Luhlobo luni lobomi obunokuthi isombululo sisombulule?


Ingaba uyazi ukuba ngubani umlenze? Luhlobo luni lobomi obunokuthi isombululo sisombulule? Kutheni le bhile ixhomekeke kwabanye abantu? Abanye bayamthiya, abanye bayabahlonela, abanye bayayesaba ... Omnye uhlekisayo ukhangele i-bitch, kunye nomntu ophupha ngamaphupha ukuba abe njengabo ...

Kumntu othile, "i-bitch" - oku kufutshane nokuhlambalaza, kodwa kumntu-ukunconywa okungcono.
Ngoko konke okufanayo, ngubani onjalo umlenze? Ngaba kuhle okanye kubi?
Ngethuba lokuqala ndabuza le mibuzo emininzi kwiminyaka edlulileyo. Kwaye, nangona mna, eli lizwi elimangalisayo lalinomdla kakhulu kwaye liyimfihlakalo kwaye kakhulu, kakhulu kunjenge-drop drop of FIRST.
Ukusuka oko ndingazi khona ngoko. Ndathenga i-bunch of literature kwi "bitchiness" kwaye ndahlala phantsi ukuze ndifunde. Ukuqhelana kokuqala neencwadi zolu hlobo ndidanisa.
Ezi zikhokelo zokuzinyamekela, ukhetha izambatho, ukwakheka, ukulungiswa kwemifanekiso, ulungiso. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, i-bitch kufuneka ihlale iphezulu, kodwa emva kwayo yonke into, umfazi omhle ohlambulukileyo akayiyo into. I-Bitch ifilosofi yonke, ingaphakathi kwaye ingekho ngaphandle.
Enye incwadi ngokuqhelekileyo yambetha: kwinqanaba layo, kwakuyi-biography yentombazana encinane eyayingeyinto enhle kakhulu, kodwa yayineqela lamadoda. Njani? Walala nje nomntu wonke. Oku kuchazwe ngamaphepha angaphezu kwamakhulu amathathu, kunye neengcebiso ezimbalwa zokuzinakekela ekupheleni kwencwadi. Ngaba ezi ntsimbi?
Incwadi enye yandinceda ndiyiqonde le ngxaki. Ukusuka kumigca yokuqala kwacaca - ibhaliwe yintsimbi yangempela. Ukusuka kuyo ndafunda ulwazi oluncedo, oluhambelana neengcinga zam malunga ne-PRESENT STERVE. Into endiyiluncedo kum, into eyayingenamsebenzi kwimeko yam, ngento engavumelangayo. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo, le ncwadi inomdla. Ngoko, izigqibo zam:
Bitch:
- zihlonipha
- uyazi into ayifunayo
- uyakwazi ukuphumeza oku
- uyazi indlela yokuzibonakalisa
- rhoqo kwibala
- luhle kuyo yonke into!)
Ndajonga kubahlobo bam kwaye ndafumana phakathi kwabo stervochka. Bonke bahluke ngokubini kwiminyaka yobudala kunye nokubukeka, kwibala kunye nendlela yobomi, kodwa ke bonke babenempawu zentsimbi yangempela.
Alena, 32
U-Alena unina wabantwana ababini abancomekileyo, utshatile okwesibini kwaye uphumelele kakhulu. Ngokuphambene noko, inkolelo eyaziwayo kukuba i-bitch yintokazi enye. Ukungabi nongcama, uhlale ekulungele ukunceda omnye, kodwa kubantwana kunye nomyeni ngokubanzi ulungele nantoni na. Nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile ekubonweni kokuqala kucacile ukuba uyinto.
I-Bitch, ngendlela engcono yegama. Uzibeka njengengqungquthela, uyazithemba kuye, unenjongo, umsebenzi kwaye ufezekisa ngempumelelo le nto, nangona ubuninzi bexesha elithathayo intsapho yakhe. Ngendlela, ufuna umntwana wesithathu.
Unabangane abaninzi phakathi kwabantu, baninzi abanomdla, kodwa umyeni wakhe akanalo isizathu esincinci sokumthandabuza.
Marina, 25
Ngomhlobo wam uMarina siye sazana omnye iminyaka engaphezu kwe-10. Ndandiva kubahlobo abaninzi ukuba "uMarina usengumlenze." UMarina unomgomo omnye ebomini: ukuzonwabisa. Uthanda amaklabhu kunye nemidanso.
