Uninazala "Umoya"
Ngokwemvelo, uyinkosi ye-feudal, nayo yonke i-serfs yakhe yasekhaya. Ukuqwalasela ukuba "ungumtshutshiso we-paratrooper" obethelela ngqo kwi-cookie yakhe enokuthula, unokuyingozi. Kwaye nangona i-ring engagement isele ihlotswe ngomnwe wakho, akazange ayibale. Kule meko, ngokusemthethweni, akunakutsholwa ukuba umama-mkhwekazi uhlala ethanda ukuthetha kunye nabafazi bendodana yakhe. Wayengenakukuxolela ukuba unyana wayenomdla wokukhetha umfazi ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba ngokuthe ngqo kunye nebhunga lomama. Kucacile nakumntu oyimpumputhe ukuba uninazala uyazazi kangcono kunonyana wakhe ukuba unonwabo.
Yintoni endiyenzayo? Indlela efanelekileyo yokuseka ubudlelwane kunye nomama-mkhwenkwe-mkhwenkwe "inkosi yamanyala" kukuzenza ukuba uphulaphule ngenyameko ukuphawula kwayo, qhagamshelana nayo yonke into encinci kwaye uyayixabisa amandla akhe okulawula uqoqosho. Nangona kunjalo, yenza oku ngendlela yakho. Uya kuthotyelwa kancinane kwaye aqale ukuqonda njengomntwana ongenakukhusela. Ekugqibeleni, akabi. Kuphela nje ukulawula.
Umama-mkhwenkwe "UkuSonga"
Umama-mkhwenkwe walolu hlobo lwengqondo ulunkqenkqonkqo kwi-manic. Le njazana enamandla izakuzisa nto "kumanzi acocekileyo". Ukususela kumzuzu wokuqala wokumazi kwakho, uya kuqala ukukhwela into ethile kwaye uqoqe ukungcola kuwe. Nani, unokubingelela ngamazinyo akhe, nangona uhlala kwindawo efanayo. Kwaye kwangoko ukuhlekisana nomntwana wakhe nsuku zonke: "Ndabona umfazi wakho esitalatweni namhlanje. Wayethetha nendoda eyaziwayo. " Ngoko ungamangalisi ukuba ngelinye ilanga ubona umthandi wakho ngomsindo. Ngomso, unina kwindawo ethile "uyayiphonsa" ukuba unomntu kunye nomphathi wakho, kwaye sele usuqalile ukukhipha isisu kuye. Le ngxowa, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, yayiya kuthoba kakhulu kumphathi wakho. Kodwa akwenzi kube lula kuwe.
Yintoni endiyenzayo? Akukho mzekelo ongenakulungiswa. Akukho nto! Kwaye isatifikethi osibuyisele kumapolisa malunga nokungabikho kwezigwebo kuya kuba nguye ubungqina obungenakuphikiswa bokuthi utyeshe umthetho. Yiba nesithemba kunye nesidima. Musa ukubandakanyeka kwiingxoxo ezingenamsebenzi. Lowo uyakuthandayo, kwaye uyazi ngoko ngokwenene.
Uninazala "Nasedka"
Lo mkhwekazi wenqaba ukuvuma ngokucacileyo ukuba unyana sele sele ekhulile. Uyamnakekela yonke iminithi, ekholelwa ukuba uzalisekisa umsebenzi wakhe ongcwele. Ingenaso isilumkiso sinokugubungela kwigumbi lakho nangaliphi ixesha lomhla ukuze umlethe isonka esitsha. Uyakwazi ukumba ngaphakathi kwengubo yangaphantsi kwaye, efuna ukunika isipho, uthenga omnye umlotha. Ngubani? Kakade, akunjalo. Lo mkhwekazi, umnqweno wokudala iyunithi yentlalo ngokuqhelekileyo idibana ne-hysteria ngokuziphepha: "Andiyidingi mntu, ungangingena kwikhaya labantu abadala." Yaye ukuba mhlawumbi wayekwazi ukunyamezela ubukho bakho (yindodana esetyenziselwe ukulala nebhedi ye-teddy, kwaye ngoku kunye nentombazana eleleyo), ngoko ke uya kukhanyela ngoku. Kwiimeko zeklinikhi, uya kufumana kwikhobe yakho ipolel potion esikhundleni seti kunye nenqaku "Hamba, amandla angcolileyo!".
Yintoni endiyenzayo? Ukuthetha nomama-mkhwe onjalo kungenasiphelo-kuya kugqitywa nge-validol kunye nokunyanzeliswa kobuthathaka. Nantsi kuyimfuneko ukuba usebenze ngokukhawuleza nangokukhawuleza - ukunciphisa uxhulumaniso kwiprotocolally ehloniphekileyo, kunye nefowuni efunekayo ngemini phambi kwefowuni. Kule mpikiswano ayifaki kwaye angafumani ukuba ubani othanda kakhulu "intshontsho yenkwenkwe". Kumyeni kumkhwezala ukuba anganyundeli! Ukumthumela ngethuba lokunxibelelana noMama okwenziwe ukuba, kungekhona ekukhokho kwakho kukukhokelela ekuchaseni okufanayo. Ukuba, ngokwenene, uya kuphumelela.
