Kodwa konke oku kuyi nyaniso. Kwaye, ke, ezi ngxaki azisoloko zihambelana nobunzima bomsebenzi ngokwawo: ingxelo engqongqo ye-ofisi ephakathi, uhambo loshishino okanye umyalelo omkhulu wemithetho. Yonke le nto ayisoloko ithathwa njengowesifazane "njengengxaki engumsebenzi", hayi, kungekhona ubunzima bomsebenzi wangempela. Kuphathelele ubunzima ekusebenzelaneni nabalingane. Kakade ke, ngokuqhelekileyo - iintloko, kodwa kungekho rhoqo. Igalelo elaneleyo elivelisayo kwintlupheko yobomi bomfazi osemsebenzini lenziwa ngabaqabane abaza kulo, behleli etafileni elisondeleyo okanye kude kakhulu, okuyiyo inokuphazamisa isimo sengqondo kunye nefowuni.
Ngoko, kukho, kwenzeka: umlenze entanyeni, imilomo igubha, emehlweni ... Asiyi kuqhubeka, siya kuphendukela kwimilinganiselo. Into yokuqala intokazi kufuneka yenze ngayo ukuzola. Ewe, loo ngcebiso isoloko ikhokelela kwimpembelelo eyahlukileyo, kodwa, kunjalo, iyaqhubeka iyinyaniso. Ukubheka kwiwindow, hamba e-corridor, phuma waya kwisitrato, ukuba kunokwenzeka, kufutshane, utshintshe imeko. Iimbalo ezimbalwa zibubula, ukuba imeko ivumela-ukulula, uhlale phantsi, mhlawumbi uye kumgangatho olandelayo. Naliphi na umqhubi wemoto esiyidingayo kulo mzuzwana njengomoya. Kodwa akukho sigwayi. Kwabo abatshitshiyo, bangathethi ngabo abathile ngenxa yezizathu ezithile banqume kule meko ukuba bashunqise ngokokuqala ngqa ebomini babo. Ngoko, into yokuqala esiyidingayo kukuba kukuphuma kwimeko esicinezelekileyo kwaye senze uhlobo oluthile lokunyakaza, ngcono kwi-air fresh.
Isinyathelo sesibini sidibene nokuhlalutya kwezinto ezenzekile, oko kwenzeka ngokwenene. Kodwa kufuneka siqalise le shishini ebalulekileyo kungekudala kunokuba sinomuvo wokuthi ukuxhatshazwa kuye kwanciphisa, ubuchule beentlupheko zidlule. Kwaye ngaphambi kokulungisa imeko enzima emsebenzini, kufuneka ikhutshwe, jonga ukujonga okuzolile, okuhlukileyo. Ngokumalunga nokuba kwakungesiyo imeko yethu, kodwa ibali lomhlobo. Kwaye, echazela yena ngokwenzekayo, ekubukeni le ngxelo kwingqungquthela yakhe yengqondo yomsakazo wethebula, umfazi akanakukwazi ukuphawula into engayiboniyo, ukuba ngumntu kulezi zimo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu akaphelelanga, umntu unempahla eqhutywe, umntu ulahlekelwe isisindo (afunyenwe), umntu ohlekisayo ahlaziye xa uthe, kwaye umntu ngokungalunganga wenza i-accent. Akukho mntu ukukhusela ekuphuculeni umboniso omnandi: gcina intloko yakho kubalingisi bakho beentlanzi okanye iipane. Ewe, ewe, izimbiza ezindala eziye zahlulwa - ngoko ke mazivumele kule fomu phambi kwakho kwaye usebenzise ngokucacileyo. Ewe, kwaye apha akuhlekisayo, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu: emva koko konke okuthethiweyo (kwenziwa) ngabathathi-nxaxheba kule vidiyo kwaye yabonwa ngumfazi ngendlela ethile ngexesha lokubukela okwesibini kunokubonakala kubonwe kwezinye iitoni. Enyanisweni, akunjalo ukuba emva kokutya okanye ngosuku olulandelayo, sibe sisimo sengqondo esihle saloo nkxwaleko evelayo sele sibone ukukhanya okuhlukile? Ngokuqinisekileyo, yilokho okufuneka usebenzise.
Isinyathelo sesithathu: ukuqulunqwa kwengxaki. Kucacile, ngokufanelekileyo kubhaliwe. Emva kokuqwalasela imeko ngokuzinzile nangokucokisekileyo, siya kuqaphela ukuba ingxaki inegama layo. Umzekelo: ukuhlolwa kwamakhono olwazi lomfazi, igalelo lakhe kwisizathu esifanayo, iimpawu zobume bakhe, ubomi bezinto eziphilayo, intsapho, impawu - njalo njalo, kunye nokunye okunjalo. Musa ukuzikhusela umzamo wokufezekisa ukucaciswa okucacileyo. Phinda ubhale kwakhona, udwebe imidwebo, ngokufanelekileyo, njengabadlali abanamafia. Kodwa kwimeko yakho kuya kuba yinkqubo yobudlelwane. Phakathi kwakho nabathathi-nxaxheba kwimpikiswano. Okanye ngaba akuyiyo ingxabano? Ingxabano yintoni? Kutheni kwakukho umahluko kwimibono kwimeko yezemicimbi? Ukuqulunqa, ukwakha, ukufezekisa ukucaca okupheleleyo. Kodwa ke, ungazisoli, uthethe ngokunyanisekileyo, into engathandekiyo. Kule nto kuxhomekeke kwimpumelelo yalo mbandela. Awunakho ithemba lokuba akukho nto ityala, ukuba uyisicatshulwa esingenasiphelo sentshutshiso kunye neengcinga. Qulunqa ngokucacileyo.
Isinyathelo sesine: isicwangciso senzo. Enyanisweni, ekubuzeni ekuqaleni kwimibuzo yendlela umfazi angayilungisa ngayo imeko ebunzima emsebenzini, ngoku sitshintshela ingxaki yendlela umfazi angayilungisa ngayo imeko enzima emsebenzini. Kukulungisa, oko kukuthi, ukwenza ixesha elithile ngokwecwangciso esithile.
Isinyathelo sesithandathu: ukuzalisekisa isicwangciso nokuhlalutya okungahambi kakuhle, njengoko bekujoliswe kuyo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba yonke into isekelwe kwisicwangciso. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba isicwangciso akufanele sihlanganiswe ukuba sidinga ukulungiswa. Ewe, isicwangciso sinokuba sincinane: imisebenzi emibini. Kodwa ucacile ngokucacileyo nangokucacileyo.
Isinyathelo sesithandathu: ukusibhalela malunga namava akho, malunga nendlela umfazi anokulungisa ngayo imeko enzima emsebenzini. Emva koko, ngoku uyingcali. Kwaye unokunceda abanye. Akukho nto iqinisekisa ukuba bhetele kunamava akho. Uyavuma?