Uninzi lwabantu abaqhelekileyo, abahlala emphakathini wabo othobekileyo, bazibuza ngokwabo ngemeko yabo yezemali, belahlekelwa yintoni, kutheni umntu engabonakaliyo ebomini, ngelixa abanye, abanamakhono athile kwaye abanako ukuhlala bekhwele ihashe. Yiyiphi impawu, abantu abanenhlanhla abazenzi nantoni na, benakho konke okuninzi kwibazali abacebileyo, okanye bavule ishishini labo, bazisebenzele ngempumelelo. Kubuhlungu kangakanani ngexesha xa ubona umntu oshishino ophumelelayo oye waba ngumfundi wakho esikolweni, wafunda ngenye indlela, wabhala izibalo kuwe, akazange aqonde nantoni kwi-chemistry. Kwaye ngoku ungumshishini! Kwaye abantu abafana nawe, abasebenzi abasebenza nzima, basebenza nzima ukuze bancede. Akusesikweni, kubangele ukuqhosha, umona onomdla kunye nentukuthelo.
Ngesinye isikhathi xa usencinane uphupha ngobomi obuhle, wacinga ukuba yonke into iya kuba yinto eyahlukileyo, ngaphandle koko, uya kufikelela ebomini obuhle, uvule ishishini lakho, okanye ufumane umsebenzi. Kodwa ngokwenene kule nto kubalulekile ukusebenza kanzima, ukufunda, ukuba nemfundo enhle. Yingakho bahlala kanzima esikolweni, kwiintetho eziklasini, baxubusha izinto ngaphambi kokuhlolwa, ukuphumla nokunyamekela kunye nabahlobo, bahlehlise ubomi babo "emva koko" xa konke kulungile, njalo njalo. Nguwe kuphela oye wanciphisa into encinci, akazange aqwalasele umzuzu owodwa olula. Cinga, mhlawumbi omnye umntu ubone ubomi bakho ngenxa yakho? Emva kwakho konke, mhlawumbi oku akunjalo, kodwa kunokuba ukhethe abazali bakho okanye uluntu ohlala kulo? Njengomthetho, lo msebenzi uphathiswe ngabazali, uthatha ingqalelo enkulu yengqalelo yengomso womntwana wabo. Ngokomgaqo, oku akubi, kodwa ukuba ubheka izenzo zabo ukusuka kolunye uhlangothi, kubonakala ukuba abantu abakuthandayo nabanqwenelekayo, banokukutshabalalisa ngokuzikhethela wena ngokwakho ngaphandle kokukwazi.
Inyani kukuba abazali bakho okanye abanye abantu abathatha inxaxheba ekukhuliseni kwakho abazange batyebe kwaye banabantu abacebileyo, kodwa ke, bakufundisa, banike icebiso malunga nendlela yokuziphatha kakuhle. Umntu olambileyo, njengokuba uyazi, akusiyo umhlobo wesikhathi esigcwele, kodwa indoda ehlwempu, ngokufanelekileyo, ayikwazi ukufundisa indlela yokuzityebi! Inyaniso elula isoloko ihambelana naso onke amaxesha, kwaye ihleli kude kube ngoku. Iminyaka emininzi esikolweni uye wafundiswa ukuba kuyimfuneko ukufunda kakuhle, kwaye uya kuphila kakuhle. Kodwa ubomi bunenkani, ngokuqhubekayo kubonisa kuzo zonke iindwendwe ukuba oku akunjalo! Iziko zemfundo zanamhlanje, ezivela esikolweni ukuya kwiiyunivesithi, azidalwanga nonke ukuze zifundiswe, zifundise iwadi zazo indlela yokukhululeka, indlela yokufumana izixhobo eziphathekayo nokuhlala nesidima. Kunoko, ngokuchaseneyo, onke amaziko emfundo "amafektri" ekuqeqesheni abasebenzi, kwaye ekuxhatshazelisayo ngenxa yakho. Ewe, akukho mntu uthetha ngolu hlobo, kodwa kunokwaneleyo nje ukuquka