Usebenza njengomabhala ngomvuzo omncinci kumgangatho, kodwa oku akuyidumisi kakhulu. Usebenza kwakhona kwi-nightclub njengomdaniso, kwaye unamava amaninzi kule shishini, ekubeni udlale ukusuka ebuntwaneni kwaye udla ngokubanzi.
Emva kokuba ndamcebisa ukuba asebenze njengabaqeqeshi kumdaniso, kuba uyakwenza kwaye nangengqesho akukho ziingxaki ezikhethekileyo. Kodwa akusiyo yonke into elula. UMarina akafuni ukufunda, uthanda nje ukudansa. Kunzima kakhulu ukufunda.
Ngemali kwintombi yam yeengxaki cishe ayifuni. U-Marinka uyintlalo yoluntu, uyazi kakuhle abantu abaninzi abasemzini oswelekileyo, bahlala befumana ngubani ofuna ukucela imali okanye ukuba ngubani "ozalela" kwiqela okanye ekudleni kwivenkile yokutyela.
Kwabafana kunokwenzeka kakhulu ngenxa yemidlalo kunye nezinto eziphathekayo. Ndisele ndilahlekelwe ukuba ngaba bangaphi.
UMarina ungumgulane weengqondo, ndiza ndithi umphathi wesikhombisi. Uyifumana ekuzalweni kwaye uye wayisebenzisa ngokuyimpumelelo iminyaka emininzi. Ndandibukela ngaphezu kweyodwa ukuba, ngemizuzu embalwa nje, unokwenza ukuba nantoni na into, kuquka nam. Oo, ezo talente ziza kuba zikhokelo! Kodwa akafuni ukufunda kwaye, ngelishwa, akafuni ...
Ukukhanya, 20
Sadibana noSvetik ngengozi, kwaye mhlawumbi nje ngokungaqhelekanga kwaye sibaleke, ukuba asizange sithole into emangalisayo: siyafana kakhulu. Sifana nayo yonke into: sithanda iincwadi, iifilimu, sithanda umculo ofanayo, ukutya okufanayo, kwaye sinokuhlala sinento yokuthetha ngayo. Ngamanye amaxesha sidibana nokuba iwele lam, kakuhle, okanye ndingumfazi.
I-Sveta ngumntu onomdla kakhulu. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ummeli oqaqambileyo we-detinkment ye-stinkers, ngaphandle kwe-nihilist engathandabuzekiyo. Uhlala kwindlu yehostele, ufunda kwisingcali sengqondo. Unenjongo ebomini - ukuba abe yingcali kwishishini lakhe, kodwa emsebenzini akayi kuphinda ahlaziye ukuzizonwabisa. Unayo yonke ixesha. Unomdla kakhulu kunye nomntu ovuya, oko kubangele abanye. Abafana baze bafikelele "abayena", kodwa ngokukodwa kungekukhawulezi, unako konke okuzayo!
Njengoko ubona, ukujikeleza i-bitch kwavela ezininzi zeengcinga, eza kuba lixesha elaneleyo lokwakha.
1. I-Bitch ayiyonto yedwa, kodwa kunoko-ke.
2. I-Bitch i-egoist, kodwa ngokumodareyitha. Akasoze athethe utsho kubahlobo bakhe, kodwa ngelo xesha, akayi kwenza nantoni na, kuba uyazixabisa kwaye uyazihlonela.
3. I-Bitch - yenza umsebenzi, kodwa kungekhona kwintlawulo yakhe yentsapho. Ukukwazi ukuphumelela ngenye yeempawu eziphambili zentsimbi yangempela.
4. I-Bitch - ayiyi kufungela okanye ihlazo (ngokuchasene ne-"brity"). Uya kuhlala efumana indlela yokuphuma kwimeko, ukuze ungayihlazisi wena nabanye.
5. I-Bitch - ayibanda kwaye ibaluleke kakhulu, kodwa ivuya kwaye inobungane. Ufuna ukunxibelelana nabantu abanjalo, kwaye ungaziphepha. Yiyo imfihlelo yabo yokuthandwa kakhulu.
6. I-Bitch ingumgqirha weengqondo, uyayiqonda kwaye uziva abantu.
7. I-Bitch - uhlala uzibukela kwaye uvela kwisihlwele.
8. I-Bitch - akungabazeki ukuba ukumkanikazi!
Wonke umntu unesiphelo sakhe, indlela yakhe .... Kwaye ukuba nokuba okanye kungeyi kuba yintonga - kufike kuwe!