Kwaye kuthiwani ngamandla engokwemvelo? Njengoko isipho somdali, sijolise ngobuhle bemvelo babemi behlabathi lethu. Ubuhle akusiyo yonke imiqathango inokuqwalaselwa ngokufanelekileyo, ngokuqhelekileyo ibunjwa ngumgaqo jikelele wemfundo yabantu. Ngethuba lethu, imfashini sele ihamba phambili kwaye ayiyi kulungiswa ngobuso obumnyama, obunobumba obukhulu.
Ubuhle bemvelo ngoku buza kuqala, kwaye i-freckles ihlasele ubugcisa bobuhle beqhwithi esinokwakheka kwefashoni yanamhlanje. I-Freckles i-pigmented inclusions kwesikhumba somntu, inokufumaneka kwindawo ebomini, kunye neengalo, imilenze kunye nomthi womntu. Ininzi idla ngokubonakalayo ebuntwaneni kubantu kwaye uneminyaka engama-30 inokuphela. Ziye zahanjiswa ngokwemiqathango yemfuza yelifa. Inomdla yinyaniso ekhupha intombazana njengomthetho ayithandi abanikazi. Kodwa i-poll yentlalo iphula uluvo oluzimeleyo lwezobuhle be-caulked, i-75% yabantwana abadliwano-ndlebe bayakholelwa ukuba amantombazana, anemibala ebomvu enemibala ebomvu nephuzi emnyama, anikwe isikhalazo esinqabileyo, imfihlelo kwaye, ngokwenene, ubuhle. Ngako-ke, i-25% eseleyo yesigxina esisinyanisekileyo somntu sinokumona nje inzondelelo yesininzi.
Umzekelo ocacileyo wokubonakaliswa kwendawo yokukhwabanisa kwamantombazana kukuthandwa kakhulu kweenkwenkwezi zehlabathi ezifana neCellney Cox, uPenelope Cruz, uJodie Kidd, u-Christina Aguilera, uLindsay Lohan, uJuliane Moore, uNeve Campbell, uGisele Bundchen kunye nenani elikhulu labanye. Ngaba akuyena impendulo kumbuzo othi: "Ngaba iintlobo ezifana neentombazana zifana nentombazana"? Abazange bakrokre ukuba ukubonakala kwabo okubonakalayo kwakuza kubakholisa ukuthandwa kwamanye amazwe kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zoluntu.
Mhlawumbi, abaninzi baye babona ifilimu entsha yokuvelisa isiRashiya enikezelwe kwisihloko sokukhupha - ukutsala amantombazana enomtsalane wabo ngenxa yobusuku obunye bothando. Akunzima ukubamba ingqungquthela yenye yeendima eziphambili, umdlali we-actress ozele ulwahlulo lwazo, kunye nendawo yonke yomzimba. Kwimbali, abafana ekuqaleni babengazange babone ubuhle bayo bemvelo, kodwa emva kokunyaniseka kwabo kwi-freckled, baqonda ukuba kukho ubuhle! Eli bali libonisa ukuba mangaphi abantu abaphosakeleyo ngokunyaniseka kwabo kwaye bajonge "inyama".
Kwaye emva kwazo zonke iintsana ezisondeleyo, ngokusondeleyo, kwaye akudingekile ukuba zifune uthando kumpu ogqutywe ngumbumba kunye nokwenza umntu. Akungabazeki ukuba le ntombazana iphezulu ngamaphesenti angu-75 kuneentombi zakhe, ukutsala kunye nokukhangela umntu ehlabathini. Enoba ngabafana bafana nale statistical okanye hayi, kungabikho ukuba bathathe isigqibo, kodwa baxhamle intombazana, eqaqambileyo kunye neentsikelelo kwiitoni ezahlukahlukeneyo ukusuka ekukhanyeni kuya kumnyama!
Amandla obumnandi bama-freckles ahambelana ngokugqithisileyo kunye neentombazana ezithandekayo. Abafana bavele bahlazile ngenxa yobuhle obunjalo, bekhululekile kwaye banoluntu. Akuyona into yokuba abafana babheka ubuso kunye nomzimba wabasetyhini abaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhekileyo, kuba ukujongwa kwexesha elide kumise kwiintlobo eziluhlaza zeempawu ezikhuni.
Ekugqibeleni, ndifuna ukuqaphela ukuba iinkcukacha ziza kunceda intombazana inika ingxaki kwiintokazi ezithandekayo ezinempahla enhle. Musa ukwesaba izibi zakho, kwaye ungabalwi nabo, kholelwa nje ukuba indalo edalwe yendalo yezinto eziphilayo ayikwazi ukuba yinto engafanelekiyo, kodwa igxininisa kwaye iphindise ubuhle bakho kunye nemeko.