Musa nje ukukhawuleza ukuphendula ngokukrakra "hayi!" Oku kuya kuba ngamanye amanga. Kuqikelelwa ukuba umphakamo omdala ohlala e-megalopolis ulala kabini kwisithuba seyure. Ngokutsho kweengcali zeengqondo, ukukwazi ukuthetha into engeyonyani enye yezinto eziphambili zomntu njengezilwanyana eziphilayo ezahlula kuye zonke izidalwa eziphilayo. Ngokungazange idlulele kwinqanaba elitsha lokuziphendukela kwemvelo kwaye likwazi ukuthetha intsebenziswano, umntu okhaliphile wafunda ngokukhawuleza ngokuncedisa inyaniso. Nangona, ukuba ukhetha kakhulu, ungacinga ukuba ubuxoki bufundiswa yinyoka engenakukhohlisa eyadukisa uAdam noEva. Kodwa inyaniso ihlala: umntu ulele ukususela ngomzuzu waba ngumntu. Nawe? Ngaba uyathanda ukuthetha amanga - ndixelele ngokunyanisekileyo?
Hayi, kodwa akunjalo? Kwaye awuzange uhambe ngaphandle kwetikiti ebomini bakho? Ngaba abazange bathethe ukuba lakho iqabane alikho ekhaya xa elele ngesilalo phambi kweTV? Ngaba awunacacise kubaphathi bakho ukuba ucela usuku ngenxa yokuba ugogo ugula? Ngaba awuzange uxelele umntakwabo osandul 'uzalwe ngetoni yesithati ebonisa ubomvu obomvu obomvu ngamehlo amancinci ngumntwana onobubele owake wambona? Kwaye umntwana malunga neGrey Wolf kunye noMalume kunye nengxowa, naye, akazange axelelwe? Mhlawumbi, phakathi kwethu, kukho omnye okanye ababini abameli besizwe sengozini yabathandekayo benyaniso abaphendula ngokunyanisekileyo "akukho" kuyo yonke le mibuzo. Abo baphendula umbuzo othi "Unjani na?" Iinkcukacha malunga nazo zonke iimpembelelo zobomi bakhe bunzima; ngokunyanisekileyo kwaye ngokuzithandela uyazisa abaphathi beengxaki zonke zenkampani; ukusuka entliziyweni yakhe uya kuba novelwano nomhlobo engazange abone ixesha elide, ukuba "ukhule kakhulu"; ukucebisana nommelwane wakhe ukuba akhethe isimbolo sengubo, esilungele ukufikelela kwimilenze efanelekileyo; Andiyi kufihla kumama onzima kangangokuthi, ngokuchasene neengxelo zogqirha, ayikho igastritis kuwo onke ...
Enyanisweni, abo balwela inyaniso ngesizathu esithile abasithandi ngokwenene kuluntu oluhloniphekileyo, bebiza ngokuba bangacacanga, banobucayi, banobuqili, abachazi. Kodwa awanalo ngabathandekayo bokwenene ngoku, kodwa ngathi, abantu abafayo kuphela, ngubani oya kuvela, akanako ukusinda isigxina seyure ngaphandle kokulala. Sichitha ixesha kunye nabazali nabantwana, osebenza nabo kunye nosondo, abahloli kunye nabahamba ngeendlela ezingaqhelekanga. Nangona kunjalo, ubuxoki bobuxoki buhluke: lube lumsulwa kwaye luxolelwe ngokupheleleyo kwaye luyakhayo, kwaye luyakwazi-kwaye lonakalise, luyingozi kakhulu kumntu ngokwakhe nakwabanye. Kodwa umgca phakathi komnye nomnye unobuncwane kangangokuthi akunakunqwenela ukuwuwela. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda apho umgca uhleli khona, emva koko kuvela kwiindlela eziqhelekileyo zokunxibelelana kwabantu ziba zizinto eziyingozi.
IZIMPAHLA NEENKQUBO.
Esinye sezizathu eziqhelekileyo zobuxoki basemakhaya-umnqweno wokunciphisa isithuba sabo sengqondo esivela kwi-invasion. Kukho konke okwenzekayo ebomini bethu, kufuneka kube yipropati yabantu abasondeleyo. Kutheni uxelele umama malunga nokuxabana nentanda yakho? Kuphela ukuze uphinde uve: "Emva koko, ndakuxwayisa! ..?"? Ngaba kulula ukuthetha ukuba yonke into imangalisa? Tshela iqabane malunga ne-romance esichukumisayo ekunteni kwentsha yobunzima? Ukuba izicwangciso zakho azibandakanyi kuzo zonke iingxabano ukuphulaphula uhlazo malunga nalo mba Abazange bathande nabani na, bafuna ubomi babo bonke, balinda baze banethemba.
