Indlela yokujongana nesi sifo?

Umntu ogulayo endlwini uhlala enesihe kwabanye, wonke umntu uzama ukumnceda ngandlela-thile. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko ukumisa kwingqalelo kwisigulane kwaye unike umntu ukuba azibonele ngesifo sakhe nokuba kutheni kubonakala. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu uqala ukugula ngenxa yokungabi nthando, ukunyamekela, ukucaphuka komsindo nomntu. Oku kwenzeka kubantwana, banesizathu esithile sokuqhubela phambili entlokweni abazali abahlawula ingqalelo kubo kwaye baqala ukubandezeleka kwizifo ezahlukahlukeneyo.

Indlela yokujongana nesi sifo? Xa, umzekelo, umntu ukhula nomhlaza, ungamnceda njani ukuhlangabezana nale sifo. Kukho imibono eyahlukileyo kulo mbandela, ukuba umhlaza ngumfazi kunye nendoda, isetyhini idla umntu ngokukhawuleza, kwaye indoda ayikwazi ukuphuhlisa. Kodwa kukho enye imbono yokuba abantu baninzi, abanqabile kakhulu ukubuyela koogqirha. Ewe, noogqirha, kukuphi ukufihla, kungekhona ngokokuziphatha ukuhlolwa. Lapha kwaye udla umhlaza womntu kuthiwa iinyanga, nangona wahlala kwaye wayidla iminyaka emininzi. Xa ubeka ukuxilongwa okubi kakhulu, izihlobo zesigulane ngomhlaza, zisoyika. Kodwa awukwazi ukwenza oku, makungabonakali ubonise le nkxalabo kumntu ogulayo. Ngomzuzu ufuna ukuxhaswa kwengqondo, ungabi nabubele, ungabi nokwesaba emehlweni, kodwa uncedo kuphela, uncedo. Kuye kufuneka uqhagamshelane naye ngaphambi kokugula, kwaye ujabule. Musa ukuxhoma kule nto, ingakumbi kuba umdlavuza awusoloko uyisifo esibulalayo. Kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu, kwimeko yesigulane ngokwakhe, kufuneka alahle amaphephancwadi ngamaqendu malunga nesigulane esinyanga, ukuqokelela amanqaku avela kwii-periodicals. Sidinga ukuba akholwe ukuba ayiyikufa. Emva koko isifo siya kuqala ukuya kwicala kwaye ekugqibeleni kuya kuhamba kwaye intsapho iya kuphinda ibe noxolo kunye noxolo, kwaye ibaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo.

Kukho izifo ezininzi, zikhona izifo ezingenangxaki kakhulu, kodwa zingathandeki kakhulu, umzekelo - isithuthwane. Indlela yokujongana nesi sifo? Elizweni lethu, esi sifo siye safundiswa kakhulu, kwezinye iidolophu azikho ngisho ne-epileptologists, makungabikho ukhathalelo lwezilwanyana ezinokuhluthwa. Kuze kube ngoku, baphathwa ngeendlela zokudala, baqulunqa iziyobisi ezingafanelekanga. Ukukhubazeka akunikezelwa kwiqela elinjalo lezigulane, kwaye abakwazi ukusebenza ngokuqhelekileyo. Umqeshi, ukufunda ngezi sifo, akafuni ukuba loo msebenzi awubone kwinkampani yakhe. Esi sifo siphiliswa, kodwa kunqabile xa sidlula ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa konke okufanayo, umntu ofumene esi sifo, okanye ukususela ekuzalweni kwakhe kugula, kufuneka akholelwe ukuba yonke into iya kudlula kwaye eso sifo siza kuphinda siphenduke njengoko iintshaba zibuyela kwi-battlefield.

Zonke izifo zinikwe into ethile, zisinika ithuba lokuqonda into esenzayo engalunganga ebomini, okanye sinike ibukeka obutsha nobomi. Into ephambili ngexesha lokugula kukuphulaphula ingqondo nentliziyo yakho kwaye uqonde oko ufunayo ebomini. Abantu abaninzi abaninzi, ngexesha lokugula, baqonda i-destiny yabo kulo mhlaba. Cinga, mhlawumbi ungomnye wabo kwaye ulindele, into enkulu. Ungagxininisi kwizifo zakho, jonga phambili uze uphumelele. Yilwela ubomi bakho ngamandla akho onke, sinayo yodwa, enye ayiyi kuyenza.