Into efunekayo ukuba uyikhumbule kukuba umthandi wakho ngumntwana wabo omncinci, oya kuba ngumntwana wabo ngonaphakade, kwaye unokuba yintshaba, ngenxa yokuba uyithatha umntwana otyalole kakhulu. Ngoko ke, unako ukuphathwa kwaye ungabi nobungane njengoko ulindele, kodwa kufuneka ukhumbule imigaqo emininzi eya kubonisa ukuba uyifanele.
Okokuqala, xa uhambela, khawubale ngokuhlwa ngokumalunga nezifundo eziphathekayo kunye nezikratshi zesigqoba sakho sambatho, kunye nokuqulunqa okuqhakazileyo kunye nokuhlanjululwa komzimba, nako, akuyi kulungeleka kuloo ntlanganiso. Umntu oqhelana naye kuqala unyathelo elinoxanduva. Kodwa akufanele uhambe ngaphezu kweengubo eziqhelekileyo. Beka i-blouse yakho eyintandokazi kunye ne-jeans, okanye i-sarafan, kodwa khumbula-akufanele bajonge njengento engcolileyo! Kufuneka uzive uthembele kwaye iimpahla zakho kufuneka zikuxhase!
Okwesibini, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba uya kwintlanganiso yabazali bakhe, kwaye kufuneka uziphatha ngokufanelekileyo. Ngaphambi komnyango, bhuqa, bamomotheka, bathi "Mva mva! ", Ngasemnyango, uthetha, ungaphumelela, kwaye lonke eli xesha kufuneka uzikhumbule umqolo wakho ngqo, umomotheka, uxoxe kwaye ungalibali malunga nemigaqo ye-etiquette.
Okwesithathu, khumbula ukuba iqabane lakho likhethile ngokuchanekileyo ngenxa yokuba nguwe, ngoko qhubeka ufana nolo busuku. Ukuba ubude udelele ixesha elide, uyazi amaqela amaninzi malunga nosapho lwakhe, kwaye uyaziqhelana nabo bonke bengabikho, ngoko ningakhathazeki - sele niyazi into ethile malunga nabo, kwaye oku kunokukunceda ufumane izihloko eziqhelekileyo kwintetho! Kodwa into ephambili ukuhlala uqobo, ujabule kwaye ukhululekile, kulula kwaye uqaphele, kwaye impumelelo iya kuza.
Ngoko, ume phambi komngcele wekhaya lakhe, unombono obalaseleyo kwaye ulungiselelwe ixesha elifanelekileyo. Ukuba ufika wedwa, kunye nomntu omele ngaphakathi, bulisanani ngokufanelekileyo! Ukubona abazali bakhe, bamomotheka kwaye mvumele loo mntu atyuthelane. Ukwazi umama kwaye unyathelo elibaluleke kakhulu.
Ndixelele ukuba uyonwabile ukuhlangabezana nabazali baloo mhle mhle! Kwaye ukuba isihlandlo sokuba nomhlobo wakho sasingumhla wokuzalwa kwakhe - kuya kuba kufanelekile ukuvuyisana nonyoko kunye neentyatyambo zeentyatyambo. Makhe loo mntu afune oko akuthandayo.
Ukungena endlwini, ungaqwalasele ngokukhawuleza zonke izinto ezincinane, uze ubuze isizathu sokuba ziphi na. Kungcono ukunyamekela into enomdla kakhulu, kwaye oko uqondayo, ithi indlu iyancwina, kwaye ukuba banalo uhlobo lwesilwanyana, oko kuyisizathu sokubamba isihloko esitsha sencoko. Kodwa musa ukusasaza yonke into ebomini bakho, ubomi obunqabileyo bube ngcono ukugqithisa imigangatho yeshumi ngokubanzi, kwaye ukuba unina uyabuza - kungcono ngokuzithemba ukutshitshisa ngokucacileyo, uthi kukukhathazeka ukuba uxoxe ngale nto kwaye mhlawumbi oku kuya kulungele ixesha elizayo. Ungacingi ukuba oko kuye kwaba mnandi kuye, ukhangele onke amahlangothi akho, kwaye kungcono ukubona into engeyinto enhle kakhulu, akufanele inikwe.
Ukuqhagamshelana nabazali bakhe, khumbula ukuba bakhulu kunani kwaye mhlawumbi abayiqondi i-nano-technologies. Musa ukuqala ingxoxo ngesihloko sesicangca esincinci kakhulu sokuqonda, kuba le nto iyintando yakho yocwaningo lwezenzululwazi. Ungasebenzisi ulutsha noluthethayo - aluyi kuba nenene kakhulu. Kwakhona, nangona unqwenela ukuqokelela iingcaphuno zabantu abadumileyo-ungayisebenzisi isidlo sakusihlwa, akunakwenzeka ukuba kuyafaneleka.
Akuyi kuba kubi, ukuthetha ngezinto zakho zokuzonwabisa, amaphupha abantwana, indawo ozithandayo kwisixeko kunye nendlela othanda ukuchitha ngayo ngeveki, ngaphandle kokuba ngokuqinisekileyo ayiyi kuphumla phambi kweTV. Ndixelele, ufunde phi na kwiidolophu ezinomdla, mhlawumbi uhamba, okanye unakho kwizicwangciso. Abazali bathanda ukufunda ngezicwangciso zexesha elizayo, kuba ukuba umntu unomnqweno, uya kuphila into efunayo! Kodwa ungagqithwa, cela umama wakho oko kukuthabatha ebuntwaneni bakho, kwaye undikholelwe, unamabali amaninzi! Futhi musa ukuxelela abazali bakho ngokukhawuleza malunga nezicwangciso ezintle zonyana wabo, nokuba ngaba uyavuma! Ngeli xesha, yenza njengentombi yakhe, onayo yonke into engaphambili yonyana wakhe!
Kulu cwecwe kucetyiswa ukuba uzame ngasinye isidlo kunye naso sonke ixesha ukuze udumise loo ntsikazi othetha ngokuthe tye! Akuyimfuneko kulo mzuzwana ukuthetha into emanzini "Nogogo wam ...". Khumbula ukuba ukuva uhlolo oluhle malunga nomsebenzi wakho kuya kuba mnandi kunoma yimuphi umntu!
Ekupheleni kwesidlo sakusihlwa, sacela ukuncedisa ukususa etafileni, oku kuya kubonisa ukuba awunamavila kwaye unengqondo, kwaye ezi ziyimpawu ezibalulekileyo ekudaleni ubudlelwane kunye neentsapho kwixesha elizayo.
Ukuthetha, mbulela ixesha elihle oye wachitha endlwini yabo, bathi ngoku ubona ukuba umntu wakho uhlakaniphile, uhloniphekile, okanye into enjalo. Ukuba bakuxelela ukuba bakuvuyela ukukubona - unokuqiniseka ukuba uthande abazali bakhe! Kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba ulwalamano lokuqala nomama waphumelela, kwaye wenza konke okulungileyo! Kodwa zama ukungahlangabezane nonina okungenani inyanga, kuya kunceda ukuba uzuze ekudaleni kwakhe uluvo olungileyo ngawe, kwaye uya kuxhasa nokuba kukho into engahambi kakuhle kwiintlanganiso ezilandelayo.