Umnqweno wethu wokuhlala ukhangeleka, uncinci, umncinci kunokuba sinyani, ngokwenene, ayikho into engaphezu komnqweno wokwakha uhlobo lomda. Ewe, ngubani okhathalelayo, ukuba sineminyaka engakanani ngokwenene, sinjani ubunwele obunzulu kwaye bunjani ububanzi bezinqeni zethu, siyeke ukuba siziphephe ngokomoya kunye nokutya?
Ngexesha elide, umntu ufuna nje ukuba ahlale yedwa, aphume kwisiqhelo sobomi. Emsebenzini, zithi ugula, lakho iqabane - ukuba emsebenzini akuyona into enkulu. Ukuze kungabi namnye owaziyo ukuba ungaphi, i-luxury engenakufikeleleka ngentsingiselo yokuphila namhlanje. Ukushiya ekuseni kusasa ukusuka ekhaya, cima iselula kwaye ... uye kwi-cinema, cafe, kwindawo yokuthenga, ujikeleze ezitalatweni, into eyona nto kukuba akukho mntu uyazi apho sikhona. Awucingi ukuba uvakalelwa? Kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuhlushwa isazela sakho ukuba umyeni othembekileyo kunye nomphathi okhohlakeleyo uye wawa lixhoba lobuxoki! Ukuba usuvele uthathe ixesha elingagunyazisiweyo - ujonge ubomi bakho bonke. Kodwa umda wendawo yakho yangasese awukhuselwanga nguwe kuphela: kwicala elincinane - umlindi onamandla, ogama lakhe lingumzekelo wokuziphatha. Emsebenzini, sonke sinyanzeliswa ukuba sizenzele ngandlela-thile: ukumncumo kubantu abangonwabiyo, bathande inxaxheba ezintweni ezingathandekiyo, bathethe okulungileyo, kungekhona oko ufunayo, gqoka oko kwamkelekileyo, kungekhona into oyithandayo. Ingaba sifuna okanye akunjalo, siyanyanzelekile ukuba siyithobele le mithetho, kunye neminqweno yeso sijongene nayo, kunye neminqweno yethu yomsebenzi. Ngokunyanisekileyo inokuthi ibango kuphela yindlalifa yabendlukazi.
LIE UKUNCEDA.
Hayi, hayi, asikhulumi ngelungu leKomsomol uZoya, owalondoloza ilizwe lakhe. Saphinda sithande ngathi, bathandekayo. Ukulibala malunga nomnxeba wefowuni, sinokuthi sixoxe ngebhetri esele ihleli, ibuyele emva komsebenzi, sitsho ukuba sinamathela kwi-jam yokuhamba. Esikhundleni sokuvuma ukuba bavele banqumla. Emva kokulahlekelwa izicwangciso okanye amaxwebhu, mhlawumbi, siya kukhononda kumfazi wendlu esiye sakhupha kuwo. Kutheni? Ewe, ngoko, ukwenzela ukuba ungangonakalisi umsebenzi wakho (ukuqhuma kwendlela ye-traffic kwi-metropolis yisona sizathu esivakalayo sokukhawuleza, ukuba asixhatshazwayo). Musa ukucaphukisa umhlobo okanye iqabane lomashishini: ngubani ovuyayo ukuva ukuba awunamdla kwimeko, ekufuneka ubize, ukuba ungakulibala? Kungcono kungekhona ibali elikholisayo malunga nebhethri eye yagonywa, ekugqibeleni, kungeyiyo into yokuhleka usulu kunye nokuhlambalaza: nantsi le ndodana, iphinda ilahlekelwe yesikhwama!
Ngaba ucinga ukuba lo ngumntu oqhelekileyo ukwesaba? Unako, kunjalo, uthetha njalo. Kodwa isisiseko sokuzigcina esilungileyo kuzo zonke izinto eziphilayo, kwaye nayiphi na umntu, eyazi ukuba unenkathazo, uya kuzama ukuwaphepha ngazo zonke iindlela. Kukho imeko xa ufanele uxoke kunye nokunceda izihlobo zakho. Ngaba uyabona ukuba umntwana usebenza ngokugqithiseleyo esikolweni kwaye ufuna ukuhlala usuku okanye ezimbini ekhaya? Kakade ke, nawuphi na umama onengqiqo oza kumxelisa umntwana ngekhefu elincinane. Kwaye ke, ngaphandle kokufumana ukuzisola ngokuthetha amanga, ubhala ngokukhawuleza kwintetho kum utitshala wam: unyana wam ulahlekelwa izifundo ngenxa yentloko. Inokwenzeka ukuba, utitshala uyazi ukuba uxoxe ngamanga: naye unabantwana abafuna ukunqumla izifundo ngezikhathi ezithile ... Ukuba indoda yomhlobo ongcono ibuza ngokuhlwa, ukuba ungenayo, ngethuba, , ngokukhawuleza wagijima ukuze alondoloze uvuyo lwakhe, wathi: "Kakade, kunjalo! Wayephethe umsi ebhaleni! Ngoku uyeza kwakhona! ", Siza kukhawuleza ukubiza umnxeba kwiselula.
