Ukukhwabanisa kwabasetyhini

Ngoku kukho uninzi lweencwadi, ezichaza izifundo zokukhohlisa amabhinqa. Uninzi lwamantombazana bacinga ukuba kufuneka bafunde amaqela amanqaku kwaye baya kuphumelela. Emva kokufunda inqaku lethu kude kube sekupheleni, malunga nokukhwabanisa kwabesetyhini, unokwenza i-zakadrit nayiphi na indoda oyithandayo.

Kukho iindlela ezithile zokukhohlisa, apho ungayifumana khona indlela yokusebenzisa isini esahlukileyo. Kwakhona, unokubangela ukuba iqabane lakho libe nesithakazelo ngokwesini, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kuthandana naye.

Ndiyabulela amehlo akho, ungathumela ezininzi iimpawu. Ngokuncedwa kweso, unokubonisa ukungaxhasi, umsindo, ukunyamezela, okanye ukutsala umntu ukukhangela umntu nokumcekisa. Khangela, oku kuyingxenye ebalulekileyo yokukhohlisa kwakho.

Ukuba unomdla kumlingane onokuthi, bonise ubukeka obude nabafundi abahlanjululwe. Mjonge kumgama kwaye ukuba ngokukhawuleza ubambe iliso lakhe, thatha amehlo akho ngephondo.

Kwakhona unokubhenela kwizinto eziphathekayo. Yilapho umfazi ebonisa isandla sakhe kumntu. Kungcono ukwenza oku xa ubhema okanye uthabathe iglasi. Ukuba uyamthanda umntu, ungamcekisa ngokubeka imilenze yakho ibe mkhulu kakhulu kunokoqobo. Xa uhamba, uguqa izikhwepha zakho ngaphezu kwexesha eliqhelekileyo. Khanyula umlomo wakho kwaye uswayine ulwimi lwakho emlonyeni wakho, lo mqondiso uthathwa njengesenzo esichukumisayo.

Kwakhona unokwenza ukuba ukhangele ekufeni. Ngexesha le ncoko, bonisa umlingane wakho okwangoku unomdla kakhulu kuwe. Gxininisa yonke imbono yakho kwiqabane lakho kwaye ujonge ngqo kwiso. Zama ukufaka into ekuqinisekiseni ukuba yonke into ayithethayo iyandile kwaye iyingqayizivele.

Zama ukuthetha ngakumbi malunga neqabane lakho. Mbuze malunga nomsebenzi wakhe, izinto ezithandwayo, imikhwa. Zama ukuzicingela njengengxelo-ntatheli, kodwa zama ukungafuni ukunyaniseka kwaye unomdla. Ukunyamekela umbuzo ngamnye.

Ungesabi ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zakho. Bonisa ukuvunywa kwakho kunye nokunyaniseka kumlingane wakho.

Zama ukubiza igama lakhe rhoqo. Esinye isazi sezengqondo saqinisekiswa ukuba igama lakhe livakala ngokungapheli.

Ukuba unomzuzwana, thintela iqabane lakho ukuba ngaba ngengozi. Ngokuqhayisa kunye nokuthintela, ukuqhagamshelana okukhethekileyo kwenkwenkwezi yabesifazane.

Unokuchaza ezininzi malunga nokukhohliswa kwabasetyhini. Umfazi ngamnye kufuneka afumane ezi mpawu aze afunde ukudukisa nantoni na.

Ngoku unako ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni inkohliso yowesifazane nendlela yokwenza ngayo.