Kuba nayiphi na umntu, umdlalo ngumsebenzi ebomini apho angakwazi khona ukukwazi kwakhe, ukuzithemba ngakumbi kuye, wenze izihlobo ezintsha. Yintoni eya kuba mnandi kumntwana wakho? Iiklasi kwi-echibini, i-skating skating, isangqa sama-modelers okanye i-tennis? Kungcono ukunquma kunye. Enyanisweni, ekupheleni kukaAgasti, iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeeklabhu zezemidlalo kunye namacandelo anemini evulekile. Ngokukhawuleza uqaphele indawo yengqungquthela yabantwana bexesha elizayo: kungcono ukuba iya kuba kufuphi nekhaya ngangokunokwenzeka. Buza umntwana oko angathanda ukukwenza. Ukuba unyaka odlulileyo waya kwindingili okanye kwicandelo, ngoko ufumane ukuba ufuna ukuqhubeka.
Yintoni eya kuhambelana neengqondo
Ukuba umntwana wakho uzolile, ukuba unako ukuchitha iiyure ukwenza enye into, zama ukumnika imodeli njengendlela yokuzilibazisa. Ukusebenza kunye neqela lamaqela amancinci lihlakulela ingqalelo, lenza izigqibo ezizimeleyo, kunye nezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi ziyaqeqeshwa. Ukuba ufuna ukuhlakulela imemori yakho, ukucinga okucwangcisiweyo kunye nengqiqo, yinike iklabhu ye-chess. Kwakhona kufanelekile kwiibhilidi, kodwa kukho imingcipheko kwiminyaka yobudala - ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-12. Musa ukulindela umntwana ngokukhawuleza ukunqoba. Mnike ithuba lokudlala ngokumnandi, kwaye ungagxininisi ukuba le ngqungquthela ibonakala iyamkhathaza. Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho ufanelekile isangqa sabantu abasemvelo.
Ukuxabiseka okukhulu kwiyiphi isangqa ukunika umntwana, ukudlala kunye nobuchule bakhe kunye neetalente. Ukuba, umzekelo, umntwana ubumnandi ubhala iincwadana ngezihloko ezahlukahlukeneyo aze abonise iingcamango ezingaqhelekanga, ngoko kufuneka ibhalwe phantsi kwisangqa somloli-ntsha. Ngoko umlobi-ntatheli okanye umhleli uza kuzama isandla sakhe kokubhaliweyo ngomlomo nangobhalwe phantsi. Ukuba umntwana ungo-diplomate wangempela, kwaye abahlobo bahlala begijimela kuye ukuze bacebise, uya kuba nomdla wokuya kwisikolo sengqondo. Ukuba kukho ubuchule beelwimi - vumela ukhetho kwizifundo zobugcisa, kwaye kungekhona kwisangqa sesikolo esilula. Emva koko, eli shishini linzulu, lifuna indlela echanekileyo!
Ukuba umntwana ubandakanyeka ngokukodwa kwisifundo esikolweni - kufuneka unike umntwana kwisangqa esifanelekileyo. Ngoku, loo mibuthano yeprofayile ayivuli kuphela kwimakhaya yabafundi, kodwa nakwizikolo ngokwazo. Abantwana, njengomthetho, njengotitshala, abajikelezileyo. Ngenxa yoko unomdla wokuya esikolweni, kwaye oku kuhlanganiswa kakhulu.
Amacandelo ezemidlalo
Ehlobo, umntwana unikezwa ithuba lokuhamba amaninzi kwaye ahambe, kodwa ngoSeptemba ixesha lokusebenza liya kugqitywa. Izifundo ezininzi imihla ngemihla, ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo, ukuhlwa ebusuku kwiTV okanye kwikhompyutheni yekhompyutheni - yiloo nto iya kuhamba naye ngonyaka wesikolo. Kodwa ngokuveliswa okuqhelekileyo komntwana, imithwalo yengqondo kufuneka ihambelane nenyama. Izemidlalo ikhula ukuxhamla, amandla, ukulungelelaniswa kweminyango, ukuzithemba.
Izifundo zemfundo ezilula kunye nokuzibandakanya kwasekuseni azizalisi iimfuno zomntwana zokuhamba. Ukuba awunagqiba kwinqanaba lezemidlalo, ngoko lixesha lokukwenza. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuba iiklasi zenzeke ezintathu ukuya kwezine ngeveki. Ukuya kukhethwa kwecandelo kufuneka kuhlale kuqwalasela umongo womntwana - kuba yonke imisebenzi yemoto ilawulwa yinkqubo yakhe yeentlungu.
