Kuthekani ukuba umntu wakho unomdla?

Akukho nto ebhetele kunokuba nekratshi. Kule ndawo awukwazi ukuthatha nantoni na. Ezi zinto zivame ukuthabatha ukuba zijonge njenge-egoists kwaye zithetha abantu. Akusiwo onke amabhinqa akulungele ukwakha ubudlelwane nomntu onjalo. Kodwa ngaphambi kokwakha ubudlelwane, kufuneka uqaphele. Yaye yintoni yokwenza loo nto kufuneka yazi, ukuze ingangeni kwi "mgibe".

Iimpawu eziphambili ze-avarice zinokumiselwa koqoqosho olugqithiseleyo. Unqwenela ukudla ekhaya, kunokuhamba nawe kwindawo yokutyela ukuze ube nesidlo sothando. Endaweni yokukuyisa ekhaya kwikheksi, unokukhetha ukuhamba. Kuya kukunika isinyithi okanye i-kettle endaweni yezipho zothando, uzigwebise ukuba ezi zinto zibaluleke ngakumbi kuneentyantyambo okanye ngeposi. Kwaye kukho izinto ezinjalo azinganiki izipho kuwe nantoni kwaye unqabile ukubeka ingqalelo kwizinto ezintle.

Ngoku sichaza ukuhaha komntu kwiindawo ezithile.

Kukho amadoda anokratshi ngokwemvelo, ewe. banqwenela ukutya ukutya okubizayo kunye nokuhlwaya, kuphela kunomntu, okanye bazigqoka kakhulu, kodwa abayichitha ipenny kwiqabane lawo. Ngaloo mntu ungavuma ukuba uyakuthanda kunye naye.

Kukho namadoda awanomdla kuphela, kodwa athetha. Baziva bezisola ngokuchitha yonke ipenki kunye nabo ngokwabo. Unqwenela ukuhamba ngeebhulukhwe ezindala ezinokugqithisa kunokuba uthenge enye entsha. Ngomntu onjalo unokuhlala kuphela ngumfazi othethileyo. Nangona akukho uthando alukwazi ukugcina umtshato nomntu onjalo.

Kukho namadoda anjalo anomvuzo omncinci kunye neemfuno zokuxhasa intsapho, abazali. Ngoko uqala ukulondoloza ukuze aphile. Ngaloo madoda ungaphila ngokuthula, kuba imeko enjalo ayikwazi ukuhlala ixesha elide. Umonde kuphela unokugcina umtshato naye.

Indoda ekuphatha kuphela umama ophekiweyo okanye umntu ovela kwintsapho yakho yokutya, ngelixa engafuni ukusebenzisa imali ukuthenga enye into, ithathwa njengeyaneleyo. Ude uziva uxolo ngokuhlanganyela nomnye umntu, ngaphandle kowe ngaphandle kwakho. Ngomntu onjalo akunakwenzeka ukuphila, kungcono ukuhlala kude nabantu abanjalo.

Kukho amadoda asindisa kwizothutho, indlu, indlu, ezama ukugcina imali ethile. Ngayo yonke ipensenti oyichithayo, kuya kufuneka uyixelele. Yaye ke, akayi kuyaneliswa yile meko. Ngaloo mntu ungaphila, kodwa konke kuxhomekeka kumfazi, ngaba ulungile.

Amadoda anjalo akwenzeki ukutshintsha. Ukuba ibhinqa likulungele ukuthatha uxanduva olupheleleyo lolwalamano kunye nabo, mvumele ahlale naye phantsi kophahla olulodwa. Konke kuxhomekeke kuwe, ngaba ulungele ukuwamkela njengolu hlobo kunye nokungenakulungiswa.