Ku lungile
- Amaziko eofisi. Kwimibutho eminingi yabasebenzi kukho isiko lokubhiyozela iiholide eofisini kunye. Emva kwale mibutho, nantoni na eyenzekayo.
- Usoloko unalo ixesha. Kwenzeka ukuba umsebenzi uthatha ixesha elininzi. Abantu abaninzi sele benomdla wokuya kwindawo ethile emva komsebenzi. Ngako oko, i-romance yesevisi ilungile.
- Xa uqhutywa yinjongo efanayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba abantu ababandakanyekayo kwishishini elinye bavelisa umdla, iimfuno, imigaqo. Kwizemidlalo kwaye ubonise ishishini, ubudlelwane "umvelisi-umculi", "umfaki-zithombe-mfanekiso", umlingisi-mlingisi usasazeke kakhulu. " Iiyunivesithi ezinjalo zenkonzo zijongwa yiNkcazo ye-Electra, ngoko ke kwiimeko ezininzi umntu onamava nangaphezulu wenza njengenkokeli.
- Shishini. Akunzima ukuba ngumfazi wezigidigidi, evakalelwa ngathi "kwindawo yegolide". Iingcali zengqondo zithi amanye amadoda athathe umfazi, kodwa angamvumeli ukuba ahambe kude, awanike okanye avule iqela elincinci apho angaba yinkosikazi, okanye amthabathe uncedo lwakhe kwishishini lakhe. Kukho imizekelo yenkqubela yezo ntsapho.
- Iimpawu zomntu. Ukuthetha yonke imihla nomntu osebenza emsebenzini, unokufunda ngokupheleleyo iimpawu zakhe. Iiveli zenkonzo, xa zithandana nomntu kwiimpawu zengcali, aziqabile, kodwa zenzeka.
- Uhambo lo shishino. Uhambo kwenye indawo kwenye idolophu nomqeshwa omhle yithuba elihle lencwadana yenkonzo. Abo banomdla, sincoma ukuba sibone "Iyona nto inqabileyo kwaye inomtsalane".
Ngamahlwempu
- Inkokeli efanelekileyo kwindawo yokuqala iya kuhlala isetyenziselwa kwintsimi yakhe, kunokuba ibe ngumatshini ococekileyo wentombazana.
- Ibhinqa elagqiba ukuqala i-romance yenkonzo ngenxa yendawo yokusebenzela, emehlweni abahlobo emsebenzini kunye nabasebenzi nje, ilahlekelwa ngumgangatho wengcali kwishishini layo. Ukususela kuloo mzuzu, kuphela iimpawu zakhe zesini ziqala ukubonakala, kungekhona ezobuchwepheshe. I-romance yenkonzo ingenza udideke oluthile kulwalamano nabo. Amadoda angaqala ukucinga ukuba ungowesifazane obumnandi obuhle, abafazi abayi kuphantsi kwamaphuzu okukuthintela, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ingxaki enoba ngumphathi.
- Uthando lwenkonzo luhlala luqhubeka phambi kwabo bonke abasebenzi, ngoko ke kufuneka ulungele ukuba nangona bengenakuziva ngawe, baya kuqhubeka bexoxa, okanye banike iingcebiso ezingadingekile.
- Ukuba ungumphathi okanye umphathi, ngoko ke umntu ongezantsi wakho ufumana intando yenkonzo kunye nawe ngenxa yemisebenzi ephezulu kakhulu. Ufuna ntoni na?
- Uthando kwindawo yokusebenzela luphazamisa kakhulu emsebenzini. Ngako oko, unako ukukhishwa ngaphandle komsebenzi, okanye kunye neqabane lakho.
- Ukuba uqala i-romance yenkonzo nje ngenxa yomsebenzi, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba nayiphi na indawo apho indawo yakho inokuthi ithathwe ngumnye umntu, kwaye ke uya kushiywa yinto, kwaye kunye negama elibi.
- Iiveli ezinje "njengomphenyi-intolongo", "ugqwetha-umxhasi", "umfundisi-mfundi", uvunyelwe ngokubhaliweyo ngemithetho engabhalwa phantsi kwaye ebhaliweyo. Abagcini nje ukuphazamisa inkqubo yomsebenzi, kodwa banokulimaza impilo yakho, okanye ubomi.
- Kufuneka ucinge ngenyameko malunga nokuba ulungele ukubona umntu ofanayo ekhaya nasemsebenzini. Kwaye nangona ulungele, ulungele ukumbona yonke imihla emsebenzini xa i-romance yakho yezoshishino iphelile? Unokusebenza ngokufanelekileyo xa ubona umxhaphazi wakho?
Ewe, emva kokulinganisa yonke into "emihle" kunye "embi", cinga ngokucophelela ngaphambi kokuqala i-romance yenkonzo. Umsebenzi ophumelelayo!