Le ngxaki ayiyinto entsha, kodwa into echaseneyo imdala kakhulu. Kodwa kubonakala ngathi ngexesha lethu lingabonwa njengengxaki, ababhali kakhulu, bathetha ngokuphantse, musa ukuxoxa okanye ukugweba. Ndithetha ntoni na? Andinanto, ndithetha ntoni na? Ngokuphathelele intombazana okanye intombazana engatshoyo umama ebusheni bakhe: "Ntombi, ndikucela ukuba, ungaze udibane nabasetyhini, ngokukodwa nalabo abanabantwana, awukwazi ukwakha ulonwabo kwintlungu yomnye!"
Kwaye le ntombazana iyaqhelana nabantu abatshatileyo, kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, akunandaba nokuba yintoni, uthanda nje ubuso bakhe, kunye nokuba ayikhathalele ngaye, kuba uyazi enye aphorism: "Umfazi akayidonga, unako ukuhamba, kunye nabantwana ntoni? Akukho nto, ungumntwana, uyisiyatha, ayinangqiqo, ayonakaliswa, azigwenxa. Kwaye abantu basebenzise, baqhayisa ukuba intombazana imthanda naye, kwaye amadoda kula ma-quadrangles asekhulile amade ixesha elide. Asikhulumi ngo "bafana", abahlala behlala kwintsapho, kwaye abantwana babo sele bekhulile.
Kubonakala ngathi konke oku kulula. Izibini ezitshatileyo zibonisa kuphela uthando emishadweni, kwaye xa ubomi buqala, njengamaxesha onke umntu akayithandi into ethile, kwaye into eyona nto eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba isibini esitshatileyo asikwazi ukuhlala phantsi sixoxe ngengxaki. Ngamanye amabini kuye ngokwakhe ucinga okanye ucinge, uzama ukuphuma kwengxaki kunye nokuba ixesha libonisa njani - lodwa.
Lapha uqala ukungafuni ukubuyela ekhaya - akukho mntu ulinde, akayiyoloyo, baqala ukufumana ubudlelwane, kwaye amadoda ayabuthakathaka ngokwesini, abafuni ukufumana ubudlelwane, ukuthwala uxanduva. Ngoko ke, xa kwenzeka ukuba uqhelane nentombazana ethile, akayiqondi. Okokuqala, akazange akwazi ukuphindisela ngenxa yomfazi wakhe osemthethweni - wayekhathazekile, ngoko akazange akhumbule - kwakunokwenzeka ukuphumla kwelinye ifomathi, kwelinye inkampani, kwaye wayeka ukuza ekhaya kwaye akayi kuqiqa.
Umfazi, ngokuqinisekileyo, uye waqonda yonke into ixesha elide, kwaye abantu abalungileyo baya kufumaneka - baya kuthi, kodwa unjengokuzilungela oko, unelisekile, ungumfazi okhululwayo, ngamanye amaxesha uyamkela ngaphezu kwendoda yakhe kaninzi, eyancwina, umntwana kunye ixesha elide kwakulixesha lokuzala ... Kodwa ngokwenene, umfazi olahliwe unokuziva intlungu enzima, kuba naye wayemthanda. Ekudeni komphefumlo wakhe, uyamzonda umxhaphazi wakhe, uyamthanda yonke into eyona mbi, unqwenela ngelinye ilanga le razluchnitsa yayiya kwindawo yayo, njl. Kwaye konke oku kubomi kwenzeka njalo, kodwa umjikelo kunye namadoda atshatileyo akayeki, kutheni?
Kubuhlungu kwesi sibongo kuphela abantwana. Le ndoda nomfazi basemzini abangaqhelekanga, nokuba bahlala ndawonye kwaze kwaba ngumtshato wesiliva okanye wegolide, bahlala bengamazi. Kwaye kuphela abantwana babelana nabo, kuba ngamnye umtshato waba ngumama noyise kumntwana, owaba ngumhlobo wegazi kubo bobabini. Ngoku lo mntwana ufumana ubuninzi, ufuna ukuhlala kunye nonina noyise, uyabathanda bobabini, kodwa akukho mntu wambuza. Kwaye kulungile, ukuba ngabazali banokwanela ngokwaneleyo ukuba bangahluleli umntwana, kungabikho ukugxininisa kwimeko, ngakumbi ekubeni abantwana abakwinkulungwane yethu banokuthiwa "baphumelele", ngamanye amaxesha akudingeki ukuba bachaze nantoni na, baqonde yonke into ngokwabo, kwaye bathande abazali babo ngendlela efanayo, kwaye bazama ukulingana nabo bobabini. Upapa uletha umntwana kwintsapho yakhe entsha, ukuba ndingathetha njalo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kubhaliso, amadoda aphindaphindi, kwaye mhlawumbi akwenzi. Le ntombazana ifanelana nesihloko kwinqanaba lomfazi womntu, kwiindawo ezimbi kakhulu, kwaye ngokwenene kwakuhle kakhulu - "inkosikazi"! Ngoko ngubani ophumelele emva koko? Ndifuna ngokwenene ukwazi impendulo yalo mbuzo kumntu ngamnye othatha inxaxheba kule nqanaba, mhlawumbi unxantathu. Sishiya umntwana wedwa, nguye onzima kunabo bonke, kufuneka ahlengahlengise, aphendule umbuzo wakhe omncinci womama, emva kokuba evela kumpapa.
Kodwa andiyi kukholelwa le ntombazana-razluchnitsu, ukuba uthe ulungile. Akakwazi ukwenza into enhle, akwazi nokulungileyo nokubi, ukuba ukususela ekuqaleni wayekulungele isenzo esibi - ukutshitshisa intsapho yomnye umntu. Ngoku ukhulile, ixesha lokuzonwabisa liye ladlula, kwaye ngoku naye unokuphila ngokuqhelekileyo kwansuku zonke nale ndoda, kodwa yena ngokwakhe akayi kuvuma, nokuba yonke into ayilungile nhlobo. Kwaye umntu ohlala naye, kungekudala, xa eqala ukuxabana, ubuncinane kanye, kodwa uya kumgxeka: "Uqhekeza intsapho yam!" Kuba engqondweni yakhe le ntsapho yokuqala iya kuhlala Ukuziva kwakhe kuye kugcinwa ngumntwana amthandayo.
Mantombazana, masibuyele kumaxesha oogogo kunye nogogo, xa izenzo ezinjalo zazingenakwenzeka. Xa abafazi abanjalo beyidelela nakwabo izalamane, xa ukukhuliswa ekupheleni akuzange kuvume ukuba wenze njalo! Wayephi na? Ukuba uThixo ukunika intombi, ungakulibala ukuba umxelele ukuba akaze abe nolwalamano kunye namadoda asetshatileyo, wakuqonda oku kumava akho, kodwa akukho nto inokumiselwa.
Yenza iintombi zakho zivuyiswe, zithande, kwaye akukho mntu unesizathu sokuzilandela ukuthetha into embi, ububi nekhohlakele! Yinakekele uthando!