Uninazala kaMViper
Umama-mkhwenkwe kunye ne "Viper" lathisi ngumntu onobungozi kunye nogculelo. Ngokucacileyo akuthandi. Kodwa akasoze athi ngqo. Uya kulinda ngenyameko xa wenza iphutha ukubuza unyana wakho ngokukhawuleza: "Yaye uliphi na?" Xa umyeni wakho wexesha elizayo efika nawe ekhaya, uya kuziva ngathi uyindwendwe, njenge-powder keg. "I-Viper" iya kuhoywa iifayile zakho, ngokubhekisela kwindodana yakhe, njengokungathi awukho kwigumbi. Kwaye nangona isicelo esivele sithunyelwe kubhalisi! Kwaye ukuba wena, ufundiswe ngamava amnandi, zama ukuphepha ukuthetha, ngoko unquma ukuba ucinga ukuba akafanelekanga kuluntu lwakhe. Lindela, kuya kusekho.
Yintoni endiyenzayo ? Unokucinga ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuyiphatha. Ngokomzekelo, ukutyiwa rhoqo ngetyhefu. Nangona kunjalo, lo wesifazane uyinyani-isidalwa esingonwabi, esicasulwa yihlabathi lonke. Kubonakala kuye ukuba yonke into exubene nabo ixakekile kangangokuba kufuneka ijongane nayo. Into ephambili akuyiyoyiki loo mkhwekazi. Isixhobo sakho esiyintloko sibukeka ngokufudumala kunye nokumamatheka okuthabathayo. Khumbula ukuba ubugwenxa buvame ukucela uncedo. Ngoko mncede. Ukuba umcimbi uphumelele, unokuba ngumhlobo wakho othembekileyo. Emva koko, ihlabathi likhohlakele, kodwa uyayiqonda kakuhle.
Umkhwekazi "Ukhohlakele"
Ekuqalekeni, kubonakala kuwe ukuba umyeni wakho unomama wehlabathi. Ngokukhawuleza ubonisa ukuba uzibiza ngegama kunye nokusela iglasi ukuze azi. U "thaw" kwaye uxoxe rhoqo naye, njengentombi, malunga nazo zonke iintlobo zeentombi zamantombazana. Ngaphezu koko, ukwesaba ukucasula umama "wehlabathi," uphulaphule ngokukhawuleza amabali akhe ngomntu owayengumyeni womfazi. Uyakwazi ukubonakalisa ukwesaba ukuba unyana uhambe waya kuyise: "Ungaboni ukuba ungaphi na unamantombazana!". Umphefumlo wakho uqala ukuhlutywa ngokungathandabuzeki ngokungathandabuzekiyo, akusayikukholisa umtshato. Uninazala "Fox" wongeza umbane emlilweni aze anqobe. Nangona kunjalo, usebenza kwiofisi yeRejista kwaye uhlala nomama-mkhwenkwe kwelinye igumbi. "I-Fox" ibonisa uvuyo lwendalo yonke, kodwa uyazi ukuba ilahlekelwe yindoda yokuqala yokuqala. Yaye ukuba imvume yeVatican yokuqhawula umtshato awuyi kubuza.
Yintoni endiyenzayo? Qaphela kwaye ugcine umgama wakho. Musa ukuphendula ngokunyanisekileyo kwaye ungayithobeli ingqalelo yakhe - isiqingatha sazo - akunjalo. Ukusuka kuwe, uya kulinda "ukuvuleka" okufanayo kwinye imini ukuyenza ibe yindoda kumyeni wakho. Ngoko ukudibanisa nokudibanisa! Ayikho igama elingenanto. Elinye iphuzu elibalulekileyo - soloko uhlala kwicala lomntu wakho kwaye ungavumeli umntu uthethe ngaye ngokuhlekisa. Nangona unina!
Olu luhlu olungaphelelanga lomama-mkhwenyana onobungozi. Nangona kunjalo, ungacingi ukuba bonke oomama bahle kakhulu. Ukuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo noninazala, ungabhalisa inkxaso yakhe baze babe ngabahlobo abakhulu. Sinqwenela ngokwenene ukuba ube ngumkhwe womntwana onqabileyo, onobubele, onothando. Kwaye baqonda ngokucacileyo indlela abanenhlanhla ngayo unyana wabo, owathabathe umlotha. Kwaye ungubani ukungaqiniseki ngokumomotheka? Ngaba ucinga ukuba akunangqiqo?