Indlela yokuphumelela kwimisebenzi?

Ukuba kwisicwangciso somsebenzi awunelisekanga ngesimo sakho samanje kwaye ucinga ukuba ufanelekele ngakumbi, ngoko lixesha lokulibonisa bonke abantu.

Ixesha eliqinisekisiweyo ukuba isitshixo sempumelelo sisoloko sinyaniseka. I-90% yegama lakho. Simele sizalisekise izivumelwano zethu. Akukho mntu uya kunqaba ukujongana nomntu onokwethenjelwa. Kodwa ngenxa yokufutheka kunye nokunganakwa kufuneka kupheliswe. Oku kugxotha abantu, kubandakanywa nabaphathi.

Akufanele unikeze isizathu esongezelelweyo sokuhleba. Khumbula, ukuba uphumelele kakhulu ishishini lakho, xa ufuna ngakumbi ukubeka esweni ukuba wenze ntoni kwaye uthi. Ngelishwa, impembelelo yecala lempumelelo ayifanelekanga, ikulungele ukusebenzisa nokuziphatha kakubi kancinci kuwe. Kwaye kuthekani malunga nenyaniso yokuba abaninzi abagxeki banokwenza umsebenzi wabo wokwakha ubuqhetseba? Ewe, bayakwazi ukwenza imali kwimicimbi engathembekanga, kwaye banokukhawuleza kunomntu ophila ngemigaqo eqinile yokuziphatha kwaye ubeka yonke into yakhe emsebenzini wakhe. Kodwa ishishini labantu abanjalo lixesha elifutshane. Utshisa ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva kwaye ngenxa yoko kuya kubakho ilahleko ezininzi ngaphezu kweenzuzo.

Esinye sezibhambathiso ezibalulekileyo ekuphumeleleni kokukhula komsebenzi kukukwazi ukuhambelana nabantu. Musa ukulihalalisa oogxa bakho ngosuku lokuzalwa kwabo, baya kushiya emphefumlweni wabo imvakalelo efudumeleyo ngawe kwaye ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi ngexesha elilukhuni baya kukuhlangula, kuba kwishishini kukho zonke iintlobo. Soloko uphendula ngokukhululekile kwiifowuni zefoni, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukhathele kangakanani, kodwa kuthiwani ukuba umphathi wakho ubiza?

Unganikeli amagama omnxeba kunoma ubani kwinqela lakho lomsebenzi, nakwiinjongo ezinobubele, kwaye ungabavumeli ukuba bakunike. Gcina ngokuzithoba, kodwa ngesithunzi. Njalo ugxininisa kulonyango, oluhle kuwe, kungekhona kumntu ovela kwiqela. Loo mntu uya kuhlala ehlonishwa.

Elinye iqela elibalulekileyo ekuphuhliseni ukukhula komsebenzi wakho kukudibanisa kunye nolwazi oluncedo. Ngoko ke, soloko uqwalasela oko kwenzekayo malunga nawe, ngobumnene, kodwa unobtrusively, unomdla kwizinto ezinokuba luncedo. Ungazami ukwenza abahlobo kunye nabantu "abasondeleyo", baya kukudonsela emuva, kungekhona phambili. Kodwa abo abaye bafumana impumelelo engaphezulu kunako, baya kuba nento yokufunda. Zama ukuthetha nabanye nabantu abanjalo, baqonde imigaqo yeengcamango zabo nezenzo zabo. Kuya kuba kuhle ngakumbi ukuba umphathi uqala ukukuthatha kwiintlanganiso zezoshishino. Ngoko uza kuhamba ngokuthe ngcembe isangqa oyifunayo.

Ungaphuthelwa ithuba lokuthetha nomphathi kwizinto ezinobungane, kodwa ungabi mfuneko, ukuba ufumana idumela njenge "scumbag", kukho ithuba ngokubanzi ukulibala ngokunyuka. Zama ukubonisa ngengqiqo yakho imbono kwaye unike iingcebiso ukuba uyazifuna.

Qinisekisa ukugcina zonke iikopi zamaphepha ezibalulekileyo kuni: imiyalelo yabaphathi, iirisithi. Emva koko awukwazi ukukhathazeka malunga nokuba umntu uya kukubeka. Cwangcisa ngokucacileyo imihla yakho, urekhode yonke into kwishedyuli yakho yansuku zonke. Kuba ngumntu woshishino, ufunekile, kuba ngezinye iimeko phantsi kwempembelelo yolwazi kulula kakhulu ukulibala into ebalulekileyo. Kwaye ufuna udumo lomqeshwa olawula yonke into enokulindela ukuyifumana kumagunya umsebenzi othile ojongene noxanduva.

Nangona kunjalo isibambiso esibaluleke kakhulu sempumelelo siyithando yeso sikhethiweyo. Akuyimfuneko ukufezekisa into ethile ngenxa yemali, ngaphandle koko ukutyelela umsebenzi ongathandekiyo ungaguqukela kumsebenzi onzima. Kwaye, ngokuchaseneyo, xa uvakalelwa kukuba wenza into yakho, izinto zilula kwaye zikhawuleza, zinomdla, umnqweno wokusebenza kunye nomoya wenjabulo kwimisebenzi esele yenziwe.