Ukukhetha ibhedi kuyisigqibo esinoxanduva esilindele ukuba wonke umntu alindele kithi. Akunakwenzeka ukuba wenze iphutha kwaye ukhethe kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo, into engabonakalisa intsingiselo yakho, ukudibanisa izinto ezifana nekhwalithi kunye nentuthuzelo? Ngokukhethekileyo ufanelekile ukuba ungene kulo mbandela ukuba uthenge umbhede womntwana. Ngoko unokwenza njani ukhetho olufanelekileyo lwebhedi lomntwana?
Enyanisweni, kufuneka uqale ukuqonda ukuba ibhede lomntwana alufani kakhulu kumntu omdala.
Makhe sikhulume ngakumbi malunga nokuyila kombhede: isakhelo, isakhelo kunye nomathathu. Izikhokelo, njengomthetho, ziintlobo ezimbini. Kulo hlobo lokuqala luphethe i-squelette, kwiimbini ezixhasayo zombini oqhotyoshelweyo bookumkani (iipaneli ezihlangeneyo). Kwisakhelo soluhlobo lwesibini inendima ehamba phambili inikwe i-kurgas ezine (zonke iinkalo ezixhasayo), enye enye okanye amabini e-backs. Isakhelo esinjalo, njengomyalo, iqule imilenze ekhonza njengezixhaso. Kule mafayili ungakhetha zonke iintlobo zeefowuni kunye neemitha. Ukuthetha inyaniso, abaninzi abakhiqizi basekhaya bathenga imibhede kunye namafowuni aphesheya, kwaye bawagqiba kuphela ngamatitha. Oku, ngokusemgangathweni, akufanele sicasule abathengi bethu, kuba ixabiso kunye nomgangatho awuchaphazelekayo. Ngenxa yoko, uthengela ibhedi efanelekileyo edibanisa izithethe zasekhaya zaseYurophu nezaseYurophu.
E-Rashiya, baninzi bathenga iibhedi ngebhokisi ekwakhiweyo, apho ungagcina khona, uthi, ngaphantsi kweengubo kunye neendlela ezakhelwe ngaphakathi. Ubuninzi bomsebenzi ngenye yeendlela zokuthenga umbhede, kwaye oku akufanele ukulibala. Abantwana bathanda imibhede kunye nabadwebi abongezelelweyo.
Ngoku ngoku malunga nokwakhiwa, okuyiloo nto, njengokuba unokuqiqa, inokuthi iguquke. Eyona nto inenzuzo kwixabiso liyakhiwa kwiibhodi ezide. Baya kufakela izitya zomthi. Ukufumana ngaphezulu kwee-rapendicular you see, ibhedi yakho eqinile kwaye ethembekileyo iya kuba. Kufuneka kwakhona kuthathele ingqalelo izinto ezibhekiselwe kuzo ii-slats. Imifuno ye-Flexible yeenkuni (i-beech okanye i-birch) izakuhlala ixesha elide. I-rake kufuneka ibe yimibala emininzi kunye nobukhulu (malunga ne-1 cm).
Ukongeza kwinduduzo, impilo ifanele iyakunyamekelwa. Ngokutsho kweemfuno zemizimba, ibhedi kufuneka ibe neemitha zamathambo, amafowuni kufuneka abe nelayiti ezininzi, kwimeko apho umgudu uya kuba kwindawo echanekileyo. Ukuba ufuna ukugcina imali, kodwa ungazikhanyeli nto, ngoko ufuna ibhedi ngenkqubo yokulungisa ukuqina komntu olele, kunye neqela lokutshintsha i-angle yeendidi ezahlukeneyo zombhede. Ngoko unokutshintsha ngokulula indawo yomzimba wakho. Khumbula ukuba imibhede yekhwalithi iya kukunceda ugcine impilo yakho kunye nomoya.
Izinto ezifana nesakhelo okanye iifowuni asiniki ukuhamba kwendiza yokucinga. Akufuneki ukuthetha, apha kwaye akuyiyo yonke idizayini eya kuba nomsindo. Omnye umba umva weemibhede, apho iingcinga ezigqithisileyo zingazaliseka. Ephakamileyo nephantsi, eqinileyo kwaye ehlukeneyo, eqinileyo neyinqabileyo, ecacileyo kunye nephihliweyo - ezi ziyimpendulo, ezithandwa kakhulu namhlanje. Izinto eziphathekayo ziyahluke: imithi, isikhumba, isimbolo naluphi na umbala. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana acele kuye, naluphi na umbhede afuna, yintoni imibala, imilo ayithandayo. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, qhagamshela umyili apha.
Nonke, cinga ngohlobo luni lobhedi olukhethiweyo: nokuba luya kuba yi-monophonic okanye kunye neprothini, ukuba ngaba ngumzekelo, ngoko kanye nento leyo umntwana angathanda ukuyibona khona. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba abantwana bathanda ukubeka amathoyizi ebhedini. Ungakulibali ukubuza ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuqhubeka ukwenza oku (iindawo ziya kufuna ezininzi), okanye ziya kuthatha enye indawo.
Xa ukhetha umbhede, ungayikhohlwa ukuba umntwana uya kukwenza isigqibo, kwaye uya kumnceda.