Ngokutsho kweengcali zengqondo, iqela labesetyhini ngokufanayo lihlala lingenangqiqo: lisoloko luthisa ukunyanzela abo abangahlonishwayo, kodwa bahloniphe abo abangafanelanga. Yingakho abaninzi abaphathi bezindoda, abafuna ukukhokela iqela elinjalo, ngokuzenzekelayo bazikhethele indawo ekhethekileyo yokudlala indima yokukhuselwa komntu wabo. Ngoko ke, abaqashi bamadoda: iingxaki kunye neengxaki zokuziphatha kwabo nendlela yokuziphatha nabo?
"Mantombazana, masihlale kunye! "U
Ngesinye isikhathi kwakukho inkwenkwana eyayinakekelwa kakhulu ngumama, kwaye ngubani owayengabangani nabafana ababi, kodwa amantombazana akhethiweyo. Ngoko wakhula, waba yintloko yeqela labesetyhini. Ekuqaleni, umntu onjalo uyaziphatha nayo yonke into ngokulinganayo, kodwa emva kwexesha uqala ukukwakha konke, nangona, ngexesha elifanayo, uhlala ehamba "namantombazana" akhe.
Kutheni silinde? Ngokumangalisayo, kodwa umntu ophakamileyo ophezulu uhamba kunye nabasetyhini, ngokukhawuleza ufumana ulwimi olufanayo nabo, uyaziqonda kwaye uhlala ekulungele ukunika iingcebiso. Ngendlela, nakwabanye abafazi, yena, ngokwenene, akaboni abameli besini esahlukileyo, kuba kuye kwiqela lilinganayo. Kodwa naziphi na iingenelo, kuya kubakho iimeko ezincinci. Ngokomzekelo, loo mcuphi udla ngokuqhathaniswa nama-mumble. Yonke imiba engaphendululwayo, kulula ukunciphisa ukunganyaniseki, ukungathandabuzeki ekungciphekweni, ukuvimbela ukutsha kunye nokukhawuleza ukuphakamisa umvuzo.
Indlela yokuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo? Khumbula, lo mphathi uyika uxanduva, njengomlilo ngokwawo. Yingakho ehlala ekhetha umntu owaziyo kuwo wonke umntu nangomntu onamandla. Njengomthetho, phakathi "kwabasetyhini bezilwanyana zenkampani". Yingakho yonke imibuzo enomdla okufuneka uyisombulule kuphela kuye. Kuphela kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela into yokuba loo mphini uhlale exakeke kwaye ephoswe kwaye yonke into ngenxa yokungahambi kakuhle komphathi.
"Ndiya kukukhangela amaqongqayi apha! "U
Ukomeleza uqeqesho oluqhelekileyo yinjongo ephambili yomphathi onjalo. "Ndiya kuzisa apha!" "- Ngalamagama indoda enjalo inkulu iqala ukwakha iqela labasetyhini. Kwaye, ngokugqithiseleyo, njengoko kusemthethweni, yahamba: ihlawulwa ngokukhawuleza, ithuba lokuthatha ixesha elide emsebenzini ngaphandle kwiphepha eliqinisekisiweyo kwiimeko ezintathu, ukufumana iphepha leofisi phantsi kwe-risiti eqinile ... Ngamafutshane, umphathi onjalo kwi-arsenal eneendlela ezininzi, indlela yokwenza uloyiko oluhlanganisiweyo .
Kodwa, engakhangeli yonke imiyalelo yesondlo yomphathi onjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo engqongqo akazithembi kuye, njengentloko. Ngamagama, ungumkhankaso omkhulu, kodwa akakwazi ukuziqhayisa nge talente. Kwinqanaba lamadoda akakhanyiseli iintaba, kodwa kwintombazana iziphatha ngayo, ivela kwi-stereotype: "Umfazi uyindalo ebuthathaka! ".
Kutheni silinde? Indoda enjalo ngokuqhelekileyo ngumqeshwa othembisayo. Uninzi lwayo yonke into ayithandayo, xa amantombazana amancinci kunye neentloni asebenza kwiqela, ngubani, mhlawumbi, abayinyamezeli nomsebenzi wabo, kodwa benza ngokuthembeka imithetho yakhe.
