyakaza kwakhe kuhamba kakuhle kwaye kuphuza;
- Ngomso, ngokuchasene noko, kufuneka uvumele ukukhanya kwemini ngangokunokwenzeka ekamelweni, uze ugcwalise imini ngemisebenzi kunye nokuzonwabisa. Zama ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana uyabhubha ngokuhlwa, kwaye emini - ukuzonwabisa.
Ngaba akuyona ingozi ukugubha umntwana?
Ukuba umntwana ulala ngokuthula ubusuku bonke emva kokumgubungela, ngoko yonke into iyahlelwa. Kodwa ukuba uqala ukuvusa phakathi kobusuku, kufuneka utshintshe inkqubo: imizuzu yokugqibela ngaphambi kokulala, kufuneka achithe kwisikhefu sakhe ngaphandle kokugula. Into ekhoyo kukuba kukho indlela elula apha: xa umntwana evuka, uhlolisisa ukubona ukuba konke kusekhona ukususela ngexesha athe walala. Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana ulele ngexesha lokutya, ngoko, evuka phakathi kobusuku, uya kukhangela isifuba. Abazali mabayicwangcise le sikimu: intsana kufuneka ilale phantsi kwisikhumba sayo kwaye ivuke kwiimeko ezifanayo. Ngaba unomxhalaba lomama, xa ebeka umntwana ukulala, udluliselwe umntwana? Ewe, inako. Abantwana banomdla kakhulu kumama wengqondo. Ukuba ukhathazekile, uhlala engxakini, uvuka ngobusuku ngomsindo obandayo kwaye ugijimela kwisibhedlele somntwana ukuba ahlole ukuba yonke into ihamba ngendlela, uxinzelelo luya kuhanjiswa kumntwana. Umama uya kuzinza - uya kuba noxolo kunye nosana.
Ngaba umntwana usenokulala embhedeni omnye kunye nomama noyise?
Kakade. Ukuthethelela kumama ngexesha lokulala kubeka umlinganiselo wengqondo yomntwana, kuqinisa amandla omzimba wakhe, kususe uxinzelelo. Kwaye kuya kuba lula ukuyondla ebusuku. Kodwa, xa unqume ukuthabatha ubusuku bakho embhedeni wakho, qaphela kwaye uqaphele ukuba ungamlimazi ngephupha.
Umntwana olala nabazali bakhe kufuneka athatyathwe embhedeni wakhe?
Ukuba uceba ukuhambisa umntwana embhedeni wakhe ngomnyaka, qalisa ukumqhelanisa naye ekuqaleni kwenyanga - ngaphambi kokuba abe nemikhwa yokuqala. Kufuneka uqeqeshe ngokuthe ngcembe ngokuncinci. Ngokomzekelo, ngeveki okanye ezimbini, gwala amanqabunga ekamelweni lakhe. Emva koko zama ukubeka umntwana olele ebhedeni kwaye umthabathe embhedeni wakhe kuphela xa evuka phakathi kobusuku. Ngoku siyazi indlela yokudala iphupha eliqinileyo neliphilileyo lomntwana osandula.