Ukuziqhelanisa kubonisa ukuba le nto yokuzonwabisa yamantombazana phantse ihlala ibangela ukuphendulwa kakubi kumalandeli abo. Ngokutsho kophando lwakutshanje, phakathi kwamadoda aselula phakathi kweminyaka engama-20 ukuya kweyama-27 yabalandeli be-tattoo, iqabane lawo linabantu aba-18 nje kwekhulu. Kodwa ezi zithandwa ezincinci zibonakala kunye ne tattoo yangaphambili ayikhathazeki. Ngoko ke kufuneka umthandane othandweni azenze ntoni ukuba ukuthanda kwakhe kuthatha isigqibo sokuya kwi-tattoo parlor? Kuvela ukuba kukho iindlela zokudambisa intombazana kwisenzo esingenasiphelo.
Umzekeliso weembono.
Kwaye ukuphumelela kwabo kukubonisa ubomi bakhe ngemibala yonke emva kokudweba umzobo. Yithini intokazi entle eyikayiyo yonke into? Elinye iqhawe lomdlalo owaziwayo, uA.A. Dumas, wasombulula le ngqungquthela: nayiphi na ibhinqa, nangona ekholelwa ukuba ubuhle bayo, yoloyiko kakhulu yokuxhatshazwa. Kwaye iimbali ezibuhlungu zobuhle obubonakalayo, ubuhle bakhe bukhutshwe ngumona omkhulu wabathandana babo, le nyaniso inqiniswa kuphela.
Ubungqina bentombi buhle kakhulu kwaye ubeke isiseko senkolelo yomthandi ukuyeka itekisi. Akakwazi nje ukuxelela ukuba usulelo olwenziwe ngexesha lokudweba lunokwenza ngesikhumba sakhe, kodwa luyabonakala ngokucacileyo: kukho imifanekiso emininzi kwinethiwekhi. Ukongezelela, ungayigxothi inyaniso yenzululwazi yokuba kunye nenkqubela yeminyaka isikhumba somntu solule, kwaye upende lwe tattoo luyacinywa. Ngoko, emva kweminyaka emi-5-7, lo mfanekiso uza kubonakala uyanyelisa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ingxabano enjalo iya kubonisa intombazana ekhethiweyo yakhe injongo yokuchitha kunye nayo ubuncinane iminyaka elishumi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, oku kuya kumenza acinge ngempumelelo yesisombululo kwixesha elide.
Abasetyhini badume ngokungahambi kwabo. Kwaye baqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba lo mgangatho uqobo kubo. Ngoko kutheni ufuna ukucinga ingcamango eyona mpu melelo yendlela yokukhusela intombazana ebhentshini, ukuba ungayisebenzisi kakuhle lobuthathaka besifazane? Ukuyipenda kuyo yonke imibala, kuya kuba buhlungu kangakanani ukuba ibone umfanekiso ofanayo kwiminyaka emininzi, kuya kuba nzima kangakanani ukwenza isigqibo malunga nomnye umphumo onobuhlungu kwi-salon, ukuzisa itekisi kunye nokuba yintoni inqabileyo embi emva kokususwa kwayo.
Iphutha elingagqitywa.
Ukuba imifanekiso yexesha elibi elizayo emva komzobo we tattoo ayizange iphule iminqweno yeentombazana, ngoko sinokumnika ingxaki yokwakha. Ekugqibeleni, ukungafuni komntu ukubona tattoo kwesikhumba sakhe sithandekayo kungafanelekile, nakunoma iyiphi indlela, kwiinkathazo zakhe okanye umnqweno wakhe wokuzingca nje ukumelana nantoni na. Uyakhathazeka ngeqabane lakhe. Ukuba akayekanga umnqweno wakhe wokumenza avuyiswe. Ngako oko, kunokuba kunokuba amkholise kwaye asebenzise ixesha elixabisekileyo lokuhlala kunye ukuxabana, kumnceda ukuba aqonde ukuba akafuni ngokwenene ukwenza tattoo.
