Ukungavelisi isihloko sokholo
Ukuba udibana nomntu okholwayo ke, zama ukuphepha ukuthetha naye ngokukholwa nonke. I-guywill eyaneleyo iyinto eqhelekileyo yokuphatha umnqweno wakho, kuba ukuba uyinyaniso enyanisekileyo kwaye inyanisekileyo, ufuna ukukunceda, kodwa akafuni ukuluyisa inkolo yakho kwinkolo yakho. Khumbula ukuba awusoze uyitshintsha. Abantu abakholelwa kakhulu kuThixo kunye neBhayibhile baqinisekile ngokupheleleyo ukuba baxelelwa ngabafundisi nabafundisi. Oko kukuthi, amagama abo eBhayibhileni afanelekileyo njengemfundiso yePythagore yomntu oqhelekileyo. Ukuba abantu babetshelwe ukuba i-theorem ayiphutha kwaye ayifanele isetyenziswe ukubala, ubungatshintsha ingqondo yakho? Kungenokwenzeka ukuba, ngenxa yokuba ufundiswe kakhulu ebomini bakho besikolweni, zonke iindawo ezikufutshane nazo zicinga ukuba zifana nawe, ngoko awuyi kuba nesizathu sokungabaza ukuchaneka kwe-theorem. Kwakhona umfana wakho ukhangelwa ukugxeka uThixo kunye neBhayibhile. Ukususela ebuntwaneni wayeqinisekile ukuba ukucinga okunjalo kuyona efanelekileyo. Abantu abasondeleyo (kunye nabazalwana banomhlobo omnye kunye nabaziwayo) banokuqiniseka ukuba nguThixo kunye neBhayibhile eyona nto inokwenene yokwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo kwaye iya kuba luncedo xa iingxaki ziqala ukuvela ebomini. Ngoko, ukuzama ukuya kumfana yakho ingcamango yokuba uThixo akayinto ekhethekileyo, awuyi kufeza nantoni na. Kodwa ukuba umfana wakho unenkani, kunye ne-floppy, ke endaweni yokunikela umntu ukuba ahlale ephazamisekile, uya kuqala ukuphikisana. Kwaye njengokuba uyazi, iingxabano kunye nabakholwa abazange baphele nantoni na, kuba bathabatha onke amazwi kuThixo, njengokungcikiva. Kungenxa yoko, ukuba i-fate ifake umakholwa, kwaye uhlakaniphile ngokwaneleyo ukuba angakhulisi isihloko sokholo ngokwakhe, kufuneka wenze ngokuhlakanipha ngokuziphepha. Ukuba loo mntu unomntu ohlukileyo kwaye ufuna ukubonisa into ethile kuwe, ngoko kufuneka umise ukuziphatha kwaye umxelele ukuba uyamthanda ngendlela ayenayo, kodwa akufanele ubeke uluvo lwakho kuwo. Ukuba awufikeleli kwiinkonzo kunye nenkolo, ekugqibeleni ulwalamano lwakho luya kuhlahloka, kuba uhlala uxabana kwaye uxabana, bonisa ubungqina bakho, zama ukubeka ingcamango yakho yesibini kumntu wesibini. Ngoko ke, ukuba ungumntu onothando, naphezu kokholo lwakhe olunzulu, zama ukuqonda kunye nokwamkela njengoko unjalo kwaye ungavumeli ukuba inkolo ibe phakathi kwakho. Emva koko, uThixo uluthando olumele ludale, ungabhubhisi ubuhlobo.
