Kuye kwenzeka ukuba indoda yokuqala kwiminwe eyaziwayo kunye nommeli wesini esahlukileyo yena ngokwakhe uyazikhethela ukuba uyithandayo kangakanani okanye ayithandi. Ngoko kuzalwa ngokwemvelo (ngokoqobo ngokomzimba). Iinyaniso zengqondo kukuba nayiphi na indoda ekucingeni ukuba umphathi wakhe ungumfazi, akaziva ekhululekile.
Ngoko ke, amadoda aqale ngokunyamekela imilinganiselo kunye neempawu zobungcali bomkhweli wesifazane, kwaye ke ngoko baya kuvuma ukulandela imimiselo nemiyalelo yayo. Ngoko-ke ukuba ufuna ukuwina indawo ephantsi, akufanele usebenzise kakubi amandla akho kuqala. Kufuneka uziphatha nabantu abaphantsi koontanga bakho kwaye ungabonakali ngokuphakamileyo kwakho ngokucacileyo. Kwaye, ke, zibukele uze ukhangele umfazi. Musa ukulibala ukuba ngamanye amaxesha uqokelele (uxolelwe) kwaye unamathele abaphantsi kwakho.
Kodwa kuthekani ukuba imeko yakho iyafani? Ngaba ungowesifazane kwaye awukwazi ukuba uziphathe njani nomphathi wesilisa?
Khumbula ukuba nayiphi na umphathi uhlala ejikelezwe ngqalelo yabesifazane. Uninzi lwabafazi besini kunye nomphathi wabo. Kodwa siya kukucebisa ukuba ungaqhubeki phambili. Ungagqoki kwiimfoloko zomsebenzi kunye ne-neckline encinci kunye neenkontileka-kunokukwenza umphathi abe nexhala. Zama ukuba ungamkhathazi ngeengxaki zakho - emva koko, umphathi unenkxalabo eninzi. Khumbula ukuba umninimzi uya kucoca ngokucokisekileyo ukuba uyazibuza njalo (uphucula ikhompyutheni yakho, ikunike i-stationery entsha, njl.). Zama ukulungisa iingxaki ezinjalo kunye namagosa akhe.
Kodwa ukuba unika ingqwalasela yabesifazane ngokuqhelekileyo - "Ngaba ubambe ubusika?", "Ukhangelekile ukhathele ..." - uya kutyhola omnye umphathi. Mncede athole kwi-Intanethi ngoko kuyimfuneko kuye ifowuni okanye unike ipilisi evela entloko - kwaye uya kunika i-chef i-service eyimfuneko.
Kwakhona, mema i-chef kwiinkampani ezincinane okanye "mezhdusoboychiki." Khumbula - umphathi wakho ngowokuqala kwaye ngowona mntu kwaye uya kuvuya nayo, nokuba uhamba kuphela isigxina seyure.
Ksenia Ivanova , ngakumbi kwisiza