Isinyathelo sokuqala ukufezekisa into yakho yovelwano yinto ebizwa ngokuba yi-gloss procedure. Ngoko hamba kwisibuko uze ukhethe ukujonga ngokwakho, ngokomzekelo, iinwele zakho kwaye uzibuze ngengqondo umbuzo: Kude kube nini uye kwi-hairdresser? Kucetyiswa ukutyelela i-beauty salon ukugcina umgangatho, oya kwenziwa ngabaqeqeshi kwiingcebiso zeenwele kwi-design pedicure. Emva koko, kufuneka uqaphele ingubo yakho yokugqoka, ziziphi izinto ezithatyathwa. Khumbula, bonke abantu bayayithanda, xa ibhinqa ligqoka ngokwesondo, ayizange ihambe (Musa ukudibanisa), oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka ulungiselele ngokupheleleyo. Izithuba zengxowanxu kunye neengqayi ezincinci, ukusuka ngoku kufuneka ubonise kwaye ugxininise isidima sakho! Ewe, ngoku ukhangele zonke i-100%.
Inyathelo ezimbini. Njengoko ukuthuthumela emadolweni kudlulile, umntu kufuneka afumane into yokukhanga aze athathe inxibelelwano. Ngokubhekisele kumfazi oko kuhlala kunzima, kodwa indoda ayifuni kum (mhlawumbi ixakeke) kufuneka ibe nobuqili. Ngomzuzwana othile, kufuneka uqale, khangela into ethile kwisikhwama sakho, uze ufune ukunyaniseka, uze uye kumntu wakho wesikhathi esizayo kunye nesithambileyo, umnqweno wokuzola ukucela ukuba uncede. Ngokwemvelo, uncedo luya kubandakanya ukuthayipha inombolo yakho yefowuni, kuba awukwazi ukuyifumana kwisikhwama sakho, kwaye uyayifuna ngoku ngoku. Indoda kule meko ayiyi kukukhanyela, thola ifowuni ize uyifake inombolo yakho, kwaye xa ifowuni yakho ikhonkco, kuya kuba nenombolo yefowuni ekulindelwe ixesha elide kuyo. Buhlungu! Ibhuloho sele ihleliwe.
Isinyathelo sesithathu kufuneka senzeke ngosuku olulandelayo. Uthabatha ifowuni uze uyitshintshe imilayezo kuye, ngohlobo, njengale: "Sawubona. Njani wena? Ndikhululekile nakusihlwa namhlanje, ndiyathemba ukuba siya kudibana namhlanje kwi-cafe ... oko ke ... ngo-19-00. Ndiya kuba ngengubo ebomvu. Ndiyamanga uTanya. " Xa umntu efunda umyalezo onjalo, uya kuphazamiseka kwaye, ngenxa yoko, unokuthatha iindlela ezintathu, oku: ukubiza kwakhona, uze uze okanye ungayihoywa. Ukuba uthe wabuyela, ngoko kufuneka ubenomdla okanye udlala. Ukuba uthe akukuzi wena kwaye uyaphutha, ungakhathazeki, umkhohlise ngolunye uhlobo lwembali yokuqala, uze uphelise intetho ngegama elithi "Ndiyathemba ukuba sele sele sidibene kunye nokuba lukhulu kangakanani lo busuku, siza yibambe. " Ngokwesibini ukuhluka, yonke into ilula, sinethemba lokuba sele usumntwana osemdala kwaye uya kukwazi ukuzimisela kwizenzo zakho. Kodwa ukuba uyayigatya, ungambiza ngelanga elilandelayo kwaye ubuze: "Yintoni eyenzekayo?", Kwaye ngethuba le ngxoxo kufuneka usebenzise amaqhinga okukhetha kuqala. Ngoko nantoni na ongayithethayo, uhlala kwizandla zakho eziqinileyo nezakhono!
Ngokwahlukileyo, ndingathanda ukuthetha amagama okugqibela awahlula amagama kwisicelo sezinto ezibhaliweyo ngaphambili. Ukuba indoda enqwenelayo iyayigxeka yonke iinqhinga kunye neengcinga, kuyadingeka ukuba ucinge ukuba akakho ukhululekile (watshata) okanye entliziyweni yakhe kukho omnye umfazi onokumonwabileyo, kwaye izenzo zakho ziya kumlimaza nje. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwakunjani - kungumcebisi nje, kunye nobomi bakho kufuneka uchithe ngokwengqiqo yakho.
Ukuba kusenzima ukhetho, kwaye awukwazi ukuba wenze isinyathelo sokuqala, uphathe yonke into kulula kwaye uphendule ingxaki ngokwayo iya kudlula kuwe.