Awunakuphika, nangona kunjalo, ukuba abantwana bahluke. Ayikho yonke i-karapuz elula ngokukhawuleza ekukhohliseni, ukuphazamisa iindlela kunye nezinye iindlela zobubele. Kubalulekile kungekhona nje "kwisiphambeko esingaphambili", kodwa qwalasela zonke iimpawu zomntwana wakho. Umzuzu obaluleke kakhulu ekunciphiseni kwi-pacifier ngumntwana womntwana. Kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo okokuba, ngaphandle kweminye imizamo iya kutshabalalisa, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha unobungozi kwakha nokwakheka kwengqondo yomntwana wakho. Kwaye akusikho ukunyanisela.
Ukusuka kwi-6months ukuya kunyaka
Ukusuka kwelinye icala - eli lixesha elihle lokufunda kwi-pacifier. Kulo thuba ukucoca kunokwenzeka ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi - umntwana uqala ukusika amazinyo, uqala ukondla, okukhokelela kwiingxaki ezintsha kunye nesisu, kodwa ubuthongo nokulala ngeli xesha liyakushintsha. Iimpawu ezingenakukhunjulwa, kwaye nanko zizama ukunciphisa umthandayo wazo-ezininzi zazo azikwazi ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke ezi zinto. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuphosa i-pacifier ngaphandle kwefestile, ukubona indlela umntwana ehlupheka ngayo ngaphandle kokukhetha. Yintoni endiyenzayo?
Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ngeli xesha ukuba zenzele umntwana amasiko amnandi. Ingakumbi ixhalabisa ukulala. Isisombululo esifanelekileyo sisilandelayo: umntwana wahlamba, walala embhedeni, wavala ukukhanya okuphezulu, washiya ubusuku obuthandayo ukukhanya, wahlala phantsi kwakhe, wambetha ngobumnene, wahlabelela ingoma. Bonke ngabanye, kodwa ngabanye abantwana bafana - iirekhodi ziyabanceda. Kakade, akufuneki kubekho i-dummy kweso siko. Ndikholelwe, umntwana akanakudinga kakhulu le ngxube yeplastiki, ngokude efuna izandla zakhe unina, ukufudumala nokuthandana kwakhe. Ukuba uya kuba kufuphi nathi, kunye nomphefumlo, ukuba uya kuphazamisa uxolo kunye nothando - wakho omncinci uya kuzincama kwaye alele ebuthongweni ngaphandle kwe-pacifier.
Abantu abaninzi bancedwa ngenguqu kwiimeko. Unokwenza, umzekelo, uhambe ku-ugogo ngeveki, kunye ne-pacifier nje "ukulibala" ekhaya. Kwiimeko ezintsha, phakathi "kwendawo" engaqhelekanga loo mntwana unyaka omnye uyalibala into engayiboni rhoqo phambi kwamehlo akhe. Kamva, loo ndlela isenokungasebenzi, kodwa kule minyaka - umgaqo "ngokukrakra ...". Ewe, nangaphezulu: abantwana abancinci baninzi kakhulu kwi-meteozavisimy. Bambalwa abantu abazi, kodwa basabela kwiinguqu zenkqubela zonyaka kunamandla kunabantu abadala. Kwiintsuku zakudala abantu abazizilumko bathi: "Musa ukuqala izinto ezibalulekileyo ebusika." Namhlanje, izazinzulu ziye zabonakalisa ezilungileyo ngala mazwi. Ngeli xesha lonyaka, abantwana sele bexinekelele iingxaki - ukunciphisa usuku lokukhanya, ukunciphisa inani lokuhamba, nokunciphisa umzimba. Ungongezi kuloo nto, kunye nokucwina kwimbalo. Yenza ngokukhawuleza, okanye ukunyamezela ubunzima. Mhlawumbi, ngelo xesha, isigaba esilandelayo sokuqhawulwa komzimba siya kuza. Apha kunye namaqhinga ayahluka.
Ukususela kunyaka omnye ukuya kwiminyaka emibini
Umntwana sele sele eqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba kukho i-dummy endlwini, ukuba iyamnandi, iyancipha kwaye ingacelwa kumama kunini na. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ngeli xesha kukwazisa umntwana we-pacifier ngokukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza xa ehlaba. Zama ukuqinisekisa umculo ngenye indlela. Eyona ndlela iyona mgaqo wokuphazamiseka okanye ukutshintsha ingqalelo. Ingxowa ngexesha lokungahambi kahle linikezelwa kumntwana kuphela kwiimeko zokudinga kakhulu - xa ngokukhawuleza uyamoyika ngento ethile, xa engaphilile okanye xa ediniwe, kodwa akakwazi ukulala. Ngokukhawuleza emva kokuyeka ukukhala okanye ukulala ubuthongo, ingono kufuneka isuswe.
