Le nyathelo elibi kakhulu eliya kutshintsha kakhulu ubomi bakho. Ewe, kuya kubakho ubunzima, kodwa unokuhlangabezana nayo nayiphi na ubunzima.
Indlela yokudibanisa nabadala? Indlela yokuphepha iingxabano, ngaphandle kokutshintsha isigqi sobomi babo kwaye ungavumeli abazali ukuba batshintshe ulawulo lwabo ngokubanzi? Khumbula, kukuya kuwe ukugqiba indlela obonwabile ngayo ubomi bakho kunye nabazali bakho. Ukulandela imithetho embalwa elula echazwe ngezantsi, unokudala ubudlelwane obuqhelekileyo kwintsapho enkulu entsha.
Yakha ngaphakathi
Ukufudukela ekuguga kukuxinezeleka kubazali. Kunzima kakhulu ukuba banqume kwisinyathelo esinzulu. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba banokuvakalelwa ekhaya. Kucacile ukuba abazali baya kufuneka bahlukane nezinto ezininzi ezizithandayo kubo, ezizijikeleze bonke ubomi babo. Umsebenzi wakho kukunika igumbi elilodwa kwaye lixhobe ukuze lihle kwaye likhululekile. Qinisekisa ukubeka izinto ezibiza kakhulu kubazali kwigumbi, okuya kubanceda bazive bekhululekile.
Chaza isizathu sokuba ufune utshintsho
Ukuhlalisana ngokuhlaziywa akufanele kubakhusele, okanye ubomi bakho abucala. Ukuba ishedyuli yemihla ngemihla yabazali bakho ayilungelekanga kuwe, kufuneka uchaze ngobumninzi ngokubakhupha, ubonise ukuba kutheni utshintsho olufunekayo kwaye uzama ukufumana ingcamango eyokwakha wonke umntu. Khumbula, utshintsho olungalindelekanga ngokukhawuleza luyicinezela abantu asebekhulile abasengozini, ngoko baphathe abazali bakho ngokunyamezela.
Ungazami ukufundisa abazali bakho.
Umntu omdala akakwazi ukufundiswa, kwaye kufuneka uqonde oku. Awudingi ukufundisa bakho asebekhulile. Kakade, indlu ingeyakho, kwaye ubeka umyalelo. Kodwa ukuba uxolo lwabazali bakho luthandekayo kuwe, ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukuhlala uthula, kunokuba uphazamiseke okanye ufunge. Kwiimeko ezinzima, zama ukuthetha ngokuqhelekileyo kubaphenyi, kunokuba ufundise kwaye uvakalise ukunganeliseki ngokukhawuleza.
Abazali akufanele bazive njengomthwalo
Ukufudukela kwikhaya labantwana, abazali okanye ngenye indlela baqala ukuva umthwalo, kuba bayaqonda ukuba ukunyakaza kwabo ngandlela-thile kuvimbela inkululeko yabantwana asebekhulile baze baphile ubomi babo. Ngako oko, abazali banokungakhuselekanga kakhulu kwaye banokungathinteka, baqala ukuba bengenangqondo kwaye bacasulwe kuzo zonke iintlobo zezinto ezincinci, njengabantwana abancinci.
Ungatshintsha imeko. Nika abazali bakho ithuba lokuva abantu abalulekileyo kunye nabanentsingiselo. Bamele babone ukuba banokusetyenziswa kwabanye, kwaye ufuna uncedo lwabo kunye nabo. Vumela ukuba benze imisebenzi ethile, umzekelo, ukuthenga ukutya, ukulungiselela ukutya, njl. Bonani nabazali bakho ngokuphindaphindiweyo, babelane ngempumelelo yakho, njengaphambili. Nangona iingcebiso zabazali zibonakala zikhohlakele kuwe, qiniseka ukuba uziphulaphule ngaphandle kokuzenza ngathi awuyi kuthatha amagama abo.
Naka abazali bakho
Abazali abakhulileyo badinga ukunakekelwa kunye nokunyamekela. Khumbula, bakunike ubomi kunye nolutsha oluvuyisayo, ngoko kufuneka ubuyele kubo ubuncinci bothando abanike lona.
Ubomi obudibeneyo nabazali yisisombululo esibalulekileyo esiya kuthintela inkqubela yobomi bakho besikhathi esizayo. Funda ukujonga izinto ezintle kuzo zonke izinto. Ukuzibophelelana komnye nomnye, kwaye kwintsapho yakho entsha iya kulawula uxolo kunye nentlonipho.