I-Sanguine izakufumana kwimidlalo apho kufuneka ixinzelelo. Le volleyball, i-tennis, iindidi zeqela. Ama-Choleric afanelekile kumidlalo okhuphiswano: ucingo, i-athletics, ubugcisa bokulwa, ukubhukuda kwejubane, ukusebenza. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abe ngowokuqala! Ukuba umntwana ungumfundi we-phlegmatic - khetha iintlobo zemidlalo engafuneki ukusabela ngokukhawuleza. Ukudansa, ukubhukuda, i-aerobics, ukuya kwi-karting, yoga. I-Melancholic ibonisa umsebenzi omncinci wokuphazamiseka. Le midlalo ye-orienteering, ukudubula, ukudansa kwe-oriental kunye ne-ballroom, kunye ne-yoga.
Dlala kwaye wenze!
Iqela lezemidlalo okanye i-studio iya kunceda ukubonakalisa umntwana ozolile kwaye onokulinganisela. Umntwana onomvakalelo akanakunikwa kweso studio - inokuphazamisa inkqubo yakhe yesantya. Iiklasi zihleliwe, ziphinda zihlaziye ngakumbi, zikhunjulwe ngeentsimi ezide. Ngoko, ukuba unyana wakho udla ngokuzibonakalisa engummangaliso, kunye nentombi yakhe-uBarbie okanye i-Little Mermaid, ukhethe iqela lezemidlalo - njengelungu lomntwana kwaye uhlakulele, kwaye ujonge kwaye ufundise kakhulu.
Ukuba ufuna ukuthumela umntwana ukuba afunde ukuqwalaselwa komculo, ngokokuqala qaphela ukuba unomnqweno wokufunda umculo, kunye nezixhobo eziyimfuneko. Dlala naye esikolweni somculo. Ukukhethwa kweso sixhobo kubalulekile: makabe ehlala nomntwana. Kwaye kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba isikolo somculo ngokunyamekela kwemithwalo ayisoloko esingaphantsi kwesikolo esiqhelekileyo. Ngoko ke, sele sele sele unyaka wesibini okanye wesithathu wemfundo, umntwana uhlala eqala ukuvukela. Ukuze ungayiphumeli le nto, ekuqaleni ungafaki imisebenzi engenakwenzeka ngaphambi kokuba umntwana athi, uphumelele impumelelo, ube ngumculi omkhulu ukuhamba ngeenxa zonke kwiitye. Cacisa ukuba, ngokudlala igitare, umzekelo, kuya kuba ngumphefumlo kwanoma yiphi inkampani. Ngendlela, isixhobo somculo sinokufunda ekhaya, ngokuqesha umfundisi wangasese.
UJack kuwo onke amashishini
Abantwana abakhululeyo, ngokukodwa iikliniki (ukuqonda umhlaba ngokuthintela, ukuzama ukuthintela yonke into), iiklasi ezifanelekileyo ezizisa iziphumo zangempela. Aba bantwana abanolwazi olulinganayo bayopenda imifanekiso kwi-batik, bashise, batye, batyeke, benze i-appli, i-origami, bethwe amathoyizi athambileyo, benze iigrafu kwiintlobo baze bahlanganyele ekuphekeni. Musa ukudimazeka xa ungeke ukwazi ukufumana isangqa esifanelekileyo. Ungathenga yonke into oyifunayo kwimisebenzi yezandla kunye nokufunda ekhaya. Yile ndlela iindwendwe zeentsapho eziza ngayo!
Musa ukwenza ukhetho olungalunganga!
Ukukhethwa ngokuchanekileyo kwindlela yokwenza umntwana kunye nokuthanda kwakhe. Emva koko, akulula kangangoko emva kwezifundo ezithandathu okanye ezisixhenxe ukudibana ndawonye kunye nesangqa. Ngomnye lo mntwana ufanelwe inhlonipho!
Kubaluleke kakhulu kwishishini le-hobby inkokheli. Abantwana abancinane abaqondi kakuhle into abayifunayo, ngoko bahlala behamba "kootitshala." Ngoko ke, khokelwa ngumbono womntwana, xa ufika naye ukuba ubhalwe kwisangqa. Abantwana bazive beziva abantu, kuba uqhagamshelwano oluphambili lwengqondo lubalulekile.