Indlela yokujongana nokucaphukisa, ukukhathazeka kunye neengcikivo emsebenzini

Ngokuqhelekileyo ibhinqa lijongene nomsebenzi kunye neendlela ezinzima zengxabano. Bafana nemidlalo emibi, kwaye, njengomthetho, banxulumene nobuqili, banefuthe eliyingozi. Iingcali zengqondo ziye zavelisa iinqununu zeengcebiso kubafazi, ezinokuthi zenzeke ngokukhawuleza ekusebenzisaneni ngokucatshulwa, ukukhathazeka kunye neengcinga. Ukunyusa
Ukukhungulwa ngombono wocelomngeni, ukuvuselela ngokukhawuleza kuvela ngokukhawuleza nangokukhawuleza, kumda ongaphantsi komhla phakathi kwehlazo nokuhlambalaza. Ukukhwabanisa kunceda ukukhupha abanye ngaphandle kwemingeni, kubacelomngeni; kaninzi oku kuthetha ukubonakalisa. Abo baqumbisa bafuna ukubonisa ukuba bangobungqina kangakanani. Kwaye njengoko befuna abalingani kulo mdlalo, akukho nto ibenzi ngakumbi kunokuba xa iingxelo zabo zitshatyalaliswa.

Ekusebenzeni, abasetyhini banokujamelana nokukhwabanisa kunamadoda. Njengoko abafazi banqoba indawo yabo kwimiba yoshishini, amadoda ayancipha - azama, kaninzi ngokuncedisa "imidlalo" enjalo, ukuba aphinde athathele ubukhosi. Ngoko, abaninzi abantu bakuthola kunzima ukwamukelwa ukuba umphathi wabo ngumfazi. Basebenzisa, umzekelo, iindlela ezinjalo zokuzikhusela njengamahlaya emva kweminyango yabo, amazwi angenangqondo, ukuhlambalaza, ukuphazamisa izimvo, njengokuthi: "Kumele ukuba abe ne-PMS" (ukuba umfazi unesimo sengqondo esibi), "Uxhaswe ngabantu" ( ukuba lo mfazi waya esidlweni kunye nomphathi), "Yena, mhlawumbi, ubuya phambili phambi kwesibuko" (ukuba loo ntokazi ayifuni kwindawo yokusebenzela).

Indlela yokuphendula ngokushukunyiswa
Cinga ukukhunjulwa njengentlobo yokuloba intonga ofuna ukuyibamba, kwaye unqume ukuba ufuna "ukugwinya isilwanyana" okanye cha. Kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuba ungena kumdlalo. Ngaphandle kwemvume yakho kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kulo mdlalo omnye okanye omnye uya kulahlekelwa intsingiselo yayo.

Dlala xa kukunika uvuyo.

Bhala phantsi amazwi aqhelekileyo ovame ukuva nokucinga ngawo ngamaqhinga kubo.

Disconcert, ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza. Unako ukuhlala ufumana izivakalisi ezenziwe ngokulungelelweyo njenge "Inyanga ikhanya ngokucacileyo" kwaye uyifake kwingxoxo kungakhathaliseki ukuba ifanelekile okanye ayikho. Inokwenzeka ukuba, intshaba iya kucinga ukuba ayiqondi into ethile, kwaye iya kuthula.

Vele uvule.

Ngokukhawuleza
Ngokuphambene nokukhungulwa kwezinto eziphathekayo, nangona ifomu elimangalisa, zijoliswe ekutyaleni, ezichaphazela omnye.

"Ngaba ujongela ikhekhe kwakhona?" - Umbuzo kumfazi ozelekileyo. "Ngaba ungekho ixesha lokumboza zakho izipikili nge-varnish kule ntsasa?". "Bhalisela iqela labantu abangatshatanga, ngoko akufanele usebenze ixesha elingaphezu kwexesha."

Ukugxekwa kunye neengcamango ezibuhlungu ezifanele zibethe umfazi "kwiingxaki ezibuhlungu" zibonakaliswa zihlaziye kwaye zihlazo. I-Quips ingendawo yaye ingabonakali ngokuthe ngqo. Abantu abangasetyenziswanga ukubonisa ukucaphukisa kwabo, ngokukhawuleza kunye nexesha elide banelungelo lokudumala nokunganeliseki, bathambekele ekuboniseni ukunganeliseki ngale ndlela. Esikhundleni sokuthi: "Ndiyayimonelela impumelelo yakho," bathi: "Mhlawumbi unxibelelwano olukhethekileyo nomlawuli, ekubeni wakwenza uncedisayo kwilo candelo." Ngokuqhelekileyo, i-causticism yinto yokuzama ukuhlawulela umqondo wokungabi namandla kunye nobuthathaka.

Indlela yokusabela ngayo ekuhlekeleni
Qinisekisa isicatshulwa kwaye uphendule ngokuchanekileyo, ukwenjenjalo ukuba umculi uvakalise oko wayekucingayo okanye wayethe cwaka: "Ngoko ukholelwa ukuba ..."

Ukuba unesizathu sokukholelwa ukuba uyaqonda - kuphela ke! - Chaza ukuba kukukhubekisa.

