Ukuqhaqhaqhaqhabalaza kwenzeka kubantwana ababucayi kunye nabathathaka. Kwiimpawu zokuqala zokugaya, kufuneka ufune ngokukhawuleza intetho yeengcali kunye ne-psychoneurologist.
Ukugxininisa kubantwana abancinci
Isizathu sokubetha singaba:
- Soyika.
- Ukulingisa intetho yomntwana oqhawulayo.
- Sohlwayo.
- Isimo sengqondo esingalunganga kumntwana, xa i-caress ithatyathwa ngokubukhali, ukunyaniseka.
- Ukuphulwa rhoqo kwimihla ngemihla.
- Ukunciphisa umzimba emva kokugula okukhulu.
Ukuba umntwana uyagula ngokubetha:
- Kubalulekile ukudlulisela umntwana kwimfundo yasekhaya ngexeshana. Ukunciphisa ukunxibelelana nabantwana. Ukuzihlukanisa okwesikhashana kwiqela. Ezi ziphakamiso zibalulekile ukulandela ekuqaleni, ngokukhawuleza xa kuvela umculi.
- Ukukhusela ukulungiswa kwesiphene, ukunciphisa uxhulumaniso lwezonyana zomntwana. Ngexesha elifanayo, kubalulekile ukuba ungaphuli imidlalo nemigangatho eqhelekileyo, ukuze uzinzo ngokomoya nangokwenyama.
- Ngomntwana kufuneka ukhulume ngokuzitheleyo, ngokuthe ngcembe kunexesha eliqhelekileyo, kodwa ngaphandle kwengqumbo, ngokuzinzileyo nangothando. Ukuba umntwana engadluli, khuluma naye nge-whisper, kunye nempendulo efanayo ukufuna kuye.
- Awukwazi ukubonisa umntwana ukuba ukhathazeke ngokubetha komntwana. Musa ukuthetha igama elithi "stutterer", "stutter".
- Ukubukela ividyo okanye i-TV iyona nto iyancitshiswa okanye ipheliswe ngokupheleleyo. Kanye ngeveki, ukhethe umntwana kumntwana uze umvumele ukuba akubone. Musa ukufunda ibali elikrakra, akudingeki ukuba umphoqe ukuba afundise izibongo.
- Nciphisa intetho yomntwana. Oku kunokufezekiswa ukuba umntwana uza kudlala imidlalo yebhodi, ukudweba, ukukrola, ukufunda iincwadi eziqhelekileyo. Ukubetheka kuya kutshabalala, ukuba umntwana uthetha ngaphantsi ngokubetha, umntwana kufuneka akhulume ngokuzitheleyo nangokuzilibazisa.
- Xa umntwana egubha, uthetha kakubi, awukwazi ukuphula umntwana kwaye umenze aphinda kwakhona. Akuyimfuneko ukulungisa ingqalelo yengane ngenxa yokungabi nako. Ngethuba lokulungiswa kokubetha, awukwazi ukutyelela abantu abangathethi ngokucacileyo kunye ngokukhawuleza baze babameme ukuba bazityelele.
- Musa ukunika umntwana wakho ushokoledi, i-cocoa, ikhofi. Kubalulekile ukukhupha konke okuphazamisa uxolo lomntwana. Yenza kuphela ngoxa uncedwa ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ngokucophelela, ngoxolo.
- Umzimba womntwana uhlala ngexesha lokulala nokulala. Ubuthongo bunceda ukubuyisela iiseliti zesisongela yengqondo. Ephupheni, iiseli zesiswini zihlala zivela kwimvakalelo emibi.
- Kodwa umntwana ufuna ukuphumla okusebenzayo. Ukutshintsha isifundo esinye kwesinye kwaye ukuguqula kunika ukuphumla. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuba iiklasi zokuzilalisa azikhiphi imidlalo yokuzimela kunye nokuhamba.
Ukubethelela abantwana kufuneka bathathe iivithamini ze-B ezinzima. Bahlala kwimeko ephilileyo, imeko ephilileyo, kwaye bancede ukuhlangabezana nokukhathala. Kulawulo lwaloo mini, umntwana kufuneka abe neenkqubo ezinzima, imihla ngemihla ifanele ibe kwindawo evulekile. Imisebenzi yezemidlalo (i-skis, i-sleds), imidlalo yangaphandle, yakha imvakalelo evuyayo, ukuphakamisa iimvakalelo, ukuvuselela inkqubo ye-nervous. Iinkqubo zamanzi - ukuhlamba, ukuhlutha, ukukrazula, ukusula, kubaluleke kakhulu kubantwana. Ukuzivocavoca umzimba kunceda ukunqanda ukuqina, ukuphazamisa ukunyakaza, ukuvelisa uxinzelelo kunye nokuziphatha. Konke oku kunempembelelo enhle kumntwana, ukhulisa izakhono zokuthetha ezifanelekileyo. Zonke ezi zivivinyo zenyama zifumana ixabiso lokuthathela abantwana.
Iingcebiso
- Abantwana abaninzi ngaphandle kokungabaza bathetha nezilwanyana, amathoyizi, abancinci. Khuthaza oku.
- Zama ukuba ungathethi xa umntwana ekhala okanye enqabini ye-hysteria. Kubalulekile ukuzinzisa umntwana, ukunyamezela, ukuphazamisa.
- Akufanele ucasulwe ukuba umntwana uphazamisa into ezandleni zakhe, ukhulula uxinzelelo, luphazamisa ubunzima beentetho. Mnike ithoyilali encinane.
- Musa ukwenza umntwana athi intlekele kwaye uthi, mva, umntwana uya kufunda imilinganiselo enhle. Okokuqala susa ukuxhatshazwa, uze ufundise umyalelo.
Mamela ngokucophelela umntwana, mhlonele. Dumisani, nimomotheka. Unganqikazi ukubonisa umntwana wakho uthando lwakho.