Indlela yokuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo? Kufuneka ukuba ufunde zonke iingxaki ngeendlela "zengxellane". Ngaloo ndlela: ngandlela naluphi na isizathu, mbhalele ingxelo ngeenkcukacha, ezongezelelweyo ngeefayile ezicacileyo kumanani. Ikopi yeli khalazo kufuneka ixhaswe kwiifolda - njengaye, kwimeko apho. Ngendlela, zonke i-pluses zomphathi onjalo ngumntu onoxanduva kwaye ukuba uthethe into ethile, uya kuyenza.
"Ibhola elicingayo! "U
Njengomthetho, umphathi onjalo uhluke ngokungathí sina, ucingisise kwaye akafuni ukuthetha ngokungenanto. Umsebenzi wakhe ulandelelwe ngenjongo, ngokupheleleyo ngaphandle kokunikela ingqalelo kubangaphandle. Uyazi umsebenzi wakhe kakuhle, kodwa uyamoyika umfazi.
Umphathi onjalo unomdla wokuba "yindoda yodwa", ngoko iqela labesifazane likhanya ngempumelelo kunye neyothando jikelele.
Indlela yokuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo? Ukuba ufuna ukushiya uluvo olufanelekileyo malunga nawe, zama ukuvakalisa iingcamango zakho ngokukhawuleza kwaye uzikhusele ngokuqinile, ungazivumeli ukuphazamisa. Hlalani nisondela ngokukhawuleza kumphathi kumaso. Ezi ziyinzuzo zakho eziphambili, ezifunekayo ukuba zibandakanye ukubonakala kwakho: thola i-suit suit engqongqo kwaye ubone imimangaliso enako ukuyidala. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kulinda ukukhuthazwa.
"Ndihleli e troneni - ndijonga kude! "U
Unomusa, kodwa ulungeleleneyo, uhlale ungalindeleki kwaye unganamdla. Umphathi onjalo uyangena ngokukhawuleza kwiqela labesetyhini, kodwa kukho rhoqo "ukuphazamiseka" okhethekileyo malunga nazo zonke iingxaki kunye neengxabano.
Kutheni silinde? Kwinkampani phantsi kolawulo lwakhe, umoya wokubambisa umhlaba uvakalelwa ngokucacileyo. Ngoko, ungalindeli ngombonakalo wentando yeninzi yeengcinga kunye namaphulo akho. Inzuzo yokuba ngumphathi lowo kukuba uyathanda ukuphulaphula inkohliso yabesifazane, kuba kubonga kubo, ufunda ngoobani emva kwakhe kunokuphefumula. Kwaye ukuba uyamdumisa umntu, akusiyo yonke into yokuba enye yomsebenzi owongezelelweyo iya kufakwa kumahlombe alo msebenzi.
Indlela yokuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo? Umphathi onjalo uhlonipha ukuvuma konke nokuthanda umsebenzi. Ukusebenza ngokucokisekileyo nokukhutheleyo, kunye nokuzihlonela, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kulinda umvuzo.
"Into ephambili kwi-anthill! "U
Lo akusikho umphathi, kodwa i-robot yangempela. Uhlala kwaye usebenza ngokulandela imiyalelo ephuculweyo, ngokuqinisekileyo ayisebenzisa kwimpilo. Ngendlela, ngokuhamba kwexesha, iqela labesetyhini livumelana nazo zonke iimbono zakhe zehlabathi. Kwaye inqaku elo lonke elokuba inkokheli enjalo inomusa kwaye "ingenanto"!
Kutheni silinde? Ukungalungi kwintloko yolu khetho kukuba ulawulwa kakhulu ukuba asebenze kwaye udonsa wonke umntu emva kwakhe! Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, kwiqela apho alawula khona, kukho ukuhlala kubungani kunye nomoya osebenzayo. Kwaye konke ukubonga ngendlela yakhe "yokuncoma okulula."
Indlela yokuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo? Eli nkokeli lijongisisa kakuhle uphuhliso lwimeko yonke yemveliso. Uhlala ekhuthaza wonke umntu onokukwazi ukwahlula ngexesha. Ngendlela, kumphathi onjalo kukulungele ukufaka isicelo kwimida yeshedyuli esilondolozayo kwaye ulandela imiyalelo yakhe.
Kwaye okokugqibela, ngokwezo zonke iingcali zengqondo, inqanaba eliphezulu kakhulu lokugcina indawo yokusebenza kwiqela lilingana nomlinganiselo ofanayo wabasetyhini kunye namadoda. Kule qela eninzi inzuzo, ukuba, xa udibeneyo, apho umntu oyedwa kunye nomphathi, fumana i-pluses kuyo! Inhlanhla!