ingcamango kunye nokuqonda, kwaye yonke into iya kuhlaselwa. Okudabukisayo njengoko kuzwakala, kodwa awuyi kufeza umphumo oyifunayo, awuyi kukwazi ukuvula ibhishini lakho, ube ngumntu okhululekileyo kunye nozimeleyo ngendlela ephakamileyo yegama, ngokulandela isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, iimpawu ezixhasayo ezinikezelwe ngileyo. Mhlawumbi abaphumeleleyo abantu abayi kukwazi ukuchaza imfihlelo yabo mpu melelo, ngenxa yokuba le mpu melelo ikhona kwi-subconscious. Umntu onempumelelo, engaqondi ngokupheleleyo ukuba kutheni okwenza oku, kwaye kungenjalo, akahambanga kwisangqa esivaliweyo, kodwa ekuhambeni, i-radius ekunyuka kancane, oko kukuthi, kukho inxalenye yophuhliso, inkqubela kwindlela ekuhamba kuyo. Ngokungafani nabaninzi abathobekileyo, abahlala behloniphekileyo nabanobuchule abanokuthobela ngokungahambisani imiyalelo ebanikezelwe ukususela ebuntwaneni babo bokuqala, abantu abaphumelelayo abazixhamli ngeemimiselo ezingadingekile nemigaqo yokuziphatha.
Uyakhumbula oko abazali bakho bakunike? Ngokuqinisekileyo babenjengokuthi: "Ukuze uphile kakuhle kufuneka usebenze nzima", "Kunobungozi ukuba butyebi, banalo ubomi obungenasiphelo", "Ungalokothi uzame ukuphuma kwabanye, akunakuthanda umntu", "ndibe ngumntu wobomi wasebenza kumveliso, kwaye ngoku iyakwenza imali kuwe "," umntu ongenemfundo akanakuphila kakuhle ", njalo njalo. Ewe, abazali abazange bafune ukukulimaza, ngokulinganayo kokungazi kwabo banikeze umzekelo wobomi obanjengabo, ngenxa yokuba abanalwazi ngezinye iindlela zokuphila. Ngaphezu koko, kunzima ukuphikisana nabazali, kuba nayiphi na ingeniso evela kwiingcebiso zabo ikhokelela ekubhikeni. Ukufuna okuhle kuphela kumntwana wabo, abazali bazama ukubeka imbonakalo yabo yehlabathi, bengaboni nayiphi na indlela ngaphandle kweyakhethiweyo kubo, ngokuchanekileyo ngokuchanekileyo kwindlela yabo yokujonga.
Ungaba njani kule meko? Udlale wena ngokwakho, ngokukhawuleza nangokuzithemba ngokuchasene "nabadlali abalungileyo", ngokungena ekungeniqiniseki, okanye ungenise kwaye wamukele isicwangciso esiphantsi sobomi? Into ephambili kukuqonda umgaqo wento yonke eyenzekayo. Isizathu sokuba zonke iintsilelo zibeka ngokusisiseko kwiingcamango zakho kunye nengqondo engqondweni, ukuthintela izenzo. Ukukhawulelana noqhagamshelwano kunye ne "losers", uninzi kwimeko yakho, kunye nokuthetha ngokubanzi nabantu abaphumelelayo, uguqula ingqondo yakho kwaye ingqondo engqondweni yakho ibe yinto enhle kunye nenhlanhla. Lo msebenzi obunzima, ngenxa yokuba uye wahlala ixesha elide kwaye uqhubeka ufundiswa ukuba ube "khoboka", i-pawn engenakuzibandakanya, ukuziqhayisa ngesimo somntu osebenzayo, usebenze ngokungakhethi ngenxa yeepennies, uziva ulonwabo lobuxoki kule nkqubo.
Hayi, kuba kungathi kunjalo, ama-million kunye nabamashishini bezoqoqosho abanakwenzeka ngokwenene, kodwa ukuba baphile ngokukhululeka kwabanye abantu kunye neengcamango zeso sizathu!