Kule minyaka, umntwana akayikwakhela iminyango enobomi obude. Ngeke akwazi ukukhumbula umlutha wakhe kwintsimbi ukuba akayi kumbona rhoqo phambi kwamehlo. I-Kid izakufunda ngokukodwa ukuzonwabisa nezinye izinto-ukuthetha nomama, imidlalo, ukunxibelelana okuthe ngqo kunye neetys. Le ndlela yokugqibela, ngendlela, yindlela engcono kakhulu yokondla umntwana osiswini ngaphambi kokulala. Umhlobo onobuqhetseba obusondelene nam emkhunjini ungandichukumisi ngakumbi kunokuba ndiyasondeza i-pacifier. Abantwana bathanda ukuthulula, i-nasknuvshis impumlo kwibhere elifudumeleyo lebhedi okanye i-kitten. Kuyingozi ukubeka umntwana ngendlela enjalo, kodwa ngeli xesha - nceda nceda.
Emva kweminyaka emibini
Kulo nyaka unomntwana sele eqonda umkhwa kwaye umama kufuneka azame "ukudlala". Akukho ndlela yokufihla loo dummy - umntwana uyazi ukuba "i-sauce" ayithandayo yindawo ethile, ukuba akafuni umdlalo okanye icookie, kodwa nguye. Yintoni uMama ayenzayo? Yitsho intsana inkcazo yexabiso elidabukisayo, okwangoku naye ufuna i-pacifier, njengoko kwakunyanzelekile xa wayemncinci kakhulu. Uze ufumane i-dummy dummy ngokupheleleyo apha, uyakhala, uyadabukisayo kwaye akabi. Abantwana banomusa ngokwemvelo, imfesane inokusombulula yonke ingxaki kuwe.
Ngaba ufuna ukukhawuleza inkqubo yokucoca? Yenza oku ngokucophelela ngokunokwenzeka. Zama ukuba "ulahlekelwe" kwi-pacifier ekhaya, jonga oko kuza kwenzeka. Ukuba umntwana uqala ukuhlambalaza ngokwenene - ngokukhawuleza "fumana" ukulahleka. Ngokuqinisekileyo i-crumb inomnqweno onokuyenza.
Phakamisa ukuba ufumene oko uMfunwa akufunayo, okuya kwenza ukuba iphupha lakhe lizaliseke ngokubuyisela i-pacifier. Mhlawumbi umntwana uya kuba neentloni kangangokuthi uya kukulibala nge-ingono ngosuku olufanayo. Unokuzama kunye neendlela ezigqithiseleyo - ukusika i-pacifier ngeesisi (kuphela kungekhona kwintlongo). Ngokwenza njalo, xelela umntwana ukuba zonke izinto zakudala ziphangiwe ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, xa ziyeka ukufuneka. Yithi: "Ukhulile kakade, ingono ayisadingeki kuwe-nantsi," watsho. Ukuba umntwana akaqapheli ukuba unokuthenga enye entsha, ngokukhawuleza uza kuphelelwa ngumdla kwi-dummy.
Nantsi enye indlela: "ungalimaza" i-dummy ngokuthe ngcembe, unqumle kuye kancinci imihla ngemihla, de kubekho i-ringlet kuphela. Kuzo zonke iimbuzo zomculo, phendula ukuba unina-nyamakazi-mntwana wayefuna ipilisi kubantwana bakhe abancinci, ngoko ke wayidonsa ingono yakhe.
Mhlawumbi i-crumb for some time this ring will carry with it, nokuba ulale nayo, kodwa ngokuthe ngcembe umkhwa uya kulibala. Ukuba intsapho inomntwana omncinci, kufuneka ucele omdala ukuba anike umntwana umntwana ingono. Yithi intsimbi encinci ilahlekile ngokukhawuleza, kwaye inkulu kakhulu ukuyenza ngaphandle kwayo. Gxininisa kulo "sele usukhulu," kodwa usho ngokuziqhenya, ngendlela yokudumisa, kungekhona ngendlela yokuthotywa: "Ehta, inkulu kakhulu, kwaye ucele uncela."
Kubalulekile ukukhulisa ukupheliswa komntwana, ngokweminyaka yakhe. Lo ngumgaqo omkhulu. Ngomncinci wonyaka, ugxininiso lufanele lube kwiingcamango zakhe kunye neemfuno zendalo, ukuya kwiminyaka emibini-ukukhohliswa ngobuqili, emva kokubini-ukuzama ukuxoxisana. Kwaye kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba bonke abantwana bahluke ngokupheleleyo. Musa ukuhamba malunga neengcamango ezivunyiweyo ngokubanzi, imimiselo ethile kunye nemithetho emiselweyo. Mamela intliziyo yengane yakho - ayiyi kukhohlisa kwaye ayiyi kuphelelwa