KUPHEPHA LWE-LIE.
Ngeliphi iphuba, ubuxoki bendawo yasekhaya, ukulungiselela ihostele kunye nokunciphisa iimeko zongquzulwano, buya kuba buxoki obuphantsi? Mhlawumbi, xa umntu eqala ukulala ngenjongo yokufumana inzuzo kunye nokucebisa, xa ubuxoki bakhe bungabangela ukuziphatha kakubi kwabanye. Ngaba ucinga ukuba ngaba ngabantu abangcolileyo abaxhatshazwayo abangabakho kwiindawo ezilungileyo? Uphosakele! Akuqhelekanga kubantu abazicingayo ukuba bahloniphekile kwaye bahloniphekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha basebenzisa le "sixhobo" kubini kunye nakubomi bomntu. Ukuthungela inkohliso engcolileyo malunga neqabane lamashishini okanye ukhuphiswano, unike isithembiso esingaqinisekanga sokufumana izibonelelo ezikhawulezileyo, "ukuboleka" ingcamango yomnye umntu, ukuboleka imali, ukwazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba akunakukwazi ukuwabuyisela, ukukopela okufutshane kunye namaxwebhu emali - abaninzi baya kungekho kanye, ngelixa beqhubeka bevuyela idumela labantu abathembekileyo, abahloniphekileyo. Kukho ii-virtuosos zangempela ezikwazi ukukhokela ukuba zingabikho ziphindwe kabini kodwa ziphila ngokuphindwe kabini: zihlala kanye kunye namaqabane amaninzi, zisebenza kwiifom ezikhuphisanayo. Ngelo xesha, abaninzi abaxoki bahlala bekwazi ukugcina udumo lwabo iminyaka kunye namashumi eminyaka. Ukubamba umqambimanga ongeke kwenzeke: entloko yakhe, kubonakala ngathi ikhompyutha eyakhelwe ngaphakathi ibala yonke ikhefu yomdlalo wakhe wokudibanisa. Ukuba udibana nomlinganisi onjalo endleleni, hlala kude naye, kwaye uzame ukungasebenzisi ezo ndlela ngokwakho. Nangona ngaphandle-i-virtuosos lamanga ibonakala ngokuvuya kakhulu, abahlali bengathuthuzelwa ngaphakathi. Ingqiqo eqhubekayo (kunye nawuphi na umqambimanga uyazi kakuhle ukuba uyaphula umda wento evumelekileyo) kwaye ukwesaba ukutyhila kubangele ukuxinezeleka, iingxaki. Yaye xa iinjongo ezithandwayo zifezekile, ayiyi kuzisa uvuyo kunye nokwaneliseka.
BANTWANA BE KOLONI YEVRUNGEL.
Abantwana esiyiyo, ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuba kutheni sikwenza oku. Kungenxa yokuba wonke umntu wenza. Ngenxa yokuba kulula. Kutheni ukukholisa, ukuphazamisa, ukukholisa, xa unokukhohlisa into encinane! "Akuyi kuba buhlungu," sitsho kwintsana kwenyango loogqirha, nangona siyazi ngokuqinisekileyo oko kuza kwenzeka. "Ndiza kubuya ngokukhawuleza!" - siyathembisa kwaye siyanyamalala usuku lonke. "Uza kufunda kakuhle, ndiza kukuthenga inja!" - sishumayela ngesibindi. Kwaye xa umntwana ebonisa ngokuziphakamisa idayari "ezintlanu", siqala ukuchazela ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba inja iya kufuneka ilinde ngokungapheliyo: intsapho inembopheleleko enjalo. Sinoyikisa uBaba Yaga noTatomkhulu ngesikhwama, sitshela ibali malunga neNtombazana ephantsi kweplate kunye neSorkork ezisa abantwana. Kwaye asiyikucinga ukuba kwelinye elide kumhla ogqibeleleyo umntwana uya kuqonda ukuba uhlala kwindawo engamanga. Ukuthi umama, uphenduka, uphuma kwizitebhisi ukuba ungathathi udoti ngaphandle, kodwa ukutshaya ukuba ugogo akazange aye kwesinye isixeko, kodwa wafa, ukuba iSanta Claus inesilevu ngomtya, kwaye i-stork ayiyi kuzisa abantwana.