Ukwenza oku, kwanele ukuba uvumelane ukuxelisa umzobo: unokuthiwa ukuphazamiseka, isigaba sokuqala okanye ukufaneleka, - kwintombazana nganye, igama layo liya kuhambelana. Isalathisi esisetyenziswe yi-henna ihlanjwe kwiiveki ezi-2-3 ezifutshane, nto leyo intombazana iya kuba yaneleyo ukuqonda ukuba akayidingi i-tattoo. Ukuqonda oku kuya kuvela ngokwawo, kwaye kunokushukunyiswa ngamazwana akhethwe nguye. Kuphela ukwenza amazwana angalunganga malunga nomfanekiso kufuneka acaphele kwaye acacile. Ubukho be tattoo engacingiyo abuyikukhupha konke ukunyusa ukwanda kwezesondo zesini. Ukuba le ngqiqo ayibonakali, unokukhubaza intombazana kwi tattoo ngezinye iindlela, kodwa kulungile ukuba ucinge ukuba kulungile ngexesha lokumxhathisa, ukuba emva koko uya kutshisa ngomnqweno. Mhlawumbi le yona yimeko yenkanuko yokwenene, ukungaphumeleli kwayo kuya kwenza intanda, nokuba yinto encinane, kodwa ingonwabanga?
Ukukhwabanisa.
Amantombazana ahluke. Ngamanye amaxesha benza njengabantwana. Kwaye kwimeko enjalo nje ukuphazamisa ingqalelo into enomtsalane kunottoo. Njengendlela yokuphazamisa, ungasebenzisa nantoni na: ukusuka kwincoma, ukuya kwisipho se-chic. Ukunikezela kuphela kuyimfuneko ukuba ube nexabiso lokwenene, kwaye ungayinikeli igama lexabiso lokula. Ngaphandle koko, ukuziva ukuphikisana kunokunqoba kuye kunye nombuzo oza kumtshintsha ngombonisi, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuphendula - akukho nto.
Ewe, zingaphi iimbini, ezininzi iinkalo zobudlelwane bokwakha phakathi kwabo. Kukho ukulingana kwenye indawo, kwaye akananto yokumnqabela. Kwesinye isibini sabasebenzi bonke abakhohlisi-ke uyenzela utyhaphalo ngokumalunga nothando lwakhe lokuhamba nabahlobo bakhe, ngoko ufanelana nezihlazo zakhe, ehamba kunye namazwi ahlaselayo ngokuthintela ngokungqongqo kunye nemimiselo. Abantu bakhela ubudlelwane babo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Iimpawu ezifanelekileyo kubo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba banokuhluka. Ngoko, ukukhutshwa kwi tattoo kungekhona nje kuphela kubafakeli abafisayo, kodwa nangenxa yokuzikhumbuza. Ukubeka nje, ingxelo ye-ultimatum yoluhlobo "nokuba thina, okanye tattoo".
Xa iinqwelo ezinzima zifika ekulweni.
Ngamanye amaxesha, akukho ukukhuthaza, ukukhuthaza, ukukhwabanisa, okanye ukwesatshiswa ngoncedo. Kwaye akafuni ukulahlekelwa ngumthandi wakhe. Lapha unendlela eyodwa kuphela. Ngokuchanekileyo, ezimbini, kodwa okwesibini - ukunika intombazana kwaye uvumele ukuba wenze tattoo. Kwaye enye indlela kwisigqibo esibi kakhulu iya kubandakanywa kwinkqubo yokuphazamisa abo babonwa yiloo nto. Okanye uloyiko lwakhe loyikayo. Ewe, ukuba uqale, unokongamela ukuxelela abazali bakho ngeenjongo zakhe. Kodwa akusoloko isizukulwana esikhulileyo senza utyando lwe tattoo. Ngoko ke, wonke umntu onokuziphulaphula ngokuzenzekelayo: abazalwana, intombi, intsebenziswano, abazali (kuquka yena) unokuya esikolweni. Unokutsala isithixo sokuhlanjululwa kwesikhumba samabhinqa - ukuba, ngokomzekelo, inkwenkwezi yasekhaya ayiyiyo indiza ephezulu. Enyanisweni, kuya kufuneka uchithe imali eninzi.
Ukuba uninzi lwentombazana elikufutshane lusekela isigqibo sakhe, unokuzama ukutshintsha uluvo lwabo ngokuxelela ukuba yeyiphi inxalenye yokuqala eyayiyi-tattoos. Cishe wonke umntu uyazi malunga nokuba izigwenxa nezigulane zezibhedlele zengqondo zaqala ukuzizisa. Ukongeza, xa uthetha neentombi zakho ezithandekayo, ungaphinda usebenzise ingxabano esekelwe kwinto yokuba amathambo ayenayo yamantombazana angenayo enye into emele ayenze.