Kodwa zizathu ezizodwa zokutyelela ezi ziko zihluke. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abaselula, kunye namadoda, beza kudibana nentombazana okanye ibhinqa okanye nje ukushiya abahlobo. Kodwa kutheni kutheni amantombazana efika apho - kunzima kakhulu. Emva koko, akumangalisi, kodwa ezininzi iindwendwe zisemantombazana.
Ngoko, masiqale ukuqonda. Okokuqala, ininzi yamantombazana a tyelela la maziko ayedwa, kwaye umntu unokucinga ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba injongo yakhe ephambili kukufuna umngane okanye iqabane. Kodwa ixesha elide okanye cha, yonke into ilapha apha. Omnye unelungelo lokudlala ngothando ngokuhlwa kwamanye, umntu uya kuba nolunye ubusuku obuthatywe bodwa, kodwa umntu ufuna udlelwane obude. Nangona amantombazana amaninzi ayazi ukuba kwii-nightclub ukufumana umntu (okanye umntu) ubuhlobo obuzinzileyo nozinzileyo kunzima kakhulu, akukho phantse, kodwa, njengoko besithi, ithemba lifa lokugqibela. Abanye abantu bacinga, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ndiza kuba nethamsanqa, kunye nolwazi lwam engaqhelekanga luya kuba luphela kwaye luyingqayizivele ukuba ndilindele ubomi bam bonke.
Okwesibini, kukho uhlobo lwamantombazana afika kwiiklabhu ukuze azibonise. Ukukhangela umlingane onokuthi ungasemva, kwaye ngaphambili u-"I". Njengomthetho, loo nto intombazana igqoka ngokukhawuleza, kwaye oku akunjalo. Yonke intombazana iyazi indlela yokuzibonakalisa yona, yintoni eyoyayiqwalasela. Ngamanye amazwi, bafuna ukuzithokozisa ukuzithemba kwabo okanye bazibonele ngokwazo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ukungafani, abanye bengazange bafunde zonke iziqhelo kunye nokugqithisa kancane intonga kunye nokwenza iingubo, ezinokubangela ukuba abalandeli abangafuneki. Ngokuqhelekileyo la ma ntombazana aya kwiinkampani zabahlobo kwaye ngamnye wabo uzama ukubonisa into engcono kunabanye. Abaninzi bakholelwa (kubandakanywa namantombazana) ukuba akukho buhlobo bentombi. Kukho ukutyhutyana kwexeshana okanye isivumelwano sokungabikho kokunyanzelisa.
Okwesithathu, kukho inxalenye encinane yamantombazana ahamba kwiinkampani zobusuku, nje ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabahlobo (nangona ezi ziimeko ezinqabileyo, kodwa zikhona). Ngokuqhelekileyo iinjongo zabo eziphambili zidansa, ukuphazamiseka emsebenzini kunye neengxaki, kwaye nje ukufumana ukuzonwabisa okungenxulumene nokufumana isoka okanye ukubeka "I" kumboniso.
Ewe, kukho abathile abathile, abasithi bodwa okanye babe nolwalamano olusisigxina okanye batshata. Ngokuqhelekileyo bahambela iiklabhu kunye namadoda okanye amadoda abo. Kodwa ... kwenzeka ngaphandle kwabo. Ukuba ahambelani namalingane abo, banokuthi baxhomekeke ekudibaniseni kunye nentombi engasese okanye ngokukhawuleza, ngenxa yeengxabano (edla rhoqo) okanye esinye isizathu.
Ngokwemvelo, le nkqutyana yamantombazana inokufanekisa kwaye ingacacanga. Abantu banabantu ngabanye, kwaye nangona kunjalo, isiqingatha sabantu besibalo sehlabathi, ngaphezu koko, amantombazana awanakulinganiswa kwaye ayimangalisa. Ngamanye amaxesha awazi into abayifunayo kwaye abakwazi ukuqikelela izenzo zabo. Kwaye kunzima ukuyihlanganisa ngezinye iindidi. Intombazana nganye (ibhinqa) iyingqayizivele kwaye ayinakulinganiswa, phantsi kwesinye sezenzo zakhe ayikwazi ukufihla into ebonakalayo phezu komhlaba. Ngaphezu koko, akunakwenzeka ukucacisa isizathu salo okanye into eyenziwa ngumntu ofayo (nangona kunjalo nangomntu).