Kungekho ixesha elingaphantsi kweeholide elide elilindelwe-uNyaka omtsha. Iholide ekhanyayo, intsapho. Usikhuthaza ngokuqiniseka ukuba ngonyaka ozayo uza kuzalisekisa amaphupha ethu, siya kufezekisa into ebomini. Omnye uza kwenza umsebenzi ophumelelayo, umntu uya kufumana isiqingatha sesibini. Wonke umntu amaphupha kunye neengcamango zonyaka ozayo zihlukile. Ukuze wenze okwenene, ungalindelanga ummangaliso, kuyimfuneko ukuba usebenze, ujolise injongo, uqhubeke, ujabule. Into ephambili ayikuhlala ngaphandle, kwaye zonke izicwangciso ziya kuza kuwe.
Ewe, evekeni leholide ngokwabo kuyimfuneko ukuzonwabisa ngokusuka entliziyweni, ukulibala malunga neengxaki kunye nokuthuka. Sonke sinesitoktho senjabulo, okwesibini silungele ukwabelana nehlabathi kunye. Zingaphi iholide ngamnye kuthi?
Khawucinge nje: unikwe iphosta evuywayo, imifanekiso ehlekisayo, ehlotshiswe ngeentyatyambo kunye neebhola. Usuku lonke uyancomela lo dalo lwabalingane (basekhaya), kwaye ke lixesha lokulibeka endaweni ethile. Beka kwi-oda elandelelanayo?
- Hlala kwindawo evelele. Yaye-yintoni-enhle, ehle, masibe nomoya wonke!
- Beka ekhoneni lakho ukuze kungabikho mntu oza kuwuphonsa emehlweni akhe.
- Beka etafileni ukuze ubukele ixesha lexesha.
- Faka efakelini, kwi-stack ye memorabilia, ukuze kungabikho sipho esonakalisiweyo.
Iholide imihla ngemihla
Abantu balolu hlobo banomdla kunye nehlobo langaphandle lemibala ekhethekileyo yokuziphatha: phantse onke amaxesha athazela, ihlazo, ukuthetha. Umthombo onokuphela ongahlaliyo wovuyo ngokwakho, kunye nalabo abasondeleyo. Kubonakala ngathi ubukho babo bufana nokungakhathali. Kodwa njani ngokwenene? Abafazi abanjalo, ngokwenene ngendlela, baxabisa isimo sengqondo esibalulekileyo ebomini kwabanye, ngokuqhelekileyo bonke abafazi baya kubayeni abanomdla onzima, nobunzima. Ngethamsanqa, amandla abo okonwaba apheliyo. Ngona ibali labangane malunga nosapho lwentlanzi ye vih izandi zandile njenge-anecdote.
Uneholide enkulu kunabantu abaninzi
Kodwa ngaphandle akusoloko ebonakalayo - awuyena mntu ovulekileyo. Ukongezelela, xa kufika i-grey days, oku kubonakala kukudumala kunye nokuqala kweqela elimnyama. Kwaye abantu abajikelezileyo bahlala becinga ukuba baphanga yonke into ... Kubalulekile ukuba bawachazele: ezi zinto zihamba ngokukhawuleza nje, uhlobo lokuphumla kwenkqubo ye-nervous. Kwaye kucacile ngakumbi ukubonisa imimoya yakho ephakamileyo. Kwaye iholide iya kubonakala.
Iholide ayanele - kufuneka sibe nokuningi
Kwaye kwimeko enzulu yomphefumlo omncinci, xa umntu enethemba lokuphila, elonwabileyo kunye nokulula. Kukho izinto ezingaphazanyanga (ukuzonwabisa, ukunxulumana nabahlobo, ezemidlalo), kodwa ke, kungekudala. Ubomi bokuba "ixesha lexesha" njani kunye nevakalelo zeeholide? Ukuze wenze oku, kufuneka ulungise imeko yolonwabo olupheleleyo, khumbula, kwaye emva kweveki yabuya kweli lizwe uze uzame ukuyifumana kwakhona.
Iholide "ngezinyembezi emehlweni"
Usuku lokuzalwa luliholide elibuhlungu, kuba uneminyaka elidala. Unyaka omtsha liholide elibuhlungu ngenxa yokuba umntwana ukhunjulwa. Abanye bathi akukho nto ... Ukutshatyalaliswa kwenjabulo kwenzeka ngokungafanekiyo ukuba bayothuka: "Kutheni ndiyonwaba? Akunjalo." Uloyiko aluxhomekeke kuphela kwiimpawu zobuntu, kodwa kunye nokuzithoba Umntu obunzulu bomphefumlo uyaqiniseka ukuba "njengaye" akafanelekanga iholide. Oku kuvimbela ubudlelwane nabanye - akukho themba. Zama ukubheka ihlabathi ngokuhlukileyo! Ukongeza nje umsebenzi wobomi, kokubili ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, kwaye ngentla ubambe intloko, kwaye ngokoqobo.