Ukuziphatha kuluntu
Abantu bezenkolo baye bahluke ngokupheleleyo kwiimigaqo zokuziphatha kuluntu. Abamkeli ulwimi oluthileyo, phantse ungasebenzisi utywala, ungahambi kwimibutho apho intombazana enamahlunu egcwele ibhiya. Ukuba ukwakha ubudlelwane nomntu okholwayo, kufuneka ulungele oku kwaye unike into engavumelekanga kumntu onqulo. Kodwa kakizvestno, kungekhona wonke umntu onokuphosa yonke into awahlala kuyo ngaphambi kokudibana nesiqingatha sakhe. Ngoko ke, ukuba uyaqonda ukuba uya kuqhubeka uthetha nabahlobo, uye emacimbini uze uphuze ubhiya, khawuleza uthethe ngeqabane lakho. Ukuba isimo sakhe sengqondo sibi kakhulu, ngoko kufuneka ukhethe: yena okanye ubomi bakho. Ukuba ikholwa likwazi ukuphazamisa, ngoko unokuzama ukulungisa yonke into ukuze wonke umntu ajabule. Umzekelo, ukuhamba nokusela kunye nabahlobo bakho xa uxakeke ekwenzeni ishishini okanye uthetha nabahlobo bakhe becawa. Ungaze uvele phambi kwakhe utywala, kuba kumntu okholwayo, umfazi oseburhulumenteni unxilongo. Kwaye, ke, khawuleza kunye nalo. Nangona kunjalo, xa ukholwa ngumntu, akufanele ufune ukusela kuphela. Ukuba uhamba kunye nabahlobo bakho, cela abazithandayo ukuba bangafungi kunye nekwenkwenkwe yakho ukuziphatha ngokufanelekileyo. Akukho mntu uthetha ngendlela abahlobo bamele bathethe ngayo isilabhasi ngendlela ephakamileyo, benze into engeyonto, kunye njalo njalo. Chaza nje kubantu ukuba ininzi iqabane, utywala obuninzi nokugqithisa ngokweqile inkwenkwe yakho ayimkelekanga. Umntu oqhelekileyo, okholwayo, uyazi kakuhle yonke into, nangona engabelana ngayo. Abantu abalungileyo kunye nabahlobo bokwenene baya kuhlala bekuqonda. Kodwa kulo mzekelo, ukuziphatha kwesahluko kufanele ukuba kwanele, kuba akanalo ilungelo lokuqhaqhazela abantu abanochoko ngenxa yokuba basele iiglasi zebhiya okanye ngamanye amaxesha badumise igama elibi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ubudlelwane obuphakathi komntu okholwayo kunye nomntu oqhelekileyo luzakhelwe kuphela kwiingqungquthela, kuba aba bantu bavela kwiihlabathi ezahlukeneyo. Kuninzi nje abakwamkeliyo. Kodwa ukuba bafuna ukwakha ubudlelwane, kufuneka benze oku, kungenjalo akukho nto iyakwehluleka, kuba imbono yehlabathi ngomnye iphantse isibuko esibhekene nesimo sengqondo sesibini.
Amantombazana amaninzi akholelwa ukuba ulwalamano kunye nomKristu luya kubakhuthaza ukuba babe ngcono baze baphucule. Ukongezelela, ikholwa lithembeke ngakumbi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, xa uqala ukudibana nomntu onjalo, ubuninzi bezinto azenzayo, ngokuthe ngcembe uqala ukwenza umnqweno wokuvukela, ukwenza ngokunyaniseka, kuba ubomi bakho buye wanda ngokubanzi kwiminye imigaqo, kwaye yintoni ebangel 'umdla kukuba, ukhangeleka ngokuziphatha kwakhe, ngokuchanekileyo ngokwakho uqala ukubonakala. Ngako oko, ukuba ucinga ukuba uyintombazana enomoya entle, umqhubi weenkampani ezomsindo, njalonjalo, kwaye unethemba lokuba umntu okholwayo unokukugcina kuloo ndlela yokuphila, kufuneka ukhawulezise ngokukhawuleza ukuba yonke into iya kuhamba ngokuthe ngqo. Ngenxa yoko, akukho mfuneko yokuzama ngokukodwa ukwakha ubudlelwane kunye nomKristu, kuba wena kunye nabantu bevela kwiihlabathi ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa ukuba uthando luya kuqhubeka, ngoko rhoqo zama ukufumana ukunyaniseka kuyo yonke into, ukuze uhlale uhlala kunye nomhlobo, ngaphandle kokuzama ukutshintsha umntu omthandayo.