Umzekelo omntwana liphupha labazali. Ngomzamo wokufumana iziphumo ezifunwayo, abantu ngokuqhelekileyo badla ngokuya kuhlwaywa, ukudibanisa nokubetha. Kodwa ezi ndlela, kuzo zonke iinkqubela ezibonakalayo, zinokuphucula imeko yonke. Iingcali zeengqondo zengane zinikeza i-axioms ezine zokusebenzisana ngokufanelekileyo nomntwana wabo.
Ukuthandana kunye nombono wobudlelwane obusondeleyo kubaluleke kakhulu ukulwa nokungathobeli. Ukunyamekela nokuxhatshazwa kunokubangela ukwethuka komntwana, umsindo kunye nokudideka, okwenzela ukuziphatha kakubi.
Imiyalelo idla ngokulahlwa. Esikhundleni sokumemezela kanzima kunye nokwahlula, kulungile ukuzama imibuzo engaqhelekanga - ezo zingaphazamisa umntwana kwi-whims.
Ukugweba isigqibo esifutshane. Kunengqiqo ngakumbi ukuqonda kunye nomntwana izizathu kunye nezizathu ezifihlekileyo zokuziphatha kwakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha iimpembelelo ezintle zisentliziyweni yokuziphendulela, okwenza umntwana angakwazi ukuthetha ngokufanelekileyo.
Musa ukumthobela umntwana ukuba "ukuthobela" ukuthobela. Ukuthobela ukucamngca kubangela ukuxhomekeka, ukwesaba i-initiative, inkqubo ephosakeleyo yemigaqo yangaphakathi kunye nokuzithemba.