Akukubi nokuba umntwana, oqhelekileyo ukusuka ebuntwaneni ukuya ekuqambeni amanga, uya kuzalisa umkhosi wabangqina abadala ngexesha. Okubi ngakumbi. Umntwana unokuziva ekhuselekile kuphela xa ethembele ekungathelekeni ngokupheleleyo kwabazali bakhe. Ukuba umama uthetha into engekho, ufihle into ethile kuye. Oko kukuthi, ukusuka kwingqwalasela yengane, kukho ebomini bakhe into eyimfihlelo, engavunyelwe, ihlazo. Ngomntwana, oku akukona nje ukuhlambalaza, kodwa inhlekelele, inhlekelele yendalo yonke, kuba yonke into iyawa, apho ihlabathi elincinci lihlala khona. Ngoko ke, enye indlela yokuphuma: ukwenzela ukuba ungabikho kwiimeko ezibuhlungu kwaye uphulaphule ukuhlambalaza okulungileyo kwabantwana abakhulileyo, ungalokothi uxoke abantwana. Nangona ulala ngokulula. Nokuba ungazi ukuba ungathetha njani inyaniso. Nangona uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba inyaniso imonakalisa umntwana. Ngenxa yokuba ubuxoki obuncinane bubuhlungu bukhulu ngaphezu kweyona nto inzima.
Ndivuyiswa gqitha ukukhohlisa mna ...
Kodwa ubuxoki obunokonakala nobunobungozi bubuxoki. Asisichitha ixesha elininzi kunye nomnye umntu. Ixesha elithandayo indlela yethu yobomi, umsebenzi, sibalo. Ukuba umphathi uyasixhasa, kwaye ukuba akunjalo, akusona ngenxa yokuba sisebenza kakubi, kodwa kuba uyisidenge kwaye asikwazi ukusiqonda. Ukuba umyeni wakhe waya kwelinye ngenxa yokunyaniseka kwakhe kunye nokuthambekela kwamadoda isithembu, kwaye kungekhona ngenxa yobusuku bonke obukrakra kunye nesondo esingathandekiyo ngesonto. Yiyiphi ingqungquthela encinci yomsindo phantsi kweengalo yakho yayihlala kuthi kwaye ayizange ikhule ngenyanga yokugqibela. Ukwenza ubuxoki bubukeke bukholise ngakumbi, sichazela abanye, sibanika iinkcukacha ezintsha, siza nezizathu ezintsha zokufumana izilungiso ezikhoyo, sifumana abantu abaninzi abanetyala kwiingxaki zethu.
Kodwa ubuxoki bufana neziyobisi. Ukukhohlisa kuphazamisa amaninzi, kugcina kwimeko yolonwabo, kukhuthaza ukukhululwa kwe-adrenaline, ekhoyo kwizinto zayo ezinjengeendlela ezifana neengxabano. Kwaye iyakumlutha. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, umntu akakwazi ukuyenza ngaphandle kwamanga, nangona oko kumenza kube yingozi. Uyakhupha kuyo nayiphi na inxibelelwano - umlingane, umhlobo, ummelwane kwinqanaba le-dentist - kwaye uqala ukupendela kuye iinkcukacha ezimangalisayo zobomi bakhe obungabikho, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwihlabathi lakhe eliyingqiqo kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukulahlekelwa ukuthintana neqiniso. Ngenxa yoko, ubuxoki abuba yinto yesibini, kodwa luhlobo lokuqala, luyonakalisa ubuntu kwaye lukhuphe ingqondo. Abahlobo baqala ukuphulaphula ngomdla, ngoko kungakholelwa kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ngovelwano. Kwaye emva kwexesha umntu ufumene kwisigxina ngokupheleleyo: abahlobo bakhe bahluke kuye, izihlobo zakhe zihlaziyekile, abaphathi bayeka ukuthembela ubuncinane kwimicimbi ebalulekileyo. "Ngokwemvelo," ucinga ukuba, "akukho nto engabalulekanga, akukho mntu ufuna ukuyiqonda kwaye uyandiqonda, enhle, onobubele, onobuqili!" Akukho mzekelo kufuneka uvumele ukuwela kulo mgibe, kuba akukho ndlela yokuphuma kuyo. Ngoko ke, siya kufunda ukunyaniseka nathi. Siyavuma ukuba akuyiyo yonke into ebomini bethu iphephile, kwaye singaphenduliyo ngabo abajikelezileyo, kodwa thina. Kodwa asiyi kufefa iintloko zethu ngomlotha, kodwa sizibeke kwimisebenzi ecacileyo yokuphula umthetho: ukubeka amaphepha amaphepha, udlulise ingxelo, tyelela udokotela wamazinyo, wenze kunye nomama nomyeni, qalisa ukuya kwi-gym, uyeke ukulala kwabanye. Kwaye okokuqala - sonke.