Kuwuphi na ishishini elifanayo? . . Ngenhlanhla yakho, ebuqhenqeni bakho okanye kwenye into? Kutheni ezinye zifezekisa kakhulu ngaphandle kokufaka isicelo, njengoko kubonakala ngathi, iinzame ezikhethekileyo, ngelixa ezinye zijikeleza njengegrowor in wheel and return to their position? . .
Ngoko, sele uzibuza yona le mibuzo, awuyi kuzuza ezininzi. Yeka ukujonga abanye ngegama elinomdla "kutheni", sebenzisa impumelelo yabanye njengento evuselela impumelelo yakho. "Ukuba umntu ufezekisile into ethile, ngoko ndiyakwazi" - sisimo sengqondo esifanele kuzo zonke iinjongo. Ukufezekisa impumelelo kuthetha ukuzama ukuphumelela. Qaphela ukuba kukho isenzi kuyo yonke indawo, oko kukuthi, isenzo. Kwaye xa sithetha ngezenzo, ngoko kufuneka senze into ethile, sebenze ngendlela efanelekileyo, kwaye ungacingi nje, umona, uphupha. Ukucinga okufanelekileyo kunye nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kunceda ukufezekisa ezininzi izinto ezifunwayo kwaye zithathwe.
Ngoku siza kuhlenga "umgangatho wempumelelo" kwaye, ngoko kuthetha, iimpawu ezisithintela ekufezeni nantoni na ebomini. Kodwa, ngokwazi ukuba wenzeni, nawe, kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuba uqale ukwenza into echaseneyo.
Yintoni eyenza intombi ibe yimpumelelo? Kuba wonke umntu ngowakho. Njengomthetho, oku kukuzimela, ukuzimelela, ukuphuhlisa umntu, kunye nokuzinza kwezezimali. Umntu ophumelelayo uyabonakala kumntu wonke, ukuba ngexesha elifanayo akalahlekelwa yimpawu zakhe ezibalulekileyo zomntu. Ngoko ke, ukuba uphumelele, kungekhona ngokusemgangathweni, kodwa ebomini, yenza umfazi abe ngumfazi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukwazi ukusebenzisa kakuhle impumelelo yakho, ukwenzela ukuba uhlale unani.
Ngoko, isinyathelo esibalulekileyo endleleni eya kufunwa, oko kukuthi, ukuphumelela, kubakho ubuchule benjongo okanye, ngokubhekiselele kukuthi, iphupha. Yonke into oyifumanayo, yonke into oyifumene ngayo yaqala ngeminqweno yakho, iingcinga kunye neengcamango. Xa uye esitolo, u "sukeleka" ngenjongo yento yokuthenga, ngako konke. Kukho ukhenketho olunengqiqo: "umnqweno-action-result". Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abaninzi banenjongo enkulu. Iyintoni injongo yokuphila kotywala? Ndicinga ukuba akufanele ndiphendule lo mbuzo, wena uyazi impendulo kuyo. Ukufuna into encinci, sifumana encinci. Xa sicinga ukuba asiyi kufezekisa nantoni na, asiyi kuwufeza ngaloo ndlela, kuba ayikho yethu, thina siyazi thina ...
Ngoku siqhubela phambili kumgangatho obalulekileyo obalulekileyo - inkolelo yokuphumelela . Kungenxa yokungabi nalukholo lokuba abantu abaninzi "bangcwaba" amaphupha abo ngaphandle, ngenxa yokuba abaqinisekanga ngamandla abo, okanye ukuzaliseka kweminqweno yabo.
Ngoko, uyazi ukuba ufuna ntoni, uqinisekile ukuba uya kuba nayo, ngoku cinga malunga nento olungele ukuyenza nokuba uza kwenza ntoni ukuzalisekisa iinjongo zakho . Ukuba ufuna indlu yelizwe, ngaba ulungele ukusebenza ngaphezulu xa unethuba lokufumana imali eyongezelelweyo, ulungele ukuthatha iphrojekthi entsha, ukuba unikwe ibhizinisi elitsha umdla, ulungele ukuphuhlisa ukuphumelela, njl. kwaye inkolelo ekuphunyezweni kwayo iya kuthi, njengemagnethi, ithande amathuba okuphunyezwa kwayo, kwaye ngokwemvelo, ukuzisebenzisa ngamathuba, uya kuba negalelo ekuzalisekeni kwephupha.
Enye impazamo enkulu eninzi eyenziwa kukuba sifuna yonke into kanye, kodwa oku akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngoko ke, abaninzi "baphosa" amaphupha abo kwibhokisi elide, bawachaze ngokungenangqiqo, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, balahlekelwa ukholo lwabo kwimpumelelo. Kwaye kuphela abantu abaphikelela kunye abanokuzithemba baya ekupheleni. Kwaye akufuneki ukuba uzalwe njengaye, unokuhlakulela iimpawu ezinjalo kuwe.
Yazisa ixesha lakho , lichithe kwizinto ezincedo, izinto ezincedo. Ubuchule bokucwangcisa ixesha lakho nobomi bakho bubalulekileyo kwisinyathelo. Sinobomi obodwa kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba ufuna ukufezekisa into ethile, sebenzisa ixesha lakho ngenzuzo. Ukuba uhlalutya, inxalenye enkulu yexesha lakho lakho lichithekile kwaye lingenanto engakumbi: kwiifowuni ezingenanto ezingadingekile, ngenxa yeengxabano kunye neengxabano, ukungaziboni kunye nezoshishino ezingadingekile. Ewe, sidinga ukunxibelelana kwaye kubalulekile, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha sithetha "malunga nento yonke nantoni na," sibiza "ukubulala" ixesha lethu, njl njl. Mhlawumbi le nxalenye yexesha lakho elixabisekileyo iya kusetshenziselwa ngakumbi kwizinto ezibalulekileyo : umzekelo, ukufunda iincwadi, ukuphula iidiski ezithakazelisayo, ukuya kwiimina-mfundiso kunye nokuqeqesha, emva koko, ukuhlakulela umntwana wakho. Kufanelekile ukuba sikhumbule ukuba abantwana bentlawulo engcono kakhulu ebomini, ngoko khumbula ingqalelo kubantwana bakho.
Beka indlela ozijonga ngayo kuqala : indlela obheka ngayo, indlela oziphatha ngayo, iimpawu zakho kunye nempawu, ukubonakala kwakho kuthatha indima ebalulekileyo ekuphumezeni impumelelo. Kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba yeyiphi idatha yangaphandle onayo, kubalulekile ukuba uyenze ukuze ukhangele kakuhle. Izambatho zakho, indlela yokuziphatha yakho yathetha ngayo. Indlela yokuphila enempilo, ukukhula ngokomzimba, ukutya okunomsocoba ngabahlobo bokwenene befomu yakho enhle, uvakalelo oluhle, kwaye, ngoko ke, impumelelo.
Kubalulekile ukwenza into yonke imihla ukuze uqonde iphupha lakho . Iphulo elibaluleke kakhulu kukunyusa ukholo lwayo kwimpumelelo, injongo, ukuziphucula nokuzikhupha. Indima ebalulekileyo kulo mbandela idlalwe yiincwadi, iiCD, uqeqesho, iisemina. Khetha into oyithandayo, ulwazi olutsha naluphi na oluya kukwenza okulungileyo. Into kuphela, cingisisa ngokukhetha iikhosi ekuzikhuleni. Ngokubhekiselele kwimfuno enhle yalolu hlobo lwazi, kuninzi inani labangcolisi, abafuna ukufumana kuyo. Kufuneka uhlawule ngolwazi oluxabisekileyo, oluluncedo nolulungileyo, ngoko uhlalutye ngokucacileyo ukuba yintoni inkqubo yokuqeqesha, mhlawumbi ukhethe isikolo kunye noqeqesho kwiinconywa zabahlobo nabaqhelana nabo.
Ewe, musa ukulibala malunga nomsebenzi . Emva kwakho konke, ingqiqo yolwazi lwakho, xa iphela yintloko yakho. Yenza umgomo wakho, uphupha uze uyicinge ngemibala yonke. Khumbula, inyathelo ebalulekileyo ekuphumeleleni lizisa le nto ekupheleni. Yaye makunakuyeka ukusilela okuncinci, nabo babalulekile endleleni eya empumelelweni, uhlobo lwenkokhelo, nokuba uya kuphuka. Kwaye phambili! Qala namhlanje, okwangoku, musa ukuhlehlisela IT ngomso, kuba "ngomso unamandla okungaqhelekanga ukuba ungahambi". Ukuqala ngoku, uza kwenza isinyathelo sokuqala esibalulekileyo endleleni eya empumelelweni yakho. Inhlanhla kunye nempumelelo enkulu!