"Ndiyakuthanda kakhulu, kodwa iimeko ezisemthethweni ..."
Ukuhamba phezu kwamaphiko othando, ngokuqinisekileyo awuzange uqaphele ukuba kuzo zonke iintombazana-abahlobo obaxelela ukuba utshatile, kwaye yena (ngexesha elifanayo) uzicingela ngokupheleleyo! Kodwa unyanzela ukuba uyeke umsebenzi wakho kwaye uhlale ekhaya nomntwana wakho oqhelekileyo, ngubani ngenxa yesizathu esithile engabhalwanga kwisatifikethi sokuzalwa sopapa?
Kwaye ke le ndoda yembutho yombutho yathi yinqaba yezinwele zesikwele, kwaye unobhala wakhe usemncinci, umhle kwaye unomdla! Ewe, ke uqaphele ukuba umtshato womtshato - i-adventure yakho ebalulekileyo ebomini, kwaye emva koko ucingisise ngombuzo-ungayifumana njani umyeni womntu.
Ukushiya umyeni womntu kungcono ngokuthe ngcembe. Ngokukhawuleza indoda yakho yomntu inenjongo yokunciphisa iofisi ye-registry, yamkela umntwana, kwaye ilungiselele izihlazo, kuba ingxaki yomsebenzi? Kwaye wawugubha, waza wagqiba ekubeni wagqiba ukuphula zonke iintlobano. Hayi? Ngaba unqwenele ukuba unento efanayo, kwaye unqwenela ukusabalalisa? Zama uxolo kwaye uxubushe ngokuthula ngesi sihloko nomyeni wakho. Wavuma nawe? Emva koko cela umyeni wakho ukuba ahambe ehlabathini: uyavuma ukukwabelana nawe indawo yokuhlala kwaye ukhokhelele i-alimony kumntwana wakho oqhelekileyo? Hayi?
Emva koko qwa lasela malunga nawe (kunye nomntwana wakho, ukuba unina) uya kuhlala? Ukuba umyeni womntu uye wahlala kwindawo yakho kwaye akabhaliswanga kuyo - ukuyivula kunye nezikhephe azakuba nzima. Ukuba uhleli kwindawo yakho kwaye ulawulwe ukubhalisa - kufuneka udibanise ukukhutshwa. Uhlala endlwini yakhe? Emva koko uya kufuneka ufumane isiluleko esivela kummeli onamava ukufumanisa oko wena nomntwana wakho banelungelo lokuba kule meko, akunjalo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umyeni wakho womntu ungumzali womntwana wakho, ngoko enkundleni inokwenzeka ngokwenene ukubonisa ubungqina bakhe kunye nokufumana u-alimony.
Isinyathelo esilandelayo kukufumana ubuncinci izindlu zexeshana. Ukuqeshisa igumbi kummelwane, ukuhambisa kumama - akunandaba. Ingxoxo yezogwebo ayiyiyo yokukhawuleza, isiphumo sabo sinokuba isisombululo esinelisekanga kuwe. Yaye imeko yendlu ingatshiswa kumda.
Umzuzu olandelayo - ngaphambi kokuphuka okukhulu, kufuneka wenze isigqibo malunga noko wena nomntwana wakho uya kuhlala: ngaba unomsebenzi, ngaba uhlawula ngokwaneleyo umsebenzi wakho (ngokokuba unokuzixhasa wena nomntwana). Ingaba indoda yakho yomntu uzimisele ukuhlawula inkxaso yabantwana, okanye kukunceda ngexesha lokuqala? Ukuba ewe-ungakulibali ukutyikitya zonke izivumelwano ze-notary. Kungenxa yokuba ngomso unobhala osemncinci kunye onokuzikhethela unokufuna ukususela kumntu wakho wangaphambili kungekhona nje uthando, kodwa umvuzo. Yonke. Kwaye, ephoswe yimvakalelo entsha, angavuma. Yonke into. Ngubani onokukuncedisa kumvuzo wokuqala, ukuba lowo wangaphambili uya kunqaba ukunceda: bahlobo, nabazali? Masithi inyanga okanye ezimbini zenzalo zinokuhlala kunye nogogo-ngokucacileyo, kungekhona indlala kwaye kungekho ngaphandle kophahla phezu kwentloko yakhe ...
Kwaye ke, xa ekugqibeleni ugqiba malunga nomsebenzi wendlu, unyana okanye intombi iya kubuya kuwe. Ngokumalunga nomsebenzi - uye kwi-exchange exchange, kwi-Intanethi, kwiiwebhusayithi ezithunyelwe ukufumana umsebenzi, ncokola nabahlobo. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukhohliwe ukuba intombi yakho ingumphathi omkhulu kwi-ejensi yokuqesha, kwaye unokufumanisa umsebenzi?
Ewe, ekugqibeleni, ukuwa ngokufa ngothando ngexesha elizayo - ungalibali ukuya kwi-ofisi ye-registry, kakuhle, okanye ubuncinci kwi-notary ukwenza isivumelwano somtshato. Wena kunye nabantwana bakho ozalelwe ngothando baya kukhuselwa ngakumbi kwiindawo eziza kubakho kunye namantombazana amancinane. Ewe, ngexesha elifanayo, khangela ubunzulu beenjongo zakho zokholo. Ngokukhawuleza kuye, umtshato womtshato - nje kwindibano? Emva koko ufanele unqume ... ukuba ubaleke njani kumyeni womntu.