Phakathi kwabemi be-intanethi ziindawo ezithandwayo kakhulu zokuthandana, apho abantu bafaka khona iinkcukacha zabo ngokufuna isahlulo sesibini. Kuba intombazana, ukuphosa intonga yokuloba elwandle "Ukuthandana" kuyisithethe. Emva koko, ufuna ukubamba intlanzi entle. Ngenxa yoko, thina, amantombazana, senza iindidi ezahlukeneyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukwenzela ukuba kubanjwe ukuba kubalulekile, kuyimfuneko ukwazi indlela kwaye, ngokubalulekileyo, indlela yokutsala umntu. "Kodwa kukho akukho nto inzima kakhulu!", - uya kuthi. Ndikulungele ukuphikisana apha.
Inyaniso yokuba ibhinqa nomntu bacinga ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, yiyiphi into abafazi abayifumanayo yokuphumelela ngokuphumelelayo kwindoda ayimkelekanga. Ngako oko, kufuneka ukwazi ezinye iziqheno zokutsala umntu. Makhe sibone ukuba, kwimbono yabantu, kufuneka uyenze ukuze ukwazi ukuwaqwalasela. Njengoko bethetha: "Bahlangana ngeempahla zabo, kodwa baziva bengqondweni zabo". Ngoko ke, ekuqaleni, sizame ukwenza i-questionnaire ngokuchanekileyo. Ngoko ke ndingayibhala ntoni ukutsala indoda?
Ukulawula ubuso.
Into yokuqala yokuqala into yokuba amadoda aphendule ngayo ukufotowa. Isithombeni esihle kakhulu sekunye, ubuncinane, i-70% yefuthe lokuba iphrofayili yakho iya kujongwa.
Ukuqala, ifoto kufuneka ibe nobukhulu obuqhelekileyo kwaye icacile, ukuze umntu ahlalutye ngokuzenzekelayo, uze ungacingi, umzekelo: "Uthini na izandla zakhe? Inja okanye isikhwama! "
Okwesibini, fumana iifoto apho iingubo zakho ezikhethiweyo zikhethwe ngayo. Ngexesha elifanayo ndiyayilumkisa abo bathanda ukufihla "u-wrinkle", nokuba ngaba bafuna ukubonisa zonke iimboli zesalathisi. Amadoda akakwazi ukunyamezela, ngoko kususa isithombe apho ugqoke khona kwiingubo ezibonakalayo, kwi-supermini okanye kwisiketi esikhitshiweyo kwaye udibanise ngentambo yomnatha. Ngaphandle koko, baya kuba bengakuboni, okanye bayakujonga ukuba kulula kwintombazana, kwaye baya kunika into eyahlukileyo.
Okwesithathu, ukuba ngenxa yezizathu ezithile awufuni ukuthumela izithombe kwiwebhsayithi, ngoko unokushiya le mibuzo "ngaphandle kobuso", kodwa wenze i-postscript, umzekelo: "Ndiza kuthumela isithombe kwi-imeyile."
Yintoni endikubiza ngayo, ubuhle?
Ngokomgaqo, ukuba le nto ayibalulekile, into ephambili kukuba igama lesidlaliso sasingabonakali, okanye likhohlisayo, ngoko kufuneka ubhale into elula. Ngoluvo lwabo, ukhetho oluhle kukuba ubhale kwindima yegama lakho okanye ibinzana langaphambili. Xa ukhetha oko kuyinqwenelekayo ukuphepha iziteketiso ezingamangalisa okanye amagama omnxeba onjengaye "Ukulinda kuwe, othandekayo wam," "DlRm159Rn", njl. Ukusuka ngaphandle bajonge, ukuyibeka ngokuthobeka, kungasemvelo, kwaye uvakalelwa kukuba loo mfazi akasasazi ukuba angaphumelela njani ukuze akhethe umntu.
Bhengeze-intandokazi.
Khawucinge ngomfanekiso: intlanzi entle ihamba entanjeni phakathi kwendawo, kwaye icinga: "Isonka kwakhona. Isonka! Yeyiphi indlela. Hayi, ubuncinane umntu, uphonsa into ekhethileyo! "Isiphetho yile: ezininzi zezi mibuzo zisesayithi kwaye zonke, njengommiselo, zihlobo olufanayo, ezingenakuqala, zintsha. Ukutsala indoda, kufuneka ube yintsusa. Khumbula, intombazana kufuneka ibe neyona nto. Abafazi abathandekayo, cingisisa, ekugqibeleni into eyayiqalayo, ngokuzihlaziya, eqaqambileyo kwaye iziphumo zodwa aziyi kukulinda ixesha elide. Kodwa kubalulekile ukubhala ngokufanelekileyo, ngokunyanisekileyo.
Mhlawumbi siya kuhlangana?
Emva kwexesha elithile emva kwengxoxo yokuqala, kunomnqweno wokubona obani ngaphesheya kwesikrini esibomvu. Ngaba ufuna ukudibana naye, kodwa akafuni ukunikela nantoni na? Thatha isinyathelo sokuqala, unikezele intlanganiso encinci engenziyo! Amadoda akayi kuthethwa ngolu hlobo.
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Xa umhlangano osindelwe ixesha elide, wonke umntu uyaqaphela indlela enomdla ngayo umnxibelelwano. Ukuba umntu omncinci unomdla kuwe, uya kucela nokuba nenombolo yefowuni okanye unikezele ukudibana kwakhona. Kwaye ukuba akunjalo? Awudingi ukumbiza umnxeba kwaye umemele ngosuku - amadoda awanamdla ngokunyaniseka. Unokutsala indoda ngezinye iindlela. Ulungele ukuqhubeka uphando lwakho. Kukho imibuzo emininzi kwi-intanethi kwaye ngelinye ilanga uya kufumana lowo ufunayo!
Ekugqibeleni, ndifuna ukubonisa imbono yam malunga ne-intanethi. Ukunyaniseka, "ndiyona isono kwi-intanethi," kodwa ndiyathanda ukuphumla ngokuqhelekileyo. Unako ukunikela ngakumbi. Ukuba abantu basekuqaleni bazinikezela ixesha labo elikhululekileyo kwimikhosi kwiipaki, i-cinema, ukunxibelelana nabahlobo, ngoku kungamaxesha amaninzi ezi ziimidlalo zekhompyutha ezingapheliyo kwaye zingenamsebenzi zihamba ngeendawo ezahlukeneyo. Ewe, ndiyavuma, kwi-intanethi ngoku unokukwenza konke into: funda incwadi, ufunde iindaba zakutshanje, uhlawule iimali, njl njl. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kulungile, i-intanethi yenza kube lula ngathi ukuba sibe khona. Umbuzo: "Kutheni sifuna oku?". Ukususela emva "kwenduduzo" enjalo asiyiqondi ngokupheleleyo ihlabathi elisijikelezayo. Kwaye ngoku kungcono ukucinga okufutshane kunye nokwenza i-Intanethi ithembele kuthi, kwaye ingabi nxhomekeke kwi-intanethi?