Uphefumle kwaye ungayihoyi.

Zibuze umbuzo, yintoni ingxaki yomlingane wakho, ngenxa yento athetha ngaso rhoqo. I-podkoly enjalo-engaqhelekanga ekuziphatheni, iyakwazi ukufihla ingqiqo nokungabi namandla. Eli bhinqa okanye le ndoda ngandlela-thile ibona ukuba usongela okanye ungaphantsi kwakho kwinto ethile.

Iingcinga
Ngokutsho kophando lwezengqondo, i-70% yabasetyhini bonke abasebenzayo babona imbangela ebalulekileyo yemozulu engcolileyo ekuhlanganiseni kwabo. Siva amaninzi amaninzi malunga nendlela abantu bahlukumeza ngayo kwaye baqhelana emsebenzini. Kwiintlanzi, iingcambu zethunzi zobudlelwane babantu zibonakaliswa, ngelishwa, zisoloko zibonwa ngobomi boshishino. Abantu abaninzi bafumana ubunzima babo kwaye baze bagule kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu. Ziyakhula xa kukho ukhuphiswano olunzulu, umbutho ohluphekileyo, ukwahlula ngokucacileyo kobunkokheli kunye nomlawuli oyintloko. Kulula ukuziphatha kakubi ukuziphatha kakubi okanye ukulahla kude nathi, kodwa ekugqibeleni, kukho ukuhlala sikulungele ukuzibuza. Abo baxazulula ngokucacileyo ukungquzulana kwaye bavakalise izimvo zabo abaxhamli. I-flattery, ukuhleba, ukusabalalisa amahemuhemu, kunye nokuthulisa ngento ebalulekileyo iyasebenza kwiindlela ezithandekayo zokuziphatha.

Kukho izizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo zokubangela ukuba abantu bathabatheke. Ookuqala kubo unokuba ngulo: ukuba isebe linomoya ophezulu okanye kubonakala ngathi umsebenzi awunakucacisa, ngoko ke ukuziva uxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalaba kunokufumana lula indlela yokuba iqela labasebenzi liza kuzibona njengexhoba lomnye wabo osebenza nabo. Lowo oba lixhoba lamanyathelo angenakunqwenela, uzizwa engenamandla. Ngokomzekelo, ufika emsebenzini emva kwemini kwaye ufumanisa ukuba bonke abasebenzi beSebe sele begubhile iholide ngeyure, kwaye akukho mntu wamxwayisa ngaye. Kule meko, loo mfazi udinga yonke imikhosi yokuzibamba, ukujamelana nokuhlambalaza kwaye angathathi nxaxheba kwiintsebenziswano ezikhusele umquzulwano.

Ezinye izizathu zokubamba inxulunyaniso zinganxulumana nomnqweno wamandla kunye nempembelelo: ukuzuza amandla ngokwakho, ukudala izibonelelo ezizimeleyo kwiimeko ezikhuphisanayo, ukuphindezela ukuba indawo enqwenelekayo inikwe omnye. Ezi zihlandlo zangaphambili ziye zachongwa zaza zachazwa, zinokwenzeka ukuba zenze okuthile malunga nabo.

Indlela yokusabela kwiintlogue
Ukulwa neentlanzi, akukho mgaqo jikelele. Kwimeko nganye, kufuneka uthathe isigqibo kuwe, kuxhomekeke kwimeko yakho kwaye kwenzekani. Kubalulekile ukuba uvavanya njani umchasi wakho. Uluhlu olulandelayo luqulethe iingcebiso malunga nendlela onokuzenza ngayo kwaye uzikhusele.

Thetha kumntu onokukuqonda, onokumthembayo, malunga neemvakalelo zakho ezifana nokudana, inzondo, ukufutheka kunye nomsindo.

Zibuze, yiziphi iimpawu kunye neempawu owabangela ukuba zenze ixhoba. Ngaba ubona ithuba lokutshintsha nantoni na?

Qinisekisa ukuba ngaba kulungile ukulwa neengxabano. Ukwenza oku, zibuze imibuzo emibini: ngaba ndiziva ndizinzile kwaye ndizimelele ukulwa? Ngaba ndibona ithuba lokuthintela ingxoxo malunga nokuziphatha komnye? Ukuba kunjalo, uthetha ngqo ngoku. Kwintetho, ungayifumana into oyisikhubekiso kumlingane wakho.

Fumana indlela eya phezulu kwaye uxelele umphathi wakho. Zama ukuhlala uxolo kunye nenjongo.

Ukuba isimo sezulu esisebenzayo asitshintshi ixesha elide, ngoko kufuneka ucinge ukuba kungcono ukuba uye kwenye eminye imisebenzi ngaphakathi kweshishini okanye ushiye inkampani ngokupheleleyo. Akukufanelekanga ngenxa yesifiso sokuziphoqa ukuba ubambelele uze udibane.

Njengawe naziphi na iingxaki zobomi bakho, kholosa iimvakalelo zakho, zithembele kubulumko bakho. Amava akho kunye nengqondo yakho, mhlawumbi, iya kukusombulula isisombululo esona sinoko ungasenza kwiimeko ezinjalo.