Kufuneka uqonde ukuba ngeli xesha umntwana osemtsha uyatshintsha isimo sakhe sengqondo, izinto ezithandwayo zibonakala. Isigama sakhe sitshintsha.
Awukwazi ukusombulula ngokukhawuleza iingxaki zobutsha. Yiba nomonde kwaye uqhubeke usebenza nomntwana, uthethe naye, uthethe ngothando lwakho kuye. Emva koko, ngamnye wabazali wayeneminyaka engama-10 ubudala.
Qonda ukuba umntwana osemva kule minyaka ugcwele amandla kunye nokuphefumlelwa. Abantu abadala abavame ukuqonda ukungaphelelwa ngumonde kwabaselula. Baqala ukunyanzelisa ubomi babo, endaweni yokubanceda bafumane umsebenzi ofanelekileyo. Iintsholongwane azikho konke ezimbi kwaye zingekho ezimbi, ngabantu abaqhelekileyo abazama ukufunda ukuphila ubomi abadala.
Umntwana unamandla amaninzi kunye nabantu abadala, uqala ukuvakala kwaye uloyike. Abazali baqala ukujikeleza umntwana osemtsha kunye nokuthintela, kwaye oku akunakwenziwa. Kufuneka bajikelezwe uthando kunye nokuqonda.
Ukuze uhlonipheke kwintsapho, abazali mabahlale begcina izithembiso zabo. Ukunika umntwana wakho isithembiso, kufuneka uqiniseke ngokupheleleyo ukuba uyakwazi ukuzalisekisa. Ukuba uyaphula lesi sithembiso, umntwana uya kusuka kuwe kwaye akholelwe ukuba awusayi kuphinda. Ekugqibeleni, ulahlekelwa.
Abazali bafanele baqonde ukuba abatsha abaneminyaka eyi-13 banokuziva ngathi baneminyaka engama-40 ubudala, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha baneminyaka emihlanu ubudala. Kule minyaka, abantwana bafuna ukunakekelwa kunye nokunceda abadala ukuba bahlele ubomi obungakumbi. Musa ukujikeleza umntwana osemtsha kunye nemingcele kunye nokuthintela, kodwa udale ubudlelwane obuthembayo.
Xa intombazana ingabonakalisa ukuzimela kwayo, funda indlela yokwenza into efanelekileyo, cinga ukuba ixesha elivisayo lizaliswe ngempumelelo.
Vumela abantwana bakho abancinci babe